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 your friend at the time had been in an accident and she was home and fully aware and not drugged up or anything and you dropped EVERYTHING and drove a long ways to visit her and she had a ton of guest and you talked with her and she even was reminiscing about the good ol days and then later on you talk to her and she has no memory of you being there? but DETAILED memory of every other single person and accuses you of being a crappy friend for not showing???
then she has surgery and you were there with her before and after (losing a days pay mind you which i desperately needed at the time) and she wasnt drugged before she saw you before the surgery and everything and when you visit her in the hospital after wards she literally talks to every single person in the room but not you?? and again accuses you later of being a crappy friend for not showing??
i can understand trauma and medication making her memory crappy but remembering EVERY SINGLE PERSON AND DETAIL BUT ME?!?! wtf?? and i had known her like twice as long as every one else too!! i tried to not take offense but later on she kept treating me like crap and i ended the friendship because she just would make plans with me and then get calls on her cell from other friends and make plans with them to see them right after seeing me and so she would leave 5 minutes after she hung up when we just got to the place to eat.. so she ditched me!! but that didnt happen till after all of this accident so i wonder if that had something to do with it
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41.  savypat (7726) | 1 year ago |  This could be upsetting, remember why you are hurt, put that in its place and think about your friend, what in needed by them. In times of stress people do strange things and are often irrational. Blessings
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42.  mercuryman3a (2273) | 1 year ago |  This is really strange. Is it possible tht she is behaving the same way with all her other friends too? have you tried to talk to any of her other friends? They will be able to throw some light on it. Is it possible that she is upset with you about something in the past and takign out the grudge now? Feel sorry for you. Best thing in teh present circumstance is to avoid her for a while till yo know the root cause of her strange behaviour.
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| moonlitmagikchild (7150) | 1 year ago | her friends dont like me so i dont talk with them.. but i dont think she is treating them badly considering when she would make plans with me and we would get together she would get calls from them and leave me to see them so im guessing they had to in better favor than me the one person she didnt remember and kept ditching | |
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43.  patms1 (378) | 1 year ago |  It depends on what time you visited her. I had surgery and got mad at my mother for not vistaing me. When she told me that she had been there right after I came back to my room I just could not remember. So its possible your friend does not remember.
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| moonlitmagikchild (7150) | 1 year ago | i was there before she went in before they gave her meds because i was thinking that could have been what happened too but surely years later she would remember that i was there BEFORE hand.. ugh.. | |
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| patms1 (378) | 1 year ago | I owe you an apology. I had not read the whole story when I answered. You were smart to stop being friends with her. Someone like this that just stops being friends with no explanation is best left alone. You did a good thing. The heck with her. I would advise that if she decides to be friends again I would be careful of her. | |
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| 44. brojack (10) | 1 year ago | I'm not sure about her condition, but you have a long time to see and watch what the next action, day by day you can make a few compliment and finally you can find the answer about it. Don't be a lawyer right now...... be patience and try to find the answer from this problem. After that you can decide what should you do. | |
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| moonlitmagikchild (7150) | 1 year ago | she didnt remember years afterward and during those years she just started treating me crappy | |
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| 45. mythman (1147) | 1 year ago |  Just stay true to yourself as your Holy Spirit makes you. That way you'll be able to stand if your friend falsely accuses you of falling short in the friendship.
I know it sounds a little Dracula-ish; but as long as you have other friends, you'll save yourself from falling entirely into the recluse life.
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| moonlitmagikchild (7150) | 1 year ago | im very lucky that she is out of my life and i am fortunate enough to have great friends that dont treat me crappy surrounding me now | |
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