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Has anyone ever told you they love you but you know they dont? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 96/100. eaforeman6 (4205)1 year ago

What made you feel like that didnt? How did you feel at that time and what did you do about it.? What did you say?

 
 
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Aussies2007 (2918) response was accepted on 8/22/2008.
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tags:  love, dont, you, excuse, keep the peace
 
1. myLot reputation of 98/100. byfaithonly (6302)   1 year ago

Afriad I'm the idiot that tends to believe it when people say they love me and find out down the road they didn't really.


myLot reputation of 96/100. eaforeman6 (4205)  1 year ago

I think you are very wise. I have never thought that you would be an idiot and anyone who would say that to you and not mean it or loose you..... now they would be the idiot.....have a great evening, my friend...


myLot reputation of 98/100. byfaithonly (6302)  1 year ago

Oh thank you dear that is sweet - there have been many of those in my life though but that's ok, I know I'm a good loving person and if other's don't see that then it's their loss.

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. Aussies2007 (2918)   1 year ago

Some people have different ways of expressing their love.

It can be really difficult to determine if someone loves you or not.

I don't think that too many people would go to the trouble of telling you that they did love you... if they did not.

I think the problem is about people having too many expectations about what love should be like. When someone says "I love you"... but don't show it according to your expectations... you don't believe him/her.

Rather than focusing on what the person does not do for you... according to your expectations... you should look at the positive side... and analyse what the person is doing for you... even if you don't appreciate it.


myLot reputation of 96/100. eaforeman6 (4205)  1 year ago

That is such a wonderful perspective. What a lovely way to see more then what you thought you knew.....who wouldnt appreciate the good things someone does for them? I hope when anyone looks at it like this that they find a long list of wonderful things.

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3. myLot reputation of 78/100. whiteheather39 (13452)   1 year ago

Just ignored the remark or responded back with a very phony declaration of love to them. Usually we are both aware that it is just a lot of crap.


myLot reputation of 96/100. eaforeman6 (4205)  1 year ago

Isnt that so true lol. People are just like that and they just do it lol....people can be very predictably strange.....

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (13930)   1 year ago

I can actually relate to that on the other side of the coin my friend, if I may it's been the other way round, because I have told so many ex's in the past that I love them and I never meant it, I just said it to appease them, to keep the peace, it was like a bargaining chip if you like. Because it saved so many arguments and I preferred a quiet life and that I think is why so many people say they love someone and they don't to avoid unpleasantries and bad feeling, to keep the peace if you like, it's easier that way, not that I am condoning it, it's just sometimes you need to say it for your own protection or for an easier life


myLot reputation of 96/100. eaforeman6 (4205)  1 year ago

That is what happens many times. Sometimes people can be so hard to be honest with, that you are right. Not everyone wants to argue and sometimes, you just want to get away or out before you say anything. That's a very real truth, Wolfie.

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. moolahmagnet (2242)   1 year ago

I've heard people say 'I love you' without really meaning it. It's like an expression of gratitude, like ok bye, love you blah blah! For me, they are like sacred words. You don't say, you love the person unless you look into their eyes and mean it.


myLot reputation of 96/100. eaforeman6 (4205)  1 year ago

You have got that right! Shame on anyone who says that and lies or uses it to get by why with something bad! I dont think its old fashion either just being real!

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