Do you like people who loves you?!

yes i like people who loves me as long as they are not going to harm me from they said love.

but if they are going to love me as a partner thats no way because i am married but if they love me because i am good to them and they just wanted to make friends i am cool to it

I don't know.. it just sort of happens when you start to return the feelings of someone else. Someone you might not even like so much you could grow to like and then love if that person started falling for you.

I haven't had that happen except maybe twice and it didn't make any difference in how I felt about the guy. I still disliked them! Maybe I should've given them a second chance, since I don't have a very good record of picking men that are good for me.

Interesting question...

When you first meet someone... your first reaction is to pass judgement on his/her appearance, mannerism and way of speaking.

As a first impression... you may not like that person.
But if the person is kind to you... you will forget about all the above.

Why? Because know it or not... we all have a craving for affection. The affection of another human being is what's make us truly happy.

The reverse is also true.
You can like someone... and as soon as that person becomes unpleasant... you take an instant dislike to it. And if it persist... your dislike quickly turns into hate.

Many people are unpleasant because they derive their happiness from upsetting other people. It is important to stay clear of those people if you don't want them to turn your life into a misery.

I only wanted a friend when I met my husband. We fell in love with each other over a period of time though. We started out as friends and grew to love one another and got married.

Hi,dear friend,
For me I will love the person who loves me,simply because I am lacking of love,I will love them in return,even though I am prettly sure I don't love him or her..
When I am a little kids my teachers and friends teach me to love the person who love you even though you don't love them .maybe in the process of company with that person you will love him or her sooner or latter.Maybe this is what "love can be developed "really means..

Y a it happens...atleast i am that kind that if someone continues to say me that he loves me, i start liking that person, mostly soft hearted people, and the emotional ones are like that..

it depends actually, somehow when a person is making efforts out of their feelings then it keeps me motivated to give them a chance to show me how they love me..but at some point there are just this moment in my life when i just cant feel the same even how hard they push it...i just couldn't love them as a lover...

in my case it took so long before i finally fell inlove with the person...at first i don't like my partner, i don't have any feelings for him but a friend...being with him everyday of my life and supporting me towards my decisions...giving me time and showing me how much he cares made me fall in love with him...till we got together both in love

One distinct difference between love and like - in my opinion - is that Liking someone necessarily does not mean Loving that person; on the other hand, Loving someone certainly means Liking that person as well - because you cannot love someone you do not like. However, there are several important factors that should be considered in order to Love someone - i.e. respect, regard, faith, caring, concern, honesty, sharing, compromise to mention a few. Having said this, there are instances when one may give into a physical attraction to feel love for someone - which is actually not love but infatuation because those factors I mentioned are absent in such circumstances. Although falling in Love through physical attraction is not the best, it might be helpful to befriend those persons you find attractive and then find out if you like them for what they are - and if they do have those factors in them for you to consider falling in love with them. This would help prevent people getting hurt if their initial judgement had been wrong.