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myLot reputation of 84/100. nheansocheath (137)1 year ago

I am very difficult to make a good decision for my problem. I love a girl very much, and everyday I always spend my time with her in order to make her feel warm with me.
She like me very much. She said that she want to stay with me. But now I am very weak at studying because I spend a lot of time with her. I don't know whether to choose her or my study. If I choose her, my study will go down. If I choose my study and stay away from her, she maybe angry with me. What should I do?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 56/100. savitha_r86 (655)   ranked 795 out of 3,577 in lover   1 year ago

How can love spoil ur studies??It will never.. The problem is not with love with u people. I have a friend who loved a guy and she was the topper in our college. Just work hard keeping in my mind that u shud keep the gal who loves and trusts happy for her lifetime,u'll start working for her. I really don't know how old u are. The depth of ur love. But I bet if u are really serious about it,u will work hard and try to give ur best in all the sectors. Hope I have made things clear. If u still feel that u r not able to concentrate on ur studies bcos of love,I wud suggest u to stay away,work hard accomplish urself and then get back to ur love with a dignified position in the society. All the best dear happythumbup


myLot reputation of 66/100. Volkus (154)  1 year ago

Sorry, but this means that you guys have a weak relationship. From your post, I may assume that you don't love her that much. These thing aren't excluding one other - love and studies. She should understand you, and she'll respect you the same as she did before. If there is true love, sacrifice is number one. And it doesn't depend what kind of sacrifice.


myLot reputation of 84/100. nheansocheath (137)  1 year ago

Well, I think I should stay away from her, but I cannot control my mind.
You know it's very hard to stay away from someone you like very much.


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2. myLot reputation of 80/100. sweetmafia (208)   1 year ago

You know, finishing your studies should be your priority right now. I know you love the girl so much but what will you be in the future? Eventually, you will plan to have a family and unable to support them because you did not finish school and cannot get a good job. Make her as inspiration for you to study more and finish school. You can still see her even though you are studying. During weekends or school break. There are a lot of means for you to be able to contact her and show your love. Through e-mail or yahoo chat. Just study hard. You can do it.


myLot reputation of 84/100. nheansocheath (137)  1 year ago

Studying is very important for myself and my family. I also think that If I choose her, I will be a good lover.But I will be the person who doesn't have enough ability to get the good job. It is very complicated....

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3. franfranflan (60)   1 year ago

oh please do not let your studies go down the drain, as for your gf, she will understand if she loves you as much as she claims, you can always find a balance between the two passions in your life, but defo dont let go of some valuables tools you are gaining just now for love, you are young and u can cope.
I hope you do well.:)


myLot reputation of 84/100. nheansocheath (137)  1 year ago

Yes I will try to keep both of them. My study and my love are important for me.

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4. myLot reputation of 75/100. efarmer (140)   ranked 1,102 out of 3,577 in lover   1 year ago

Well if she is studying the same thing that you do then you could both study together. Otherwise you can talk to her about your problem and then you can work out a way so that you spend time studying and also with her and who knows maybe she can help you out with your studies too. And you know if she loves you then she will understand. so dont worry and all the best


myLot reputation of 84/100. nheansocheath (137)  1 year ago

Good. You are right. Now I am study the same subject with her. I hope she will
encourage me to study and we will one day succeed the goal that we want.

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5. myLot reputation of 50/100. jzbrynn (1413)   ranked 3,510 out of 3,577 in lover   1 year ago

Can you adjust the time between staying with her and stay focus on your study? Because you can keep both if you can adjust your time right. It is possible, but it will be a little bit harder for you to keep up. Think about what you can do.

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6. myLot reputation of 87/100. StrawberryKisses (1661)   ranked 1,426 out of 3,577 in lover   1 year ago

This situation is not complicated at all. You have to balance the 2. Talk to her and tell her you have to spend some time doing your studies and just make certain days where you spend with her and not your studies. You need to provide for her if you want her in your life forever and you cannot provide for her if you fail in your studies.

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7. ammu007 (71)   1 year ago

hey according to me she wont be angry with u
... spent some time with her daily and utiliz other time in studying think of ur future
make it safe this is for her also

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8. aquaroan1365 (72)   1 year ago

have a good day,,why you choose if you can have together? you go to school and make her inspiration just talk to her and make her understand, if she really truly loves you she wlll understand your situation. Tell her that what you will do is all for both of you and your future. It's hard to find a good work if you don't have a good education.

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9. myLot reputation of 81/100. theembittered (955)   1 year ago

Now you must choose your study, because if you study tomorrow you will have a better future!! Maybe you can talk with her about this and tell her you really want to study, you and her can go out the weekends;). Have a nice day and a good week:) see you soon and bye bye:D

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10. intanayu (50)   1 year ago

You must to balance the road with him and learn.You must make a schedule where you have to learn and the way you with him.

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