Help my pride is eating me

A lot of people say, forgive and forget. But in reality, its a pretty hard thing to do. Its not easy to forget about all the pain, the tears, the hardship that you had to encounter just because a friend or other people did something bad to you.

But as you said, isolating yourself will not solve the problem, it will actually add on to it. HOW? Well, like what you posted right now, you don't feel like you have peace of mind. And that's gonna keep building up until other issues in your mind start coming up.

Through my experience, I can only advice you to pray and gather all those mistakes that has happened in your life as a lesson. Something that will make you stronger and wiser. So the next time you encounter a similar event, you know how to deal with it and not run away from it.

Forgive and forget may take some time, but facing it must be now not later.

You may not know how to begin with it, pray and take deep breaths and sooner or later it will get resolved and you will move on from it, becoming a stronger, wiser and a more prepared person.

Good luck!

Sometimes pride has to be put aside, suck it up and admit your wrong. The world won't end because we make a mistake. After all we are all human. Although it's hard you can do it - we all can.

I have no problem admitting when I'm wrong. I WILL NOT apologize when I have nothing to apologize for. Things have happened in my life which I've had no control over. People have held that against me and then wonder why I remove myself from the situation. A person can only be hurt so much and it's time to step back and watch it all unfold. There are times when we run into people who think they are never wrong and just love to blame others. Will they change? Most likely not. But, you can only control you and what you do.

If you can't apologize in person send them a note and tell them. That sounds like it may be easier for you. Stand strong when you know you have done nothing wrong. Don't lower yourself to people who have wronged you. They are just not worth it!!!!

Good luck!

Meditate first and find it within yourself if it's really shyness or pride...Pray that you'll be given wisdom to weigh things right..NOthing is wrong with admitting our mistakes..Saying sorry is not hard if it will gives you peace of mind..We are just human and we are not perfect...Just think of this.."If you will lock in yourself and hide everything that's bothering you, your life would be miserable forever.. but.. if you say sorry for once then you have unloaded the burden..."
Always pray,, it will make you strong.. HE is our strength..Good luck