i love you!!!

Hi there Sapphire!

I love hearing it when I least expect it.

Call me superstitious, but I always tell my boyfriend I love him before I go to sleep. That way, if I don't wake up in the morning he'll know I loved him. He kows I love him anyway but I think it's important to say it and not just let it be taken for granted.

My boyfriend only tells me two or three times a week, and whilst I'd love to hear it more I think it makes it mean more when he does say it.

Your friend told you that his girlfriend does not like him saying "I Love You" too many times? I can't believe she is complaining about this when many women complain that men don't say it enough or hardly say it at all (and the women are right!). She should be happy he is saying it.

When I love someone, I say it often. Before getting off the phone with my husband, I say it. Before one of us leaves the house, I say it. Sometimes randomly during the day. I say it to my mother everytime I speak to her, as well as many of my friends. It's an emotion that deserves to be expressed, and often. It can come off as insincere if said too much - for instance, if he says it every half hour just randomly, I can see where that might be irritating. But honestly, if you feel it, you should say it. Don't hide it or keep it to yourself just because you're afraid of looking like a fool.

Being old and cynical, I am not bothered about hearing the words. It is easy for anyone to say them without meaning the sentiment. A declaration of love on its own is of no consequence... it's the thoughtful, caring actions which count.

hi...more then saying that phrase..i believe in expressing the love in some other way.whats there to say...i believe silence is the best language for love...if you really care for someone..then you really do some work in favour of him/her which keeps her/him happy,,the care for each other matters....when you are seating near you...but you are silent...doesnot your love understand whats going inside in ur heart..like that,,,love for each other is to be realised and to be felt.. nothing like that if you say more times "i love you" in a day means you love somebody too much and the one who does not say love somebody less...it differs from man to man....LOVE IS A FEELING FELT IN HEART..its we human who has different style to express....love...ITS MY OPINION....for me..i say sometimes...other time i always want to express the love by some other way..like listening to her..helping her.....being a companion when she in hard time...sharing everything....