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myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593) 4 years ago

hi mylotters we all start discussions here get responses for some of our discussions whereas we dont get responses for some of ours and what will be the feeling in you if you dont get responses for a discussion even after a long time and how you take it
I had experienced many times here in mylot,most of my discussions would not get responses and the next time when i start i tried to find out what actually is the problem and luck also favors sometimes in getting responses.And the time we start and if the same topic has been discussed many times before ,that does happen obviously.And even a good discussion with quality content cant get more responses if the title is bad and tagging too will help members in replying.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. Sir_bobby88 (7831)   ranked 1,793 out of 27,468 in mylot.com   4 years ago

Well i might feel a bit jaded but lucky most of my discussion there are response yea .


myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593)  4 years ago

yes mostly all our discussions get responded atleast once and i would try to make myself to find my faults even i get less than five responses

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. gemini_rose (10252)   ranked 1,212 out of 27,468 in mylot.com   4 years ago

I had one discussion that did not get any responses and that was the very first discussion that I had ever started. I had a low posting score as well and I think that did not help. I was a bit discouraged though when no one responded and it made me feel that no one liked me, so I did not post another discussion until my score had gone up some and from then all my discussions were responded too. I think you should just keep trying and as you become more familiar on here then people will start to recognise you and will come and respond.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593)  4 years ago

i had never heard of that posting score and where does i find that.And my first discussion too didnt get response for about four days .but i started three in all and the other two gave me responses.

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. dhedows118 (835)   ranked 5,719 out of 27,468 in mylot.com   4 years ago

I don't want to sound so pathetic but every time I don't receive any response from the discussion I started I really feel sad. I felt that the discussion I started was ignored, though I know there's a reason behind which is the topic I choose does not have any logic and can't get any attention...


myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593)  4 years ago

you have a good reason why you dont get responses hedows happy mylotting


myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (11361)  4 years ago

I agree. It also makes me sad a tiny bit when I start discussions that do not get any responses. I think sometimes if I would have put it in a different catagory it might have helped. I try to answer all discussions my friends start but sometimes I don't because I do not have anything quality to say. For instance I have no childern, I do not travel, and I do not know much about computers or IPODS so I just ignore those discussions.

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4. myLot reputation of 84/100. bianroxas (1333)   4 years ago

I know how you feel. It happened to me as well and I feel so frustrated about it and sad. I also started the same discussion about that few days ago and I receive 12 responses. Sometimes, we do not know what to post and how to make it interesting to others. Each person is unique. My interest is different from yours. so I cannot blame other people here if they do not like my discussion. Have a nice day! happy


myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593)  4 years ago

do you mean you started the discussion about what we discuss now and how many response you think will make a discussion sound good.I think about 15 responses itself will satisfy me but i had got around 45 to the maximum and i cant go far after that


myLot reputation of 84/100. bianroxas (1333)  4 years ago

Yes, I did. You can check the discussions that I've started.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593)  4 years ago

i didnt ask that in a doubt to check you but was surprised at the no.of responses you got bian

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5. myLot reputation of 91/100. Ldyjarhead (5188)   ranked 838 out of 27,468 in mylot.com   4 years ago


I've never had that problem, and doubt that I ever will. I have several hundred friends, so even if the discussions isn't all that fascinating, SOMEONE will comment from a number of friends that large.

Make sure to put your discussion in the appropriate interest area, make it something that people can comment on, don't just make a statement. Ask a question, ask for opinions, etc.

And most importantly, have a boatload of friends! (More about how all that works on my profile).


myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593)  4 years ago

And thanks for your response and this has really got me the idea of adding friends and will definitely follow your suggestion to get the maximum out of it .And why interests play a big role in getting responses from others


myLot reputation of 91/100. Ldyjarhead (5188)   ranked 838 out of 27,468 in mylot.com  4 years ago


If you put it in an obscure interest area that no one reads, you won't get responses.

Or if you put it in an interest are that doesn't match what you're talking about, it confuses people and they tend to just skip over it.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593)  4 years ago

yeah thanks for your explanation and i got it and i hope good and suitable topics under any interest will make good responses
happy mylotting

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6. myLot reputation of 81/100. iamcdy (1022)   ranked 2,621 out of 27,468 in mylot.com   4 years ago

I had never had this problem as well. The least number of response in the discussions that I started is one. And I was happy about it. I guess it really happens here in myLot. I know that if ever it happens to me, I will get sad at first but I will get over it soon. I have seen a lot of old discussions here with zero response and I think one day it will happen to me too. Actually, I think that there is zero response in some discussions because they have been discussed before. What we can do is always try to come up with unique topics to talk about. happy


myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593)  4 years ago

if i just leave it like that i don bother about the responses but when i think with over a lakh people here i could not find any one to respond to me and would think of the quality with which i post and try to improve themselves.And you have a good point a discussion discussed more than once by a same person will make him nod his head in responding to such

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7. myLot reputation of 89/100. anikakim (157)   ranked 19,645 out of 27,468 in mylot.com   4 years ago

That's true some of my discussion has no response yet. I'm just observing what the real score with this blogging. What will be the best discussion I can ask and be on top discussion. I'll be happy to see it. Thanks for asking.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593)  4 years ago

and wishes so that you get it soon

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. honeylore23 (778)   ranked 625 out of 27,468 in mylot.com   4 years ago

Hi lkvinodh,

If I would compare my performance/participation few months when I am just starting and as of now, I seem to be active before than now, my discussions are all answered, i think every discussions would yield a minimum of 3 responses to more than 30 responses. But since I am, I seem to receive few responses on my discussions. It made me feel bad/sad at times, but then I am thinking that maybe my discussion is not that interesting as what others have posted. it gives me energy to think of a quality discussion to be able to get lots of responses.

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. maximax8 (17670)   ranked 385 out of 27,468 in mylot.com   4 years ago

When I post a discussion I so very much hope to get responses for it. I haven't had any responses for some discussions that I have started and this made me feel sad. I started two travel discussions and the first one got one response and the second didn't get any responses. I felt that not getting any responses was a shame. I don't often have ideas for starting discussions but when I do I feel delighted when I get responses. Just one response is fine and more than that is excellent. Maybe I should put more tags on to my discussions that haven't yet had any responses. The quality can't be changed because doesn't allow editing. My Lot is still really enjoyable even if I don't get a response for some discussions that I begin.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593)  4 years ago

the same happened for me when i tried to post discussions in travel and when i come up with a discussion about my own country i get very less no. of responses and also when i start a discussion in the movies category,i dont seek many responses.and tagging is one which i was used to it and then stopped tagging and could find my no.of responses were declining .Then understood its importance.

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10. myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1718)   4 years ago

Maybe you should try to improve your writing, like make good paragraph indentations. This is basic, but from this discussion you started, it is hard to read because you only make one long continuous paragraph, no punctuations, and capitalization. It's hard to read.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lkvinodh (593)  4 years ago

Thanks for your response and the presentation of what we write is also a major concern to attract others and make them feel that they should respond to this discussion.
happy mylotting.have fun


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