"If you will have a Fight with your Wife/Spouse do u Discussed it with a Friend"

I have been silent before when I have a fight with my wife. However, I discuss with my trusted friends about my fighting problem as a way of letting out my inner suppressed feeling about the fighting and see what solution I can find from others opinion. I really don't want to burst out in front of my wife,because the quarrel prolongs. If I remain silent the quarrel stops. Yeah...

I never involve my family members with problems, fights or any disagreement between me and my hubby, unless probably if I know for sure that there will be no way for us to fix things up and get along ever again. By that time, it's probably over between us. Most of my family members tend to think that when you air your concerns to them, they have to step in and involve themselves in the situation. On the other hand, I may air my thoughts to a really close friend or two, but not with the intention to let them be involved with our problems. It may be just to know what they think about it. Friends usually know their limitations. They're just friends. I believe that we both chose to be in this relationship, and therefore everything within this relationship is between the two of us alone.

If it is a big problem that I cannot handle myself, I would prefer discussing the matter with a close friend whom I trust and I know that he is discrete.

Hello jyah. If we have a fight with each other, I don't usually tell my parents about it because I don't want to make them worry about it. Anyhow we can fix it soon within one day. lol

No I dont...Privacy is important to me. Bottom line they really cant help. When there is an disagreement among two people especially in marriage it is best address the issue and settle it themselves.. it will make them a stronger couple.

Everytime we have a little quarrel with my husband, i really open it up to my friends. So far, we never had a really serios fight with my husband and sometimes i am the one who initiate our quarrel sometimes. I have some moodswings especially in the morning and when I wake up, he will immediately kiss me and say i love you to me. And there was one time that he forgot to tell me i love you and i never spoke to him for 12 hours and he's wondering why.

Hello iyah10, I don't like something personal between my husband and I becomes a topic among friends or family members. I don't like to tell people anything about my marriage life as I think it is very personal. Whenever I have an argument with my husband, I will keep it in our room only. I won't tell others, not even to ask for opinion unless it is not really personal to us.

sometimes i told them but it depends again the sitution .if it is personal i keep.but to my friends i dont talk all about it about fighting my husband.

If I have a argument or problem with my husband, I work it out with him. I wouldn't really tell anyone, because it's none of their business. I always try to avoid fights with my husband. And you know some people if you tell them something, they'll go tell everyone.

at first,i wouldn't tell my family,i don't hope they worry about me,i only would tell a best friend ,she kept my all secret,if i would have a fight with my spouse,i only just a few words to her,she would able to know the reason and cause and effect,it very fortunate i have such a best friend like her,she let me have a channel to release my pain when i have anyproblem,sometime,woman must have a channel to release.