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myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting1 year ago

potty trained. I have seen some 20 month old toddlers already potty trained. My daughter is already 20 months and am wondering whether I should start. What are the signs to indicate that they are ready to be potty trained? Thank you for your response! Have a nice day!

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. rsa101 (7355)   ranked 653 out of 14,916 in parenting   1 year ago

Yeah I think it is timely that you put you baby into potty training already. I have my son started by letting him watch me pee on the bowl and let him realized its okay to do it. Slowly we played along in turns for him to do it. Then we just realized that there came a day that its all okay. A big No no's is forcing him/her if she is resisting it.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

I think I should start already. We bought a mini toilet seat for her. But she resisted, so don't know whether a small potty will work for her instead. We let her sit on it at the store, but she wants to dip her hands in the bowl. I can't imagine her doing that when she has her pee or poo. Will try again soon.


myLot reputation of 88/100. rsa101 (7355)   ranked 653 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

I guess you have to be patient enough make it as a play thing at first for her to appreciate it. Also if you can show her when you pee also could help her better understand what it is.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

I think she knows the concept but just refuses to try it out. Will demo for her still. I have to be very patient, I guess.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. faln_angel1205 (1044)   ranked 1,125 out of 14,916 in parenting   1 year ago

one of the key things i was told, was when child wakes up with a dry diaper, you can try starting as this is a sign that their bladder doesnt fill up as fast..if they are still on a bottle or get a sippy cup or drink of any sort to take to bed with them, then wait. I mean you can try to train them for day time, but take it form someone who did that (i figured i didnt care if he was in diapers at night til he was older i just wanted him in underpants for school and such) its a bad idea, because then when you want them to get through the night in undies..its that much harder. You want to try and do it all around the same time, so no drinks taken to bed and if they can go through the night dry or with maybe one wetting.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

She still drinks from a bottle before bed. She still wets her diapers when she sleeps at night. So you think I should wait. Some people suggest to do day time training and proceed to night time training around the same time, you think it will work?

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (4411)   ranked 945 out of 14,916 in parenting   1 year ago

My Mom said she started training me as soon as I acted like I hated being in my own filth and wanted to "go big pot" so she got me my own little potty. My brothers, that was harder, they didn't seem to care. She told me it took forever to get them to care enough to even use the thing. So there must be a big variation. I know people who have 5 year olds who aren't potty trained.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

If you can already talk and say you want to go to big pot, then i think it's okay to begin. My daughter is not talking much yet. My aunt said that if the kids can at least express their wish to go toilet, then toilet training would be much easier. I just saw someone letting her daughter pee in the bush (though not hygienic), but she was younger than my daughter. My, my! But 5 years old is a bit too late to start. Goodness! How much money is wasted on diapers?


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (4411)   ranked 945 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

Not all children express the interest by talking. Some point or use sign language. Studies have shown, that children know what they want before they can say it, there can be some lag time.

I think 5 is very late, unless the child has a disability that is severe enough to cause problems with learning it, I also think that's a lot of diapers to go through and the kid must be almost able (if not disabled) to change his or her own!


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

YOu're right. They know how to point when they want some food or drink or a toy. Surely they would be able to tell when they want to go to the potty. I just have to be patirnt with her.

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4. myLot reputation of 56/100. reoko10 (489)   ranked 3,411 out of 14,916 in parenting   1 year ago

Well I potty trained my daugther as soon as she could walk and my daugther stared to walk at 7 months. She is now 2 years old and she's all potty trained and I am loving it. It is better to potty train them early so they wont be wereing pull up at the age of 5 or 7.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

Your daughter walked at 7 months, that's very quick. And you potty trained her already? How did you start? Tell me!


myLot reputation of 56/100. reoko10 (489)   ranked 3,411 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

It was easy all I did was put the potty in frount of the TV and after she ate I sat her on the potty until she did something and when she did I made a big deal about it, now after she got that down I stared making her use the big potty and soon she got that down and then she started telling me when she need to go.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

Wow! You made it sound so easy. Wish it was that simple with my daughter. But will give it a go as per your suggestion. But a potty in the living room does not sound too appealing to me...


myLot reputation of 56/100. reoko10 (489)   ranked 3,411 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

Well the in the living room is just a way to keep the child on the potty my daughter like to watch cartoons so thats why she was in front of the tv.

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. jammyt (2635)   ranked 2,813 out of 14,916 in parenting   1 year ago

My pedia has been pestering me to potty train my 2 year old daughter. though she knows how to express her urge to go to the potty most of the time, she still cannot completely do without nappies. I believe i should not force my daughter on this issue. I know that I will know when she is really ready for this. Children grow at different paces. Some pedia even say the older, the better. That way children can fully tell the parents that they need to pee or poop in the bathroom. Don't pressure yourself, it will just drive you nuts.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

I'm not pressured, at least not yet. But I want to know the signs so that at least I won't miss it when she's ready to be potty trained.

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. nishdan01 (2359)   ranked 564 out of 14,916 in parenting   1 year ago

The earlier you start the better. It takes little patience initially, but it is worth the effort. You can tell him that passing urine must be done in potty. Use a word to describe it constantly, something like "shi shi."If you have an elder child, it becomes much more easier to demonstrate. The more effort you take, better ready will be the child.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

Ok, I must constantly tell my daughter that she needs to go to potty when she urinates and constantly describe the act to get her to remember. No older kids, so have to demo myself, I guess.

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7. myLot reputation of 80/100. ipissakusina (591)   ranked 5,336 out of 14,916 in parenting   1 year ago

im sorry hon, i hav no children yet so i can't be any help. but i do wanna comment though


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

No worries. Maybe someday you might want to ask this question yourself and bear on mind this discussion thread I started!happy

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. gr8life (4390)   ranked 1,580 out of 14,916 in parenting   1 year ago

Hello Sydney,

I have a problem too. My son is already 2 years old and he is still using diaper. Since he is big in size, it is hard for me to find a comfortable diaper for him. Right now, he is using XXL. I tried to train him but he's still unable to do it on time. My friend's son started potty trained when he was a year plus.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

XXL? My goodness. My daughter is small sized and already using L and was wondering if she will still be wearing diapers before she has to upgrade to XL. lol My aunt also told me that she was worried that his son was getting larger and might not fit into any diaper soon, so she started toilet training, but I dont think that that should be the basis of starting to toilet train.

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. SangsTurks (674)   ranked 877 out of 14,916 in parenting   1 year ago

Well to be honest with you i had started to potty train my son when he learnt how to sit. Now he is 15 omnths old and knows wht he has to say when he wants to make potty. he starts chanting "kaka..kaka" So i know that he wants to make potty. I think one should teach when the child is ready to accept the potty training and not forced. They would not give you signs that they want to be trained but you would have to try and see if they accept


myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

I was just responding to someone who toilet trained when her kid knows how to walk. You have broken the record, you toilet trained your kid when he learns to sit. I guess it's trial and error for me.

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. checapricorn (9968)   ranked 86 out of 14,916 in parenting   1 year ago

Hi Sydney,

I have no experience really about this but for me as long as you want to do it, why not trying? the early the better...As long as you will do it constantly, I know they will learn it to be part of their routine!
Anyway, I hope you will get a great tips from Parents here, for sure, it will be more valid and reliable!
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myLot reputation of 97/100. SydneyHazelton (1498)   ranked 167 out of 14,916 in parenting  1 year ago

No worries! I'm going to try to start getting her used to the potty first and when the time comes she will do it there, I hope. Must get her into a routine, you're right. Crosing my fingers and toes. blink

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