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Now tell me if your opinion has changed about giving money back?? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 91/100. mandykaren (693)   ranked 119 out of 35,394 in people1 year ago

"your a fool mate, if i had been walking behind you and you dropped it, i would have put it in my pocket and kept it"
how would that statement make you feel? a friend told me this today after i mentioned a discussion i made about what people would do if see someone drop money.
this is true and happened sometime back, the person, young and brash had dropped a bulging wallet of money, my friend picked it up and called after the guy and he was called a fool for giving it back.. took the wallet and walked away
Now my friend this happened to is a good person, known him since i was 17, and been like an uncle to me..
since that one time.. he would think twice about handing it back.. obviously if mother or old age pensioner be different..

now i am interested to know your opinions as in last discussion most say would hand it back, BUT i am wondering... wouldnt you be classed as a fool? do you honestly think a young brash big headed type of person would do same thing back?? think about that statement how that would make you feel?

 
 
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tags:  right, wrong, return, fool, generousity
 
1. myLot reputation of 86/100. fwidman (5371)   ranked 804 out of 35,394 in people   1 year ago

Whether it made me a fool or not, I would most certainly hand it back happy It wouldn't be the first time someone thought me a fool nor would it be the last. But, in the end, I am the one that has to live with himself and I'd rather go to sleep thinking I did the right thing happy


myLot reputation of 91/100. mandykaren (693)   ranked 119 out of 35,394 in people  1 year ago

that is a good point fwidman happy but can still make you feel very angry to not even get a thank you... gosh, if someone was so nice to hand back id be so grateful, especially since it was a bulging wallet..
thank you very much for your response, you good person and nice to know you happy happy mylotting and clicking lol


myLot reputation of 86/100. fwidman (5371)   ranked 804 out of 35,394 in people  1 year ago

A Thank you would certainly be the right thing to get! If my wallet were bulging with money and someone gave it back to me I'd not only say Thank you I would be more than willing to give them a reward happy


siberian88 (38)   ranked 29,875 out of 35,394 in people  1 year ago

If doing the right things makes you a fool, then doing the wrong thing makes you what?


myLot reputation of 86/100. fwidman (5371)   ranked 804 out of 35,394 in people  1 year ago

lol siberian88, I am not sure I want to know the answer to that question lol

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2. myLot reputation of 74/100. kosstr12 (143)   1 year ago

I would probably hand it back, if my parents were with me they would make me. -.-

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3. myLot reputation of 61/100. phisha84 (162)   ranked 3,335 out of 35,394 in people   1 year ago

I think thats aweful of the person to have called him a fool, and he's a butt for saying that.....He did a very good thing by giving it back.

If I seen someone drop money of course I'd tell them, but if I just found money on the ground I would keep it......I've usually thought of it like this

If you lost your money, its because someone out there needed it more than you.

When I was working at a grocery store as a cashier. A woman and her three kids came in and was buying groceries, she had a good amount of food but not too much, and she was balling her eyes out, histerical.

I asked customer service desk what was wrong with her and the CMS told me that she had just cashed her husbands check and lost 400 dollars and had no way of paying nothing until next week......I felt bad for her, but without thinking about what I was doing I told the CMS to let her have the groceries and I would pay for them, not knowing the amount, just give them to her and I will take care of it.

The general manager told me that I was an idiot and did a stupid thing, I told her that I didn't care, if that would happen to me I would appreciate someone doing the same for me......

One week later at work I had an envolope with my name on it on the bulliten board...there was a note and money in it saying thank you for helping me, most people would never do that for a stranger, and now I'm repaying you.......She gave me double her groceries......

I couldn't of cared less if I never seen her again, but I did appreciate the kindness that she brought back to me....

I think that when you do something out of kindness your repaid by god too.

