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Saying 'Thank you' email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 92/100. mojcica (838)   ranked 1,279 out of 35,410 in people1 year ago

A person comes to you for help and you do your best to help him, you devote your time, energy and knowledge into helping him.
But when things are done that person just takes it for granted and doesnt even say thank you.

This is just plain rude!!! I mean a simple thank you its not too much to ask, is it?

It can also happen here...online, not just in real world; you can try and help someone and he/she wouldnt say thanks.

How would you react? Would you say something? Would you keep quiet and just kept your thoughts for yourself and later stay away from that person? Would you feel offended?


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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. thebeaddoodler (2768)   ranked 448 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

They're acting like a 3 year old. Treat them like one. "And what do you say?" "Thank You" verrry gooood!

No I've not sincerely ever done that, but I've felt like doing it sometimes. a simple thank you really isn't too much to ask for, but it's surprising how many people have absolutely no manners!


myLot reputation of 92/100. mojcica (838)   ranked 1,279 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

Uuuu love the idea! I just might use it...thank you!:)


myLot reputation of 95/100. katrhina23 (1116)   ranked 4,353 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

hahaha yeah that's what a person should do if somebody forgets to say thank you. I have never done it but I might try once.


ammu007 (71)   ranked 18,447 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

hey that is really good

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. danega (663)   ranked 2,593 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

I just started a new post about spreading kindness then ive read your post just now try to read some of my post and just now were on the same ground.i agree with you


myLot reputation of 92/100. mojcica (838)   ranked 1,279 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

Really? Got to take a look there then too:)

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3. adeeb747 (88)   ranked 35,002 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

I feel normal cu wher i live its normal
so I will say to him/her you welcome


myLot reputation of 92/100. mojcica (838)   ranked 1,279 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

Yes i also think its normal, just a common courtesy i guess.

thanks for replying.

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. owlwings (5292)   ranked 1,158 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

Most people, I have to say, understand that you have spent some time and trouble on their behalf and express their gratitude (sometimes embarrassingly). How do we so often respond? "Oh, it was nothing!"

There are always a few who don't take the trouble to say thank you and sometimes it's a little galling when that happens. I generally work on the principle of expecting the least from people. Then I can only be pleasantly surprised when I get more!


myLot reputation of 92/100. mojcica (838)   ranked 1,279 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

I usally expect too much from people and trying to convince them they can do more, even though they are telling me its all they have to offer.

thank you for your answer:)

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5. chickencereal (80)   ranked 19,554 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

I think society is starting to make it "inferred." When you do a favor and the person you did a favor for smiles or something, they are inferring "Thank you." I guess it's just part of laziness to say thanks. Although, you do have a point; it's not much to ask for a simple "Thank you."


myLot reputation of 92/100. mojcica (838)   ranked 1,279 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

well sooner or later that lack of politness turns back on you and you cant get anyone to help you anymore. Thank you...its just like the easiest thing one could say.

Thanks for your answer....see how easy was that hehehe

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6. myLot reputation of 81/100. dncmanning (504)   ranked 8,919 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

My mother taught me years ago that please and thank you are the most important words in the English vocabulary and I raise my children to be the same way. I, like you have been in the same place and thought well "your welcome, jerk" but I have never said it- I would rather not start a agrugment.

Online- while it may be cheating when I start a discussion here for instance I always say thanks in advance for your help or input. Does that count? Of course if someone goes above and beyond I try to come back to that person and say thank you directly.

I like your question.

Happy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 92/100. mojcica (838)   ranked 1,279 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

I like this...its very polite and just well behaived. Here on mylot its hard to say thanks for every post you get, as it looks like its not meant, but I like your way of saying it in advance. thumbup

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7. Ajaykhande (72)   ranked 34,602 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

First thank you for asking me that question. Those people who does not say thank they are cheap and selfish so pls stay away from him. Just say thank you its not a big deal for every human . . .


myLot reputation of 92/100. mojcica (838)   ranked 1,279 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

Yes i think so too...those two little words can mean so much.
Thanks for your opinion.

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8. myLot reputation of 89/100. Nhey16 (1706)   ranked 5,320 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

whenever I would forget to say my thanks to my kids, they would say "You're welcome", as a reminder... coz that's what i taught them to do... and i do that to them also, whenever they forget to say their gratitude... Maybe, I would do that in here if someone forgets or didnt even bother to say "thank you".


myLot reputation of 92/100. mojcica (838)   ranked 1,279 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

hehe yes maybe you should do that:) You know, i sometimes do that aswell, I say you're welcome like in the joke..just to let them know they really should have said thanks:)

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. se7enthbird (2683)   ranked 316 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

ouch. i think you are reffering to me har har har. i am not a thank you person and my wife hates me for that. when we are lost and need to ask direction after i gain the info i just nod and drive away. she hates me for that. i am not used on saying thank you but now that we have a two year old son i am finding myself saying thank you. glad that now i know how to and saw the imporatance of it. now i am not a palin rude person har har har winklol


myLot reputation of 92/100. mojcica (838)   ranked 1,279 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

Well if you found yourself in my discussion then maybe I was talking about you:-D
I guess its never to late to learn;)

thanks for your post;)

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10. myLot reputation of 93/100. kissie34 (1482)   ranked 2,497 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

Definitely, I will really feel bad to that person if she/he just take fr granted all of the effort that I've done to help him/her.. Of course, I can't demand or force him/her to thank me since it is nice to hear someone thanking not coming from his/her heart.. Maybe, I will tell that person how much I was disappointed with/her.. Next time she/he will asked me a favor, I won't help him/her anymore since he/she doesn't know how to appreciate all the things that I've done for him/her.. I will really tell that person how do I feel so that he/she will realize that she/he's not doing good things for those people who had help him/her.. If she/he will continue his/her attitude like that then many people will get disappointed and will not help him/her anymore.. So, it is good to let that person know how do I feel... happy


myLot reputation of 92/100. mojcica (838)   ranked 1,279 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

Well talking is always a good thing, though I must admit I wouldnt tell a person that unless he/she was really close to me. Knowing me I would take a grudge and not help the next time.

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