refuse

My husband is always ready for for it where I am not due to stress of family life and boredom with the same position over and over again.

I know he is not happy when I avoid it. He just ends up going to sleep.

I am just getting bored always in the same position all the time but I don't know how to tell him that I am bored with the same position all the time without him getting upset.

Well for me, the weather is warming up so I will see how he goes this summer. If life in bed remains the same, I have no option but to just tell him that I am bored with the same position most of the time and tell him I want variety.

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They could always masturbate.

i will hang her up and i will do my work
if there is any problem i will excuse and try for the next time

If I am willing my partner would never refuse me. We have been together for over twelve years and he has never rejected my advances. Though he usually is the one that makes the advances. I never reject him either when he makes advances. But if that were to happen I probably would feel bad but then realize if he was to reject me it probably is for a good reason because I know he would if he could. So then I would go take a shower that is equipped with massaging showerhead. LOL

If she refuses, then that means shes is saying no, and no means no. I don't try to convince her or, God forbid, beg for it. I simply leave her alone. If I'm so hor@y that I just can't get to sleep, I go and masturbate to relieve the stress. It can happen either way. There are times when I can't be there for my wife, and I know that she uses a vibrator to help her. In fact we went out together to buy it for her.

Surely she has reasonable reason to refuse it . She is an individual,you can not force she to do anything . But you can try to find the reason, and avoid it next time .