do you think for ur future?

Yes, because I am thinking for two now, and not only one. I have a wife now, and it is super important that I be super responsible. Any mistake I make now could not only sink me, but it will also sink her. My wife works full time, goes to school full time. Thanks be to God, I am about to be full-time employed again myself. I have not been in the past, but it is not due to lack of effort on my part. You apply many places. They say, "No. You're too this, or too that." Very frustrating. So yes, I think about our future alot. Cause eventually she is going to be pregnant and no longer able to carry this load.

yup...i guess everyone does.. i mostly think about my married life...coz i'll be leaving for my new life in 2 months or so...that is my future for the time being... :)