would you be offended if..

Yeah something is a little crazy about that whole deal!!I do not think the accident had anything to do with it!But i would have talked to my friend about it to find out wat was going on(You may or may not have already tried that)idk!!Anyways you can always make new friends and better ones that wont ditch you when you already have plans together!!So keep ur head up and keep looking!!

No i would not talk to her as she is not a nice friend

Well to answer your question if I would feel offended, I think I would. But maybe I will try to find what the root of the problem is. I may try to talk to my friend but if i think it is impossible at this moment I may try to distance myself. There is a saying that time heals all wounds. But there is also a saying that wounds do heal but they leave scars. Well if your relationship with your friend you think at the moment is irreparable, then let it be. Who knows maybe someday truth would suffice.

The best thing I can tell u to do is take pictures or somethin then you will have proof. Other than that All I can say is give it time

I would not be angry because I understand the shock and trauma from being in an accident. When I had an accident and a serious concussion, I was like that for one month. There were days that I do not recall at all and would forget what day it was, who I talked to, what I did, etc.

Now, if she was just doing this LONG after and you were the only one she did it to, I would ask her about it first.

she's playing u for some reason, can't imagine what it is. i would end the friendship to. if i ever heard from her again & you will probably will i would want answers for her behavior. sorry she treated u that way, know that hurt you.

I'd be very offended and hurt. I'd be telling her that i cant take how she treats me as an inconveience AFTER she's needed me and I came through for her as well as how hurt i was at her treating me like hmmmm I'm disposable.

It may be something to do with the accident but i seriously doubt it. If she didnt start treating me with respect and start acting like our plans mattered I'd be ended the friendship as well.

I cant stand people who treat me badly and I know i've been bad for giving more than a few chances in the past but i've been burned a few too many times (same friend i mentioned before in the bridesmaid dress discussion) to give anymore to certain people.

I'm sorry shes treated you this way and I hope you know you deserve better than that.

Your friend could be suffering from a short term memory lose. Where she can remember things that happen a long time ago. But no recent events. It happens all the time when peopel have a head or brain trauma. Sometimes people come iout of it. Othertimes they are like that for life depending on how sever it is. I suggest if you do see thsi friend again....Take a camer and take pictures. So, they next time she accuses you of not being there. You have pictures to prove it.

i think she got messed up from all the drugs and the accident and post trauma thing. just pray she will be ok...u were once friends when her brain worked.

Sounds to me like she needs you worse than ever!!! Seems to me there might be some brain damage of sorts that the doctors haven't noticed. My Mom was recently ill with a disease that affected her brain. She couldn't remember anything that has happened in the last 20 years but remembered everything before that. Friends who came to visit that had a spouse or child that had died, she ALWAYS asked how they were doing. In every case, they had passed away in the last 20 years. She was talking to people who had died over 20 years ago. My point in all this is the brain does strange things to you. She may not know what she is doing. You sound like a GREAT friend. Don't give up on her too quick. There is definitely something wrong & I'm convinced that it's more than her suddenly deciding to be a lousy friend!!! Have you had a chance to speak with her doctor??? GOOD LUCK!!!