i don't wanna be number 2, nor to be number 1, i want to be the ONLY ONE.  |
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 i hope this is my last post about my unfortunate story of love life.^__^;;
it turned out that the guy i like already has a girlfriend back in his faraway province. he said he likes me too but he can't court me since he has a girlfriend already and he said he can't break up with her because he pities her so much whenever she cry when he forgets to call for a day. and he's ashamed to put me in a position where people will talk about me once they learned that he already has a girlfriend. (should i be thankful for this?)
and take note of this, he said, and i quote, if i will agree to be his NUMBER TWO, he will court me. crap. who the heck he think he is! he's not the only man in this whole world. and i can't be the second the best. i'm too much of a jealous type to be number two. neither i want to be number one. i want to be the ONLY ONE.
and i don't steal boyfriends. i'm a girl too and i would sympathize with my fellow females. my conscience wouldn't be able to bear it if a girl would be crying because of me. so to heck with this guy and i just feel so pathetic for liking him.
but i'm done. i'm finished. i'll stop. this is the end. 
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1.  sarahruthbeth22 (10447) | 1 year ago |  Well, at least you know the truth.I think it could have been worst. He could have kept the girl a complete secret.I feel the same way about boyfriends.If you have someone else be with her.If you want to be with me, then leave her first. If the guy is married, I am the completely different.if it just boyfriend-girlfriend, you should be with the One you want.
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| sarahruthbeth22 (10447) | 1 year ago | It would be good for a while but when you finally found out, it would have break broken your heart.This is so much better. There is a guy out there for you. | |
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| 2. book1962 (14619) | 1 year ago |  Poor Secretbear, I pity you after you told about all your hopes and dreams. But I think you made the right decision. There are more nice men out there I guess and I would also never agree to be anyones number two knowing he already has someone far away.
I just asked myself reading what you typed here, why does he not leave that girl in that faraway province when he only pities her and obviously does call her daily out of boredom or obligation but not because he wants to hear how his love is doing.
Even if you heard one day he broke off that relationship because its long distance now I only can advise you to be careful. He does not seem to have a good pure character cause him wanting to make you number two in his life means he doesnt know what faithfulness is.
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| 3. aseretdd (6857) | 1 year ago |  The nerve of that guy to propose something like that... how did the discussion about his girlfriend come up?... that story sounds very very fishy... and if i were you... i wouldn't believe it... and since he asked you to be his number 2... then it just means that he cannot be trusted... and he is not a gentleman...
I really hope that this opened your eyes to the kind of person that he is... he is definitely not worthy of your attention and love... so it is best that you forget about him...
What a major turn off he turned out to be...
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| secretbear (5223) | 1 year ago | i guess he wanted to be honest about it. i guess he didn't want to lie to me. i guess i should be thankful for it.>. < but it really pissed me off when he asked me if i would agree to be his number two. yeah, it was really a major turn off. you can't imagine how mad i was when i heard it. | |
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| aseretdd (6857) | 1 year ago | "I guess he wanted to be honest about it. i guess he didn't want to lie to me. i guess i should be thankful for it."
My dear secretbear... these are the words of a person who is angry... but will eventually give in to still feeling in love with the guy... not give in to his proposal of course... i hope you or him get transferred to another department... so that you don't have to look at him everyday... | |
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| 4. tyc415 (4492) | 1 year ago |  After knowing how much you like this guy I am very proud of you to hear that you will not be number 2. He does not make sense to me if he tells you he can not court you because of his number one who lives in another place but if you agree to be his number two he will court you??? I would not trust him now even if he did get rid of his number one because he would probably have another number two or even a number three somewhere else. I say just be friends and move on with your live and find a boyfriend who will appreicate you and you will be the one and only in his eyes.
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| secretbear (5223) | 1 year ago | hi tyc. thank you so much. i am proud of myself too for not letting my heart win against my head. i would really think twice now of whatever he will say to me. i will do my best to move on and forget him. he was a mistake. | |
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| 5. writersedge (4418) | 1 year ago |  Glad you're going to be done with him. He's a looser. He's not your type, your type is a monogamous relationship, not a love the one you're with type. So now you won't be wasting any more time on this fool, you'll probably find someone else. Take care.
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| secretbear (5223) | 1 year ago | thanks writersedge. yeah. i won't be wasting my time on him anymore. he really is a loser isn't he? i'm just so sad i made a mistake on him. i thought he was different. oh well. moving on. | |
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| 6. trisha_nava82 (1131) | 1 year ago |  I believe that it is good that he told you the truth, because now you know that it will never happen. Most guys never say a thing and let you court them. Unless he is willing (which he is not) to dump his girlfriend and court you and let you be him #1, then he truely isn't worth waisting your time on him. I would have to agree with you on not being his number 2 thats kind of crazy for him to say. Its better you know the truth now then later.
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| secretbear (5223) | 1 year ago | hi Trisha! yeah. i guess i should be thankful that he got honest with me about it. it could have been okay if it weren't for his indecent proposal of me being his number two. he was being a gentleman for a second then he was being a jerk the next second. tch. | |
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7.  afternoontea (547) | 1 year ago |  Yes, I really understand how you feel, We have the same experience... I was with this guy who apparently already have a gf which is not faraway but only 2 blocks from my house and I saw her alot.. Everytime I saw the girl, I got jealous because I thought I'm the one who should be in her position...
The same as you he offered me to be the second which, eventhough I liked him alot and got jealous with his girl, That makes me feel pathetic. I did rejected the offer and cry with a broken heart in my bathroom but I am just glad I did it... You can still find another good guy, because who knows that eventhough he did broke up with his gf and choose you, he will not do the same with another girl?
I'm with you secretbear...
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| 8. genchamp (1255) | 1 year ago |  Good thing is that you are spared of long-term hurt by knowing it before it's too late. truth hurts but it will set you free. Pray for the right person to come into your life and open not just your heart but also your eyes so you can discern the sincerity of the person who courts you. I agree with you, it's not good to settle for just being number one but to be the only one since true love involves trust. We should give our hearts to the one who will never break it. So it's advisable to love someone who loves the Lord more than you. If that's the case, he will not cheat on you because he knows that God sees everything and it is not right to hurt the one God has given to him for him to love, nourish and respect.
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9.  life8118 (467) | 1 year ago |  Yes, no point in be NUMBER 2.
He should understand ur importance, if not, world is big, U can't always feel unfortunate to be that person.
I think too difficult to break, but if connected is also big big problem, BETTER aviod that person, and give some break to ur relation. TIME IS ONE OF THE GREATEST HEALER.
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| 10. chantalgiardina (1775) | 1 year ago |  girl i feel you on this. I am too much of the jealous type too. not crazy jealous just jealous lol...
if he already has someone then it is not worth it. Especially if the only reason he is staying with her is because he basically feels sorry for her. No women wants to be second at all. and if they do then the love is not there. congrats for standing your ground.
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