Saying you sorry

Yes, I have said I am sorry just to have some peace and quiet unless it something that just really gets on my nerves but that rarely happens and has to be something big for me to fight like that.

For me, it is hard to say sorry especially when you didn't do anything wrong to start the argument. I would fight back if I knew I was in the right position. But if I knew I was wrong I wont hesitate to ask forgiveness or say sorry. I don't just argue with small things because it would be nonsense.

I am a lucky gal I suppose. My better half and I are both very even tempered and even when the little things get to us we tend to just work it out independently. We've been together for almost a year now and haven't had a seriuos argument...yet lol. But I'm sure that at some point or another something will work us up enough to argue about it. I'm curious to see what happens. We are both well spoken and know how to get a point across with sarcasm alone. No yelling needed. There have been a couple of times when I know something that I have said has upset him. No words were needed, I could read it on his face. At those moments, I did apologize for being hurtful. I think that anyone one can argue but it makes us better individuals when can admit we are wrong and apologize for it. In the event we are right....might I suggest taking a few moments to collect your thoughts before pressing the issue. It's alot harder than just "popping off" but isn't as counterproductive.

My husband is one of those people that will not go to bed angry so he'll talk it out until it's over regardless if it was a arguement or a fight.

We both end up apologizing regardless if it either of our fault we both say sorry and let it go.

Each day is a new day.

Yes, me too. I don't like arguing and fighting because it would just makes my mind disturbed. At any time when I felt that I had done any wrong to him, such as I had said something which hurt his feelings and when I saw he was too quiet as if sulking with me, I would seek apologize from him.

However my husband is not like that. He doesn't seem to be sensitive enough when I am sulking with him. Maybe all guys are like that, I suppose. Or most of them. Whenever I am sulking he would just keep quiet or try to talk to me, but he never asked me what's wrong or seek apologize from me.

But as time goes by and our marriage is reaching our 10th anniversary this coming 31st October, he has changed a lot. Now I am happy that he is willing to learn being a good husband and all. Not that he is not a good husband before, but now he is better. Now whenever there are any misunderstanding between both of us, we would quickly end it by saying sorry and forget about it.

Even though I regret it after I sometimes say sorry just to keep the peace. One of the reasons why I regret it after because the person who did something wrong feels no remorse. But I am happy when there isnt any tension between us anymore. Sometimes saying your sorry first helped the other person feel less defensive.

I can be stubborn at times. I'll keep arguing to make my point if I know that I'm right. I just want to be heard. Although if I know that I'm wrong then I will say I'm sorry.

Usually I reason out even though I know it's my mistake. But if the whole day or still the following day she doesn't talk to me and really treat me a cold treatment that is the time I will admit it's my mistake and I'm sorry then I will really hug her tight. My gf hates arguements she doesn't really talk when she feels bad, and sometimes I hate it, I rather let her expressed her feelings even she shouts out me, it's like she takes it very cool and doesn't see me. Good morning!

yah, i say sorry especially if i know it's my fault..but i have to make sure he understands everything first before i do say sorry...i don't want to say it just so that i can have peace and quiet, sometimes, both of you need to talk about it so that next time, it won't happen again...:)

good thats the rite way to be..saves a lot of heart burn and energy too!!keep it up am happy cos i too hate to argue..