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myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life1 year ago

I just received some news that made me feel kinda.. down.

Also, with all this "down thing", I just remembered about a girl that I loved, and then I felt kinda lonely and even worse than I was.. I know, kinda silly, but I felt like I should try posting it here..

So, myLot friends, what do you do when you're down (to get better, I mean)?

Believe me, your answers will be VERY welcome to me..=/

 
 
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tags:  down, down depressed sad, feeling down, happiness, philosophy
 
1. cet1987 (84)   ranked 9,972 out of 38,443 in life   1 year ago

hmm.. i know that feeling... i had it too..so, my friend, u should do with something u like with your friends... that will make u feel better.. cheer up..


myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Yeah, doing something with my friends would be nice.. But you know, it's hard to arrange something during the week, 'cause most of the people work (like me) and study (like me), and then the free times of each other doesn't match..=/

But thank you very much for answering!

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2. myLot reputation of 70/100. jaded22 (700)   ranked 11,899 out of 38,443 in life   1 year ago

I usually lie down in bed and contemplate.

or..

I'm unwinding by going down town. I keep myself busy because if not, it'll only make the feeling worse. happy

Hope you feel better!


myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Yeah, I'm trying to keep myself busy here in myLot, 'cause it's kinda late to go out now (00:17 here), 'cause I have to work tomorrow.. And about the "contemplating method", I'll surely try it later, when I get a little more sleepy.. Then I combine'em and maybe get a better sleep.

Thank you very much for your comment!

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3. acegirl (98)   ranked 18,601 out of 38,443 in life   1 year ago

cry, and remember to let it be, just let it be, she is not the only girl in the world. Tell yourself that it doesn't matter at all. Why not forget her?


myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Yeah, I know she's not the only girl in the world, but now it kind of means so much for me, you know..? And, when some problems are put together, they seem bigger, and that's how I'm feeling in the exact moment..=/

But, thank you very much for your comment!

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4. myLot reputation of 72/100. Sheepie (2561)   ranked 1,135 out of 38,443 in life   1 year ago

I curl up in a little ball and see if I'll cry and then I try to let it out all at once, depression comes in waves, and I just let it pass. I don't mind it so much, it helps you enjoy the good times a little more.


myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Well, it's VERY hard for me to cry, you know.. It's VERY rare.. I really would like to be more "emotional" (in this aspect, at least), but I just can't..

But one thing is true: the bad moments makes you enjoy more the good moments.=)

Thank you ver much for your comment!

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5. myLot reputation of 49/100. johansur (130)   ranked 15,232 out of 38,443 in life   1 year ago

Hm... so it's about girl, yes it make me down to. if me, i just listen a music that can make me strong again.


myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Mainly, it's not about the girl, you know.. The other problems reminded me about her, and this made me feel lonely.

But. What kind of music do you listen when you're down?

Thank you very much for your comment!


myLot reputation of 49/100. johansur (130)   ranked 15,232 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

i listen Bon Jovi

"It's my life" i think


myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Hmmm.. Good choice.. I'll give it a try.

Thank you again!

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6. myLot reputation of 49/100. Philestine (158)   ranked 7,103 out of 38,443 in life   1 year ago

I get up again whenever i get knocked down.


myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Yeah, and that's what I plan doing soon, I hope..

But, you know, you always take some time to get up after being knocked.. And it's this "recovering time" that I'm passing by in this moment. Hope it passes soon..

Thank you very much for your comment!

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. mjmlagat (1980)   ranked 434 out of 38,443 in life   1 year ago

If I feel so down, i just wanted to be alone to reconcile things and make amends..I PRAY ALL the time.


myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Yeah, being alone is what I try to do usually, but it doesn't worked very well.. I just get more sad, I think..

Today, before sleeping, I'll make some reflections. Home I reach some conclusions..

Thnk you very much for posting!

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. cottonm (210)   ranked 1,850 out of 38,443 in life   1 year ago

i understand this kinda feelings^_^ when i had it, i will try 2 go out with my friends and hav a nice chat, or go 2 karaoke to 'sing' it all out^_^ when u r down, don't stay at home, go 2 find some activities to participate, if u stay at home, especially alone, u will feel more down^_^ this is what i normally do, hope your 'down' time won't b so often^_^


myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Oh, I asked you to come over, and then you came!:D

Yeah, I kinda know from my past experiences that staying all alone isn't that nice.. But the problem is when you don't have a friend around when this kind of thing happen, which was what happened yesterday.. Kinda sad, I'd say.=/

Thank you very much for posting!^^


myLot reputation of 97/100. cottonm (210)   ranked 1,850 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

hmmm, when there is no friend around, i will still go out 2 hav a nice cup of coffee, or 2 watch a comedy etc^_^ there is a phrase someone told me: life is a choice, depends on whether u choose to b happy or to b sad

so, i choose to make myself happy, it's hard, but doesn't mean that it can't b reach^_^

so, b happy always^_^




















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myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Hmm.. Going out by myself.. Yeah, this can be interesting.. At least I'll be in a different place, with different people around.. And it always worth trying, I think.=)

And it's a very meaningful phrase the one you just quoted.. A pity that, sometimes, our happiness doesn't depends only on us..=/

Even though, I think that, if we really want to, we can achieve it.=)

Thank you for your kind words, cottonm.^^

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9. reva1984 (23)   1 year ago

nice to see u again,my friends.
u know there is hardly anything lasting,nor is our up feelings.Maybe our moods are circles.it keeps chaning:today it is upsurge and we feel happy;then it goes to the low-tide,we feel so down for no reason or even a little thing can make us feel so easily.
suffering the low-tide,i would like to think about the death and the meaning of life.i will suppose that i would die tomorrow,then some wonderful things come out to my mind:my parents'love,the beautiful sunshine of tomorrow,and my bf(exactly m,y husband )and my children in the chinlren.it seems that there are a lot things for me to enjoy.compare with these things,little down feeling can be ignored,or throw out as you wish.
yeah,living in the world,we should see the real life as a beauty,just appreciate it and enjoy!


myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Wow, what a beautiful post, reva1984.

I know, I should complain less about life.. It's so beautiful and full of nice things. In fact, if I think for a while, I can see that I actually have a kinda happy life, 'cause I have family, food, friends, and the list go on.

I'll try to follow your advice.. Thank you very much for posting!

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. hellcowboy (4861)   ranked 5,740 out of 38,443 in life   1 year ago

I know there are times where all of us receive news that makes us feel kind of down and out,and usually when I feel down I turn to my fiance and she always manages to make me laugh and feel better,I also try and play video games,because there is nothing like slaughtering enemies to help the spirits rise,and me and my fiance also try to hang out with our friends from time to time when one of us are down,because sometimes if you are down it helps to get out of the house.


myLot reputation of 91/100. falassion (241)   ranked 1,139 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

Yeah, I think that the "cure" to the sadness is being with who you love. A pity that I couldn't do that yesterday..

About playing videogames, may be a good alternative. I also thought that reading a book or something similar may make me feel better also..

Thanks for your answer!


myLot reputation of 96/100. hellcowboy (4861)   ranked 5,740 out of 38,443 in life  1 year ago

You are very welcome for the response my friend and I hope you do find ways to cope when you are down in the dumps,have a great day,good luck in your life,and Happy Posting.

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