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myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977) 4 years ago

I hope you all realise you are witnessing a great tragedy here.
I am falling apart folks.
That's right, right before your very eyes..I can't do anything right, and guess what?
I don't care.
Have you ever had this attitude about things and if you did, did you make sure that your friends knew of it, so as to avoid going to other places and causing the scene of your life?
Any answer will be fine thank you.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. SaintAnne (1681)   ranked 1,319 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

Hello OceanTiara... I am just here to let you know that if I could squeeze your hand and make you feel better, I would.

Whenever I feel down, I usually try to avoid my friends but with good friends, they know when to be there and when to give you space. I've had friends "force" me to spend time with them and I always feel better afterwards. You take care.


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

Oh yes, Anne, I know that you know, and do you know how I know?
I know that you hurt too all the way from where I am at! I feel it too for you my dear friend and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for speaking here to me this way..it makes a world of difference to me right now...you too Honey, you too, squeeze you tight. Hugs girlfriend oxooxoxox

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2. myLot reputation of 100/100. jillhill (17704)   ranked 1 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

Anything I can do to help? When I feel that way I usually just stick to myself too....and when I get that way I guess I don't really give a cr*p what people think...but if there is anything I can do to help you feel better just let me know!


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

You just did it BabyCakes...you just exist, you just are, you are my friend, my dear friend here Jill, and I know you also know what heartache is..a treasure of a friend you are who makes me laugh and is here to show willing to help...love you Jill...means so much to me that you would. Hugs and me too xooxoxox


myLot reputation of 100/100. jillhill (17704)   ranked 1 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Back up....I'm sending you the the big one! LOL O O O O O O! happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

lolhappythumbupI felt that Jill thanks!!!! OOOOOO right back!

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48794)   ranked 956 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

ocean tiara sorry you are falling apart, I can sympathize
believe me. we are still in big trouble,my son had not found a job yet, and we are being sued for eviction, blah blah blah,
so my nerves are all over the place,I just know this we will have to move soon as my son gets a job and a bit of money ahead. Hate moving but dear one I will do a happy dance when he gets that good job he will find soon. I do try to be postive. thank God for mybest friend who has kept us in canned stuff and loaned me money for our phone bill. Monday I swallow any pride I have left and phone my medical worker asking for help,oh God how I hate all this, just three months ago we were just fine, then he got fired, damn cannot something good happen for us just once? Pray for me and my son please. thanks.


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

Oh Hatley Dear...wish you could be near and I would try to help you too..you know? I know how it is believe me, and I wont trouble you with my junk here, only my son may be out of a job soon too LOL Oh Dear it never ends huh Hatley?
Oh yes, I will pray and continue to for all of us here. Bless you Dear!


myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35334)   ranked 27 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Here are some ideas. Not consistent income, but it may be something that works. I have a friend who is out of work because the business owner retired. He has gotten an emergency substitute certificate. He is going to do that. I also work as an independent contractor, finding jobs online as a merchandiser, and also mystery shopper, and I have done product demonstrations. I can give you websites if he might be interested in them.

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4. myLot reputation of 58/100. tessah (3120)   ranked 2,586 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

those closest to me are aware of the meltdowns due to life. others dont even seem to take notice.. which is prolly why they arent my nearest and dearest huh?

if ya need me sweets.. you know where to find me *SQUISHES tight*


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

Uh yeah Tess, nearest and dearest are few and far between hehehe to say the least LOL...Awww, I know dear lovey friend...I know you are there! Helps to know that you are so near as well you know? Me too..I am here for you too as well! Like wish you were here now. Hugs xoxoxoox


myLot reputation of 58/100. tessah (3120)   ranked 2,586 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

just close yer eyes hun.. im there *squishes again*


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

happythumbupThanks!

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. Kashigurl (1166)   4 years ago

Oh girlfriend....what's up? What about some positive affirmations? What about Loving and accepting yourself just as you are...and believing it! You're feeling negative about something....you must get to the bottom of it, and I bet you are feeling bad about yourself in some way.

Take care!

Kashi


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

Hi Kashigurl
Yes, I am feeling pretty badly about myself right now..I am Kashi..hard to explain, but you know, I am here with my myLot friends and that is what the right thing to do is right now..just be here with you all and know how much you care...Thanks for showing here Kashi..I wish the very best for you as well..positivity is right...I need it! Hugs xooxox

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (12221)   ranked 239 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

Now Ocean...tsk, tsk tsk...what makes you think you can't do anything right? You're a beautiful person right down to your very soul.

