would you be offended if..

i know i would get really pissed because she was like "oh suzy came to see me and brought me a gift and then bob and joe came and visited me" and im like uhhh i know.. i was there BEFORE AND DURING THEIR VISIT!!!! and she would look at me like i had lost my mind!! she wasnt a healthy friend for me anyways.. she came from a time in my life that my life was really emotionally messed up.. i had known her when my family was involved in a cult like atmosphere and i have ptsd from that and i ran away from that religion and she went crazy and became a fanatic.. i was loyal because she was my friend for so long but she had changed so much that even if this hadnt happened it prob wouldnt have been mentally good for me to have her as a reminder and bugging me on why i didnt think the abuse was acceptable

her friends did hate me.. it was one of those things that we were best friends.. our families both moved away and then hers returned and i did after i had gotten married and she was a totally different person and her new friends were um.. lol.. well they werent like me for sure.. so maybe they said some things to her.. i dont think she liked that i got married young and i had gone away from the church and she was insanely involved and obsessed with it so i think that had some to do with it.. but she was never a cruel person so i cant see her just lying and saying that she didnt remember me if she did.. who knows.. good riddance!!

Well I think it is not all your fault why some of her new friends does not like you. You can never please anybody but if you are really friends she would not be influenced that easily. I think you should really talk and see what is really wrong but if she keeps on insisting on some lies you think, then maybe now is not the right time.

well she had done enough other things to where i ended the friendship on those.. she treated my hubby like crap which was the number 1 problem.. but she wasnt one to lie or intentionally hurt people so i couldnt figure out if she was being mean in not acting like she remembered me or if i was just being silly and it was really trauma that caused it all..

Well the problem is not just between both of you but it already involves other people important to you like your husband. I too do not like my friends boyfriend but since my friend loves him all I do is understand. If that man makes my friend happy all I can do is support her. I too would not want my friends to be too much involve with my love life.

i think hers was partially jealousy cuz i got married at 17 and she whined about how it wasnt her and then she met him adn instantlyl hated him.. and no one hates my hubby.. its like not possible..

i know a lot of friends dont like their friends significant others but if your friends with some one you figure out how to deal with it and if you do say something you say it once and let it drop if there is really no reason in it.. he has never hurted me or anything so its not like she was warning me or anything.. she would call up and if he answered the phone she was really rude to him and wouldntt talk to him if he was with us.. im sorry but you do not treat ANYONE i love or care about like that i dont care who you are!!

im pretty sure it didnt.. she broke her jaw which of course is her head so she may but if she did it was so minor that she didnt even have to stay in the hospital at all or anyone talk about a concussion or anything.. i figured the first time was just her being in shock but she had surgery i think a week or more later and like i said i saw her BEFORE meds so i dont see how she couldnt have remembered that..

hopefully i wont have to deal with her anymore since shes moved off some where and the only link i would have is her mom which i never really had a relationship with but she talks to my mom so unless she hunts me down i shouldnt have to deal with her ever again..

the friendship wasnt strong anymore when it happened so it wasnt like this was the reason but it did add insult to injury on top of all the other stuff.. i could see the day of the accident but her surgery was like a week or more after that so the shock would have been gone by then and i saw her before she was medicated.. i dont know the whole thing was really crappy

the friendship was strained beforehand.. we had been close growing up and then moved apart and our lives grew totally opposite of each others then we lived near each other again so it was like we were trying to get back to where we were but not sure how (i hadnt been back long so we hadnt had much of a chance) i think she pretty much had replaced me (which is understandable considering we did live apart for years) with new people but she was the one that was really clinging on to the friendship.. she was the one that would suggest to go places (im never one to plan anything.. just not my nature.. i never want to assume that people will drop things for me but i always show up when ever plans are made etc) so i figured we were having problems with the awkwardness and that the day of the accident she was disoriented.. but then after that and some other bs things made me just baffled.. shes not one to lie or try to hurt people or else i would have thought she was saying i was lying to push me away like you said so i dont understand what the deal was with that.. but things went super downhill after that.. i just ended it because it felt like we were beating a dead horse and i was tired of her bs

well we had been friends for 10 years and in the early years i was like her only friend so i doubt she was faking for that long.. i know we grew in totally different ways which i figured we would just work through it but this happened and then she would ditch me later on after making plans to see me.. etc.. BUT she was the one that was always clinging on to the friendship.. she initiated getting together and everything because im not one to plan things i never knew her schedule etc.. so she made an effort to have plans but then treat me crappy.. she totally made no sense and im glad she is out of my life.. i just always wondered if i was over reacting to the not remembering me thing.. but apparently everyone here agrees that its fishy so now i feel better that i wasnt being paranoid or something

You just did the right thing.

well both of our families moved away from my hometown at the exact same time.. she had moved to a different state and same here to another state but she returned and resumed life and i never got back till years later after i got marriage.. so its not like i was abandoning her.. but i guess with the crap she has gone through in her life maybe it still seemed that way

well other than her breaking her jaw i dont remember any brain trauma.. she didnt have to stay in the hospital or anything and no one said anything about a concussion.. if i knew that she did have head trauma then i wouldnt have really put much thought into it.. but i would think some one would have said something or she would have been taking some pain meds for it or something.. i know i had to when i had a concussion last year!! lol

haha me??? my name is orlando bloom.. im 4 foot 2 and an elf... yeah i know measurements are off a bit haha jk