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myLot reputation of 97/100. moonlitmagikchild (8089)   ranked 206 out of 26,919 in people 4 years ago

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as a follow up to my previous post on how people could legally abandon their kids under 18 years old due to a legal loop hole in wording of law.. well they finally changed it to 3 days old at max but that seems a little too young.. now im not saying that people should be able to wait months but 3 days seems short to me compared to some peoples situations etc.. what do you guys think? 3 days or less a good age to drop off and leave your kids with out legal punishment?

 

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zukepr (11761) response was accepted on 11/24/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 34/100. zukepr (11761)   4 years ago

I am glad they have tried to do something about this
BUT I think they have gone to opposite extremes
3 day old cap is not good enough
most babies dont leave the hospital until 2 days old
post partem depression doesnt really hit full force until a week or two
I think they should have made it 3 to 6 months max


myLot reputation of 97/100. moonlitmagikchild (8089)   ranked 206 out of 26,919 in people  4 years ago

yeah im thinking also that the mother may be stuck at home with some one abusive and be planning to leave or do something but cant get out of there within three days etc.. and like you said some hospitals dont let them out till almost the max age

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. Ruthep (7334)   ranked 64 out of 26,919 in people   4 years ago

I think they could go a little older than that but I do get where they are coming from.
I saw on the news another couple was just dropped off. A woman dropped off her 17 year old daughter that had a baby.
She just couldn't deal so the 17 year old mother and baby were in foster care.
I think in Iowa it is age 4 but I could be wrong. I don't quite remember.
Maybe under 6 months.
If you are a young unwed mother by that time you should know if you can handle single motherhood or not.


myLot reputation of 97/100. moonlitmagikchild (8089)   ranked 206 out of 26,919 in people  4 years ago

yeah 6 months sounds good.. i wonder what age it is for tn?? not that i really need to know but now im curious haha

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. ahgong (3967)   ranked 756 out of 26,919 in people   4 years ago

Well, the fact that you can abandon a kid, be it a few days old or a few hours old, it is still not right.
Why don't they set up a group or organization that will keep the identities of these parents who do not want their kid so that they can givep up their kids legally for adoption instead?

There are so many people who wants kids but could not due to various reasons.
I am sure these organizations would be more than happy to accept these kids and put them up for adoption or something.
Rather than make it legal to abandone the kid.

These people who cannot afford to have kids, why even bother to raise one then?
Sheez~~~~ blink


myLot reputation of 97/100. moonlitmagikchild (8089)   ranked 206 out of 26,919 in people  4 years ago

people never seem to make sense when it comes to kids.. so many familys are so horrible to kids that THEY chose to have.. if i wanted kids i would treat them like it!!


myLot reputation of 99/100. ahgong (3967)   ranked 756 out of 26,919 in people  4 years ago

The paradox of life isn't it?
Those who wants it don't get it. Those who don't want it gets burdened by it.
Those that cares don't get it. Those who don't have a bunch of them but do not know how to care for them.

Sigh...

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