I'm just that type of person

Plus I did LOVE rubbing it in the general managers face hahaha sorry but I did.


myLot reputation of 90/100. capirani (941)   ranked 1,232 out of 35,394 in people  1 year ago

That was really nice of you and unfortunately not many people will do that kind of decent thing anymore. Everyone is too afraid to get taken. But you did a good thing and you are right, God is the one who repays. Thanks for being one of the "good guys".


myLot reputation of 91/100. mandykaren (693)   ranked 119 out of 35,394 in people  1 year ago

wowww.. sorry i only just able to read this, busy week
really was nice of you, didnt know her but you must of though about the kids and what if they really wil go without.. there is not many people that would do what you did for her, and even nicer and amazing she did repay you.. you took a risk because of your warm heart and it ended nice..
in this scenario, yes it was a stupid thing to say.. and i would hope he loose money again to someone that will keep it, then who would be the fool, the man that pockets it, or the man that carelessly drops it lol
thnakyou very much for sharing, i enjoyed reading it happy

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4. myLot reputation of 45/100. WhatsHerName (1726)   ranked 2,857 out of 35,394 in people   1 year ago

Who cares if they consider you a fool, you did the right thing and that's all that matters. This guy was the fool and very rare, most people would at least say thank you.


myLot reputation of 91/100. mandykaren (693)   ranked 119 out of 35,394 in people  1 year ago

well he did the right thing yes.. it was a fat wallet.. who is the fool, the one that carries so much money and carelessly drops it, or the one that hands it back through being a good citizen and not thief.
yes most people would at least say thank you.. maybe the guy thought it be funny to act so ungrateful.
thanks for your nice words happy

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. cobrateacher (4259)   ranked 1,036 out of 35,394 in people   1 year ago

Not only would I still give it back; I'd lose respect for a person who would keep it.


myLot reputation of 91/100. mandykaren (693)   ranked 119 out of 35,394 in people  1 year ago

i would, i couldnt pocket a wallet.. just really bad when can not as much as manage a thanks. but then you get others that so thank you will want to reward you. funny world..
thanks for sharing happy

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6. myLot reputation of 62/100. fjgamer (377)   ranked 4,323 out of 35,394 in people   1 year ago

I would give money back if I knew it was someone else's (and who it belonged to), but every time I find money, it's in the company of others, so they know I found money when they claim they lost some. It's just hard to believe these people, so I keep the money.

Also, I rarely find more than a quarter, so it's no big deal. Once, about two years ago, my youngest cousin found $20 just lying on the ground, across the road, so he took it home and spent it, the next day, on soda and chips for a small party. He essentially shared the wealth by buying us all chips and drinks.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. anawar (1088)   ranked 1,526 out of 35,394 in people   1 year ago

mandykaren - hi. In this dog eat dog world and every man for himself, maybe some one would think another a fool for not taking advantage of another person.

You're asking two questions, I think. Do I think a young, brash big headed person would give money back? Appearances can be deceiving, and I can't judge anyone else's actions.

I've helped people before and received a similar response. Basically, I was told I was an idiot for helping out. I did get taken advantage of. I felt sorry that young man carried those feelings in his heart.

I did feel very sad until someone told me you never have to be sorry that you tried to help someone, no matter how it turns out.

If someone thinks of me as a fool, then that is their privilege. I ask them not to think it near me though.

Did I understand your questions correctly?

travel lightly,
anawar out.

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8. myLot reputation of 88/100. metalhalo (517)   ranked 6,149 out of 35,394 in people   1 year ago

It wouldn't matter to me whether someone thought I was fool or not for returning it. It wasn't mine to begin with and I'm the one that would have to live with that guilt. If being compassionate is foolish...well then I'm the biggest fool of all.

How can doing something good be foolish? So what if the person didn't say Thank You. What if the shoe was on the other foot? I would certainly hope that someone would be kind enough to let me know and return it. Of course I'd be the type to truely appreciate though.

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. blackmantra_x (2438)   ranked 2,635 out of 35,394 in people   1 year ago

Good day... Honestly I can't say. Naturally I would want to no doubt about it and it is also the right thing to do but it would also depends on my financial situation at that given time. If I'm good no financial or rather manageable financial crisis I would not be tempted to keep it and give it back whole heartedly but if the situation is otherwise the opposite then I can't say for sure. That's my honest opinion.

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10. millertime247 (60)   ranked 19,670 out of 35,394 in people   1 year ago

I am a honest person and I would give it back to the person I know if I lost money I would want it back I do it all the time at my store people droping money laveing keys and credit cards and cell phones on the counter and some even give me extra money but I give it back to them cause I am a honest person

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