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myLot reputation of 77/100. barbie84 (5361)1 year ago

i have spent my whole life doing what other people want me to, being what they want me to be and have never gone against there wishes, i finished school with good qualifications like my mother wanted me to, behaved the way she wanted me to, got a colege degree like she wanted me to, married the man she forced me to and have spent the rest of my life living by his rules and doing what he wants. Have you ever suddenly realised you know longer know who you are any more, you have been molded into what others want and when you look in the mirror you dont like who you see? what did you do about this

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. learn2earn (10910)   ranked 1 out of 1 in who am i?   1 year ago

If that is your experience, then you must be so obedient to your mother and submissive to your husband. But there are times when we need to have some private moments and realize who we are inside and what we can do to attain our dreams and aspirations in life. We can do something that can be of value to others but in the process develop ourselves so that we can look at the mirror and like what we see!happy

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. mhrmasum (436)   1 year ago

Actually todays world is like this. There are also some good man who dont force their wife to do that or dont create pressure to do what they want. I think husband-wife relationship is like good frndship relationship if they make it in this way. DOnt worry barbie. Always think that u will be happy in this condition. thats enough it will give u the answer who r u. Why dont u think that ur position would be like those guys who dont get meal for their daily needs.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. OceanTiara (2962)   1 year ago

Hello barbie
Unfortunately it took me 52 years to realise and now I am my own person..it hurts because I had to cut people out of my life that I loved very very much.
But I ran away and am living where I want to live, not where someone else tells me to, and am doing exactly what I need for myself at this time, which is not a lot, I needed a very good long rest..from so many breakdowns...I am happy that you are coming to your self realization..good luck with whatever you decide to do now barbs. Hugs xooxox

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