Looking back I've had my own share of down moments, but never ever had the attitude of I can't do anything right, no particular reason and as a kid and adult my self-esteem was WAY low...my main big problem was seeking approval from everyone especially my mother...it took me many years to realize I don't need to seek the approval of ANYONE save myself


Go to this website...its Cheryl Richardson's....there's a section called Touch of Grace...you click on a star and a inspirational card opens up...I clicked one and it sounds right up your alley

Compassion

Be Gentle With Yourself
You Are A Magnificent Soul


Here's her website


http://www.cherylrichardson.com/

{This is not a referral link but a link to Cheryl Richardson's website for inspiration}


One of the things that makes me feel good about myself is to do as least ONE nice thing for yourself, no matter how simple..curl up with a book and read, look out the window and watch the trees, or birdies, or that silly cat on top of the roof (does it still go there?) Go and buy some incense and fill your room with its delightful aroma






myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

Hi Pye my Loving Friend
It is the night Pye and the night is long without my love...and it is that simple really dear...I must get some inspiration yes I will go look at the site indeed. I thank you so much from my heart for your kind words to me here...Pye, I wish you werent so far away right now. Hugs and I am fine...I am just listening to WuTang Clan with my boy LOL Oh boy is that fun!!!
I was going to go up to Karoake tonight, but I am way too PHAT to go LOL!!!! Oh Dear...ya think these meds are alright LMAO Pye...heheheh xoxoxo Hugs


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (12221)   ranked 239 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

(((hugs))))
I just sent you an email...wanna ask something private...LOL


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

Hi Pye...I just answered you okay? Hugs ((((Pye))))xopxoox

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. snowqueen2008 (4422)   4 years ago

Yep I have been there myself. Just want you to know that I am here for you. And I am sending you a BIG HUG! Take care and god bless


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

Hello Snow
You too?
Oh dear is there none of us that escape this horrid feeling?
I am feeling better by the minute however, with the good show of friends here to tell me I am not alone and that my life is doing some good for others...
Take care yourself Snow and I thank you so very much and big hugs to you too Dear...thanks so much for being there xooxox Hugs

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. OreoCookie3 (22470)   4 years ago

It happens to all of us dear Ocean. When I start to lose it I have to get away from what I am doing and just chill for awhile. When I am frazzled I can't do anything and it come out right.


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

Hi Oreo
Does it Oreo? It does happen to us all? Good because I was beginning to think it was just me!!!! Thanks for that Oreo..makes such a difference to me! Hugs xoxoxo

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9. myLot reputation of 94/100. stephcjh (27638)   ranked 101 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

I have felt that way alot of times. I feel so hopeless at times but then again, later on, I feel worthy again. I know we are all worth something and I sure hope you feel and see it for yourself also.


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

Hi Steph..dear lovely Steph
I know Steph, it is just ranting sometimes, you know but deep down I know I must have been good for someone in this life ...I must have...thanks my friend for showing up here...love to you and yours too. I am here for you too my dear friend. xooxxo Hugs

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. Polly1 (9354)   ranked 1,309 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

Yep, been there, done that. Somehow survived. Life sure sucks sometimes. Hang in there, things just have to get better. I am going thru another transition in my life. I am really on my own now. My son, DIL and the grandkids moved out. They are still close, all the way across the street. Now I have everything on my sholders. I am doing my best to have faith that things will work out. Sometimes when I feel overwhelmed I hang out with my friends on mylot, that always seems to help lift my spirits. Take care Ocean, you have lots of people here that care for you. Smile it will make people wonder what you have been up too.


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

Oh noooo, Polly, they all left you now? Oh dear...Polly all alone no good dear...I know you have us here in myLot too though, it does make quite a difference doesn't it? Hugs and I am sorry they left you now Polly..come here and swim in the freezing sea with me and we will go to Karaoke and drink or something like that LOL xooxo Hugs Hugs Hugs...and love


myLot reputation of 97/100. Polly1 (9354)   ranked 1,309 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Sounds good to me, specially the drinking part, hehe. Last year my friend and I sat on her porch, we had a bottle of rum sitting next to us, a fan in front of us and a kareoke machine. We started out sort of quiet and shy, after a few, we got brave, louder and I think sounding better, hehe. At least the dog didn't howl, he just kept looking at us funny. She lives way out in the country so we didn't have to worry about someone hearing us. We had so much fun that day.
As for the kids leaving, it was time. I am so happy to have my house and life back. Now I just have to figure out my life. I will, I like to think positive. They live across the street from me, so its not like I am alone alone. My grandson likes coming over, this is the only home he has ever known, he is 3 1/2 yrs. He is such a sweety, I asked him if he liked his new house, he said yes, but he liked mine better. Thats my boy, he called me up on the phone the other night and wanted to know if he could spend the night, of course I said yes.

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