He doesn't want to go out.
By Sillychick
@Sillychick (3275)
United States
September 4, 2008 1:43pm CST
Lately my son does not want to go outside very often. I have to put on sunscreen while he is fighting to get away. He doesn't listen when I ask him to come put his shoes on. Usually once we get outside he is fine, although sometimes he just mopes and hangs near the door until I give up and bring him in.
I really want him to have plenty of time outside, but I'm tired of fighting to make it happen. What would you do- keep bringing him out when he fights or let him stay in? He is happy playing with his cars, play dough, books, blocks and other toys. By the way, he is almost 2.
4 responses
@liltunergirl (467)
• Canada
4 Sep 08
If it's really warm out and you have the room in your yard, why don't you get him a little kiddy pool and fill it up. put some water toys in it for him to play with. He won't want to go outside if its the same stuff always to play with. if you have a big enough yard, try getting him a swing set with a slide, a sand box and alternate out doors toys. When he fights you say, "hey look I have a new toy for us to play with." Bring him to the park instead. Just some suggestions. Kids get bored easily and if he know's that he does the same things constantly while outside, then he wont want to go out there. His little mind needs to be kept busy so make sure you have tons of different "stations" for him to move around to. good luck.
@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
4 Sep 08
We live near a lake where we swim often, and he loves that. He has never turned down an opportunity to swim- until the last week or so. We also go to the playground pretty often- a couple of different ones near us. He has lots of toys outside, and I do try to rotate toys out so he doesn't get bored.
Thing is, he doesn't want to leave the house at all. Even if I ask him to go for a ride to the store or Grandma's house, he gets cranky and says No! He always loves going places, especially to Grandma's house.
@liltunergirl (467)
• Canada
4 Sep 08
HMMM....strange....have you ever tried to ask him why? Surprisingly, a 2 year old has some pretty reasonable answers and then you can try to sway him differently depending on what he says. If he is like "I want to play with my cars here" maybe you could say, well lets go get some groceries and maybe we can find a new car to add to those ones. Or, your cars will be here when we get back, or lets go see grandma and show her your favorite car.
Everyone always says that when you have a kid you get the mommy dummys but I think you have to think harder when you have a kid, you have to be able to reason and outsmart them!
If he says "I just don't want to" try one more time and if he still says it then say fine and tell him he has to play by himself for a little then while mommy relaxes and put your feet up and relax while he's being quiet!
Hope things work out.
@Grandmaof2 (7578)
• Canada
5 Sep 08
I'd say if he's happy inside I would be happy with that, at least you know he's safe and happy. He's not quite two yet and I'll bet another year or two and he won't want to come in. These little guys all have their own personality. I have two grandchildren and they're so different.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
4 Sep 08
I have the opposite problem with my 19 month old daughter. She wants to be outside and running around ALL the time. She has a fit when it is time for her to come inside. My 8 year old though has not been wanting to go outside at all lately. He has about the same reaction to it as your son.
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
4 Sep 08
yeah love it while it last and it wont forever soon he will be long gone and youll praying for him to come home your lucky I never see my kids its like one second their there then there gone so love today couse he will be gone tomorrow.





