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how can you tell if your spouse is a gay? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 87/100. silverjam (641)   ranked 1,799 out of 23,211 in relationships1 year ago

My friend's husband is a gay and was also one of my bosses at work. Rumors about the issue have been spreading all over the workplace but I dared not telling her for fear of ruining their relationship and his status in the office.

My male co-workers said his gay gestures were very noticeable in various ways like the way he talked ( he talked like women ); critical, meticulous and perfectionist. I also noticed he was so fond of topnoth brands and nice perfumes. Some also said its very obvious in his body structures. But I guess what made people accused him of being one is the fact that he is often seen w/ the company of the younger, handsome males specially w/ the apprentice in the office.

Can you tell personally if your spouse is a gay? Are there indications to prove such? ( accusations )

 
 
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myLot reputation of 87/100. silverjam (641)   ranked 1,799 out of 23,211 in relationships  1 year ago

No I never told her but she eventually heard the rumors. I believed it was not just an office gossip. Actually one of our apprentice confessed being molested by him w/ they were together in one of the live-in seminars. I personally noticed his fondness w/ younger males in the office but I never told anything to his wife for the reason I stated earlier. Yes he was confirmed as one.


myLot reputation of 88/100. AmandaBarnhart (385)   ranked 1,687 out of 23,211 in relationships  1 year ago

how was he 'confirmed' as one? Did you yourself ask him? If you didn't then there is no way you can 'confirm' this information. And if you and others knowingly know that he molested this apprentice then I don't know why you aren't going to the authorities.


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myLot reputation of 87/100. silverjam (641)   ranked 1,799 out of 23,211 in relationships  1 year ago

Yes I guess she knew or even just suspecting him at that time because of the rumors but yes I guess she just accepted it anyway, afterall he is her husband.

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8. myLot reputation of 88/100. AmandaBarnhart (385)   ranked 1,687 out of 23,211 in relationships   1 year ago

I think rumors can be very malicious and detremental to people. I think that you are in the right in not saying anything to her for two reasons. 1. You can't verify the information and 2. that is something that if he is indeed he should be telling her himself.

It is rude for people to even be saying such things to be honest because what if it comes out that he really isn't? What if he's just very metrosexual? I bet a lot of people in your work place would feel pretty bad if they ever ruined a marriage off of false information. I always steer clear of gossip, it does nothing but tarnish peoples names and more so it's often done behind their backs. People like that don't stand well in my books. If anyone had anything to say to me I respect them more if they say it to my face or at least give me the common cutesy of asking me if it's true. It allows the person to defend themselves. Where as petty talking behind peoples back gets nothing done and only makes the rumor grow. That poor man...


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