'Love means you never have to say you're sorry'

I'm sorry to say but that sounded really stupid.

Just because you love someone, it doesn't mean you'll never hurt them. And if you do, then you HAVE to say you're sorry. If you're not sorry then you might not love them as you think you do.

I am still trying to figure out what exactly are you conveying through your discussion. Whatever it might be, you have chosen an interesting subject. For me, there is nothing like a perfect alliance or love. There is nothing perfect in this world. I've been hurt the most by the person i love the most in this world. For me, Perfect is more about accepting each other and staying committed and faithful inspite of many storms in our lives. Its definitely not giving up in the middle of the way due to problems. And if a sorry can help sustain a relationship,i would not have stopped saying it even today. At times, Sorry loses its meaning too. So, its all about forgiveness and staying committed no matter how difficult it gets. There will always be a better tomorrow. N now, I'm also trying to figure out what exactly have I written in response to your discussion. I hope You won't have to rack your brains,hehehe:-)

I buy your arguments that a conflict free and apology fee marriage may turn out to be boring. We all are human being and we err every now and then. If I commit any mistake or disorder, I immediately admit it and unhesitantly go for an apology. If my better half commit any mistake, I try not to make an issue out of it, I know afterall she carry out lots of house-hold and outside tasks and mistakes are bound to occur. What is required is a good level of understanding between both the partners and to carry along with each other's plus and minus points.

i guess what i think about this is not literally that you should not say sorry...i'm guessing it means even if you haven't said the word sorry your already forgiven, that's how it seems to me..yes we always have to say sorry and when we say it we should mean it...then again it could mean truly love means forgiveness

well i think if you are in love you will not make any mistake at all?? if you are truly in love i am 100% sure that you will not make any mistake and you will not be able to say sorry at all,those people who are in love are very active also some times they make mistakes because we are humans and we make errors all the time,but the other person if loves you does not need sorry from you in return at all,so here also no need to sorry,they will get you and will try to help you instead of blaming you
gohar

LIke I said in another post . My marriage never had a dull moment lol

I remember that line from the movie love story! What a sad ending . I suppose when you love someone they know you are sorry just by seeing you hurting! I dont get the line tho . A sorry and a hug sometimes is the only thing to help, and yet sometimes a sorry is not enough.

I agree with you. I think that that saying is a load of crap. If you really care about someone, you would be sorry for causing them even the slightest discomfort. I say sorry to people I care about a lot and I almost never really say sorry to people I dont care about.

Love is alot of emotions and feelings.
There is nothing wrong with saying "I'm sorry"
I think when one says it, it shows how mature
they really are. We all are human, and make
plenty of mistakes. There will always be a time
when we may be saying I'm sorry. When a person
can't say they are sorry, thats when there is
a problem.

I remember it as "Love means never having to say 'I'm sorry'"
And while I agree with you and disagree with that quote, I'm afraid a lot of people have a difficult time saying they're sorry and all they do is prolong the pain...there's never any real reconciliation. I think it's a sorry philosophy that teaches not recognizing erors and apologizing. And like you, I think it's necessary.