How long did you and your spouse date before you got married?
By bugbaby
@bugbaby (1787)
Indonesia
September 30, 2008 10:34pm CST
We dated for one week before I proposed. Then we were engaged for one month before marriage. That was a perfect amount of time for us to get to know each other.and the 3rd years after we get married and wait for our baby come.
10 responses
@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
9 Oct 08
My fiance and I started dating when we were 15 - over 9 years ago. We broke up for a few years and now we have been back together for over three years and engaged for almost 11 months. We are getting married in May 2009 - which will be 10 years to the day that we first started "going out".
@mercuryman3a (2477)
• India
2 Oct 08
I was engaged for 6 months before marriage, but my would be wife was in Japan and I was in India. We did nto get a chance to date and only corresponded through letters. After engagement we met only on the day of marriage. However the letter writing was fun. At times 2-3 letters a day. We have still preserved the letters today after 28 years of marriage.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
1 Oct 08
Hello,Baby! Before our marriage neither I had seen my wife nor she had seen me.Both of our families decided our marriage and finalised the date of marriage.On the fourth night for the first time we met each other and started living together.We are together for the last 39 years without any disturbance in our relationship.So long we are quite happy.thanx.
@celticrogue (450)
• United States
1 Oct 08
My wife and I were together for 4 1/2 years before we married. We have been married for 22 years now. So we have been together for 26 1/2 years now.
My first wife and I dated for 6 months before marriage. We were married to 10 years before divorcing. I met stated going with my wife three months after my divorce.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
1 Oct 08
Whow, that was urgent and really fascinated with the feeling for you are proposing in just a week because in my part I am dating dating with my wife now for a month before she said yes unto me that she agreed that we will have a relationship then we stay for 2 years before we got engaged and then get marry after a year so all in all it is 3 years and it is already 6th to 7th year before we have a first child...
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
1 Oct 08
Wow, that's really fast.
We were together for about two years before we got engaged and we were engaged about two years before we got married.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
1 Oct 08
I don't know if you consider it dating with our relationship. But we've been gf-bf for 3 years before we get married. IT was LDR. Although we just see each other on cam, we just don't sit infront of computer and talk. We do really set time for us to have date. Pretend that we are together in person. Through it, we just pretend that we are in a place we want to have date and dinner. We just got married July this year. There are changes happened, but its for better.
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
I really don't believe on dating and courting, because when you date, you are well behaved and always on your nice moments, you true self sometimes does not show, of course we all know that we have some bad attitudes but these are the ones that we do not show to our partners and just let them discover it when we are actually living with each other.
My hubby and I we met, we became friends, I had huge crush on him but he ignored me, and then suddenly he had his eyes on me, and then we live together while we were still studying and then he graduated and I stopped schooling to be with him. we live for three years (and since then, the longest time that we are a[art was when he traveled in the US for his work for three weeks)then get married and now 8 years after our first kiss we now have three boys and still so into each other











