would you be offended if..

It must have been very hurtful for you, as well as being a very strange situation. Did she believe you when you said you had been there with her? The brain is a very strange thing. It does sound like your friendship drifted after that. You know, if you believe in reincarnation, which I think you do, you'd know we are here to learn life lessons. I think some people and star signs only come into our lives to teach us certain things and aren't meant to be permanent fixtures. Maybe we outgrow some friendships when we have learned what we are meant to from that person. Don't know if this helps.

I would have tried harder to convince her that I was there. ASking friends if they can confirm my presence there. However if her crappy behaviour towards you continues so I think you made the right thing. © ronaldinu 2008

I would feel very hurt and I would consider ending the friendship because that is not a nice way to be treated by a friend. What I would be inclined to do first though is have a chat to her and tell her how you feel and why just like you have described here and explain to her how hurt and annoyed you are. There may be a good reason for her behaviour but I can't imagine what that would be unless she has a mental condition due to her injuries. Good luck to you, let us know how you go and cheer up, you seem like a nice person and surely there are other friends who will appeciate you more, don't let this stop you from being you. All the best.

If that case will happen to me, I will not feel offended but I will feel sad. Sad because a friend of mine is in a situation that no one will ever want to experience.

I can understand how broken hearted you must feel for her accusing you of not being there. Maybe one of the other many persons that were there could verify it for you if you would really like her to know. Anyway it sounds like there were alot of other people there so in my opinion even if you were not there she should not feel betrayed(or however she is feeling). I know this may sound mean but in my opinion she is the crappy friend for expecting everybody to drop what they are doing to run and be by her side. peace out

It is unfortunate that you have lost a friend but whatever the reason or cause for the memory lapses she is unhealthy for you. I too would be upset but would have to protect myself and my spouse from this toxic influence. It is a difficult choice but what choice do you have. You might want to write a letter outlining your hurt and you can decide whether to mail it or not is up to you.

What I say is only conjecture.
Relations between you must have been very intimate. She must have expected your first visit after the accident much earlier and was upset for you not showing up then. She might have heard something which aggravated her grievance that was not mitigated by your (assumed )late vist to her.She must be very emotional and touchy, so much so that she cannot overlook even one (supposed) lapse. Let us hope you find an opportunity to talk to her and clear the misunderstanding. If her friendship and affection is genuine, she will certainly appreciate your concern.Or else, try to forget it as an unfortunate but undesired incedent.

What I say is only conjecture.
Relations between you must have been very intimate. She must have expected your first visit after the accident much earlier and was upset for you not showing up then. She might have heard something which aggravated her grievance that was not mitigated by your (assumed )late vist to her.She must be very emotional and touchy, so much so that she cannot overlook even one (supposed) lapse. Let us hope you find an opportunity to talk to her and clear the misunderstanding. If her friendship and affection is genuine, she will certainly appreciate your concern.Or else, try to forget it as an unfortunate but undesired incedent.

I have never encountered such a situation with a friend.
I would be hurt and offended if I was treated that way.
To me she wasn't a true friend, I would let this friendship
go if I were you.Try to forget what has happened,and I'm sure
you can always make new friends.

well i will advise that you try to be as patient as you can with probably someone soewhere is terlling her things about you and it may just be part of the trauma experience dont just break off from her like that,though it can be very annoying to have such experience with someone you called your good friend.