taking mother in law tih you on your honey moon?

huhuhuhu.. . . I'd rather go on my own than bring a mother in law. . .

Run for the hills... 28 years ...and there was times I wanted to leave. Even though I love my hubby dearly but really that is no why to live. she about 85 now getting ready to kick the bucket...so Im kind of just letting him enjoy her for her last moments... But it doesnt get better ...it gets worse thru the years. And believe me when I tell you this...She (mother in law) knows exactly what she is doing.

I'd probably laugh in his face if he suggested such a thing! My MIL is nice, we get along, but I certainly don't want her on a romantic vacation where I'll have to entertain her. If he pushed, I'd probably tell him to take his mom and go alone with her, and I'd call off the wedding. That wouldn't be the man I'd want to be with for the rest of my life. I'd be fine if he suggested a mother/son trip, but no mom's on my honeymoon!

haha that would be hilarious, and it would definitely not happen with me! I am not married yet, and it's not in my schedule yet, but I will answer this question anyway because I am a woman and I have an opinion when it comes to this hah. My boyfriend would not have his mother come along, that is just not going to happen if we get married, and I know that he would not even dare do that haha. But anyways, if it did happen to happen, I would just tell him that I want it to be the two of us with no other attending guests, he would definitely understand and we would make sure that it is just the two of us- no one else! I would feel very relieved to get that off of my chest and we would move on and have a great honeymoon with no regrets with our decision, the mother in law would just have to understand, and I am sure she would because she had her own honeymoon before, it would be my husband and I's honeymoon, no one else's haha. Happy mylotting! And I hope you are not in this situation!

I will be very very surprised! And laugh at it, asking him is he joking or what? Honeymoon is suppose to have 2 person at most, and those 2 should be a couple. If my husband is serious about this, I shall be upset. And ask him to to go honeymoon with his mother instead.

Run. Run as far as you can. In all seriousness, the situation you're dealing with is going to be symptamatic of a bigger problem - your future husband is too attached to his mother. A honeymoon is supposed to be about the couple having a nice get away, time by themselves, no distractions, to celebrate their union. Bringing the mother in law along is antithetical. You should let your husband know in no uncertain terms that although you love him dearly, and you care a great deal about your mother in law, you want your honeymoon to be just for the two of you, a romantic getaway. This is the start to your marriage - it's not fair for you to have a third wheel along. If you don't put your foot down now, you'll have bigger problems down the road - she'll be involved in every aspect of your life. You husband needs to learn that when he marries you, you become at least a little more important than his mother - you are supposed to come first, not his mother.

If that came out of my husbands mouth, it would have been the indication that I he isn't the man that I want to marry. The wedding would be off if that was ever suggested to me.

I wonder if there are such men, but if they do exist, then it is well to understand that you are marrying a mamas boy and that is going to be the bone of contention between you in the long run. So you either be firm or put off the wedding. I would expect my m i law to be that sensible and to refuse to come with us. If not, run.

If it were my first marriage I would say NO WAY!!!!!! With my current mother-in-law...I wouldn't like it but I would if the reason was good enough.

Well for me, its ok that my mother in law will go with us in our honeymoon as long as she never gets into our way. and stay away fromt he time that we are in our loving time and then she never ruin our special day.