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myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5631)   ranked 108 out of 35,189 in people1 year ago

Do you know people who only really want to talk about themselves. If they are not the centre of attention then they sulk until they cannot hold it in any longer and just HAVE to say something. I was talking to The Boss today, she went to a colleague's funeral last week and told me about a former colleague who had embarrassed herself by talking to the deceased's wife and only talked about how much she had helped the chap in his career. Nothing about how missed he would be, sorry for her loss etc.
Do you know anybody like that? Does their self-centeredness annoy you when you are with them, or do you simply ignore them?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 73/100. legend4u (772)   ranked 3,553 out of 35,189 in people   1 year ago

i like to ignore them as there are many around me. in my office everyone is self important most of them just go on saying things about them. they don't even want listeners . they just love to talk about themselves.


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5631)   ranked 108 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

LOL. I know the type. Thank you.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 409 out of 35,189 in people   1 year ago

Well there is my step-mother. She is a one-upper. Whatever you have done, she has either done it also but better or she has done it but she didn't like it or some such thing.


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5631)   ranked 108 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

Oh yes. I have certainly met her before. You can trip them up though sometimes. It's nice to see them fall occasionally. LOL. I am such a male equivalent of a b!tch tonight! Don't know what's come over me. Better go to bed and see if I'm better in the morning!.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 409 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

have a nice sleepy...


myLot reputation of 96/100. pumpkinjam (2755)   ranked 224 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

Oh my dad does that as well. Well, he's more of a "one-downer". If someone is feeling poorly, my dad will be worse. It doesn't seem to matter what it is, he will insist that his health is in a much worse state, even sometimes so far as to not believe there is anything wrong with certain people because he can't think of anything he could have which would "out-ill" them!
I do like to "one-up" people who get on my nerves but I wouldn't do it all the time. I mean, if someone who I didn't like was telling me some achievement then I would possibly make a point of letting them know I have done better.

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1496)   ranked 1,182 out of 35,189 in people   1 year ago

yes i had acquiantances that are like that, they just want to talk about themselves and nothing else! thumbdown but i just ignore because there are just people like that, its part of nature angry


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5631)   ranked 108 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

It is part of nature. They hate to be ignored so it's quite fun to do it!


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1496)   ranked 1,182 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

totally. its like ignoring them will kill them thumbup


myLot reputation of 79/100. EAStanley (2032)   ranked 4,818 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago


I know people like this as well!:) Ignoring them is fun!:) Their "stories" just get wilder and more outrageous the more no one is listening!:) It is quite funny actually! lol


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1496)   ranked 1,182 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

yes and at times it gets crazy because you can tell they are making it up! thumbdown

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4. myLot reputation of 69/100. dianel (4592)   ranked 6,894 out of 35,189 in people   1 year ago

oh man i hate people like that. I dont hang around those type of people, but what do u do when your husbands family is like that all stuck on themselves. Im in a horrible mess here pikey, help me out.
Diane


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5631)   ranked 108 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

Why are you in a mess Diane? I'll E mail you.


myLot reputation of 69/100. dianel (4592)   ranked 6,894 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

Hi Pikey i just emailed u.

Diane

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5. myLot reputation of 82/100. rjscott (3074)   ranked 886 out of 35,189 in people   1 year ago

I really can say that I don't know many, if any, people like that P1ke.

That is to not to say that my friends and acquaintances don't discuss themselves, but they don't make themselves overly important and they aren't self-centered like you describe.

I don't think that I'd want a person like that for a friend. There's only so much a person can take about "How important I am," and the like.

Memo to self: Is that why you often talk about your biking episodes, RJ? No. That's sharing experiences, which most all of us do, not making me look "important." (C) 2008 RJScott


myLot reputation of 91/100. Rosekitty (4801)   ranked 1,134 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

If we got it flaunt it and if we have fun riding then just keep at it..Now what do you want to talk about now?..you or me?..lol..


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5631)   ranked 108 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

They are about RJ. However, not everyone is like that, most are not. You hit the nail on the head there. Sharing. Fancy a cuppa? It's a little early here for a natural light.

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. OreoCookie3 (18300)   ranked 437 out of 35,189 in people   1 year ago

I have a friend that won't even let anyone else talk. She might ask how I am doing, yet she doesn't want to know.. she buts right in and starts to tell me about her. Then when I try again, she she still won't let me get a word in edgewise. I don't call her much because she doesn't want a two way conversation.


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5631)   ranked 108 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

That's exactly what I mean Oreo.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. tamarafireheart (12508)   ranked 4,707 out of 35,189 in people   1 year ago

Hi p1key,


LOL! yes, I have a friend Jean who is just like that, its all me me me, she went on holiday and has been back for a month and I still have not heard from her, so I decided to give her a call to make a appointment for my hair as she is my har dresser, she was going on about her hoilday and then telling me that they are still trying to sell their house and got an offer but they haven't found one, and the she tells me she'l call be back before I had a chance to speak and she never did I'm still waiting for her to call me, some friend. Hugs.



Tamara


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5631)   ranked 108 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

So you didn't even get to make the appointment Tamara. Now that's beyond self-centered on her behalf. That's bad business. What would she say if you went to someone else because you didn't manage to get out the words "May I make an appointment please?"! XX

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. littleowl (5030)   ranked 626 out of 35,189 in people   1 year ago

oh yes I do p1ke..all he say is me,myself and I am...it is infuriating especially when he doesn't bother to ask how I am...still thankfully he is a friend I only talk to occasionally..but even then cut it short!! hugs littleowl


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5631)   ranked 108 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

How are you Littleowl? Are things going well? I hope that you are feeling better now. XX (Don't think I said too much about me that time. LOL).


myLot reputation of 98/100. littleowl (5030)   ranked 626 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

Hi p1ke thanks for asking I have the flu but am now on anti-biotics, am feeling a little better but very weak and a bit run down, still should be back to my normal self in a few days...and no you said nothing about you, but you hardly do lol..hugs littleowl

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9. myLot reputation of 86/100. itsmefaith (2236)   ranked 558 out of 35,189 in people   1 year ago

You have just touched on one of my biggest pet peeves, P1ke! I know a few people like this. I deal with it as long as I can, but after a while, I have to just walk away, figuratively and literally.

Speaking of, have you ever heard this song? I doubt you're a country music fan, but this is the perfect song to describe this type of person. It's fun, too! I hope you can tolerate it long enough to listen once, hee!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cYrlzEUuBIM


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5631)   ranked 108 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

I loved that song (and you're right, I am not a country music fan Faith), seemed to fit what I am talking about very well indeed.


myLot reputation of 86/100. itsmefaith (2236)   ranked 558 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

Hee, I'm glad you listened to it! happy Sometimes lyrics are just perfect, aren't they?

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10. myLot reputation of 91/100. Rosekitty (4801)   ranked 1,134 out of 35,189 in people   1 year ago

P1ke since you and I are so perfect i can see us talking about ourselves allday..now what do you think i would look best in?
Which color should i wear today? Am i really as sweet as you?
wubrolleyeswhistle


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5631)   ranked 108 out of 35,189 in people  1 year ago

You are sweeter than me Rosie. Despite having an inability to answer phones! See Faith's link above. XX

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