Enjoying Life

Do you ever think that the person you are pissing off may take it seriously. Thanks for the response anyway.

nope. I could care less about the other persons feelings.lol. The only peole I do this to are my friends, and we all know each other pretty well. My name here at myot is actually what everyone calls me. I'm stingey. I go for self to please only myslef. Everyone knows I'm the scrooge of the group. I don't go around making comments on things to people I don't know. I keep that to myself. My coments to my friends only come when I see them wasting their money on crap that I have already wasted time doing, and it pissed me off to see them follow in my footsteps. Like my firends brother, he used to say things like "I'm trying to catch up with stinge" when he shops for sneakers. The thing is he lives in an apartment that he shares with a roomate. Where the hell you gonna put all this stuff. This guy at my job buys every single pair of sneakers that comes out. He's 40 yrs old. He told me that he keeps all his Micheal Jordan sneakers locked up in storage because he doesn't trust leaving them in his house. And I just thought about it not toolong ago, the guy lives at home with his mother. He has no choice to put his stuff in storgage. I had well over 100 pairs of shoes laying all over my parents house in the past. And this guy has a ton of shoes and the clothes to go along with it. So I know there's no room in his apartment for all that crap. But I never commented on how stupid it is for him to spend money the way he does, and he doesn't even have a car. Not saying having a car is the most important thing in the world, but the guy gets dressed up in his $500 outfits at work everynight like he's at a club, and puts his designer $300 shades to ride the bus home every morning.I'm sure if I told hom this he would be very offended. But it's his life and he enjoys doing the childish things he does, which is spend money on meaningless crap! Correct me if I'm wrong,but I think the point you were trying to make in this discussion was when you have things that you want to do with your life like go back to school for example. And you have that one family member or friend that says "You're too old to do that. It's a waste of time to try to go back to school and learn a new craft at that age. Buy the time you finish knowone will hire you anyway". And then of course you get your hopes down and start having second thougts about it. What I do is give harsh comments on things I se my friends doing that I have already wasted my time and money on. In my opinion I'm giving them advise. I'm trying to tell them that there's nothing wrong with shopping for clothes and sneakers, but don't get caught up buying up everything that you see. It kinda pisses me off to here my friends say "I just brought the new black and blue Jordans that just came out. Now I'm about to order the macthing shirt with the hat that I saw online". I think that we are to old to be doing this kind of stuff at this age in our lives. It was cool when we were in our early 20's. But now as we are all over 30, it's time to grow up. One of my friends pays rent, has 2 kids, and doesn't even have a regular job. He's a dj and he sells mix cd's on the side. I don't see how he can spend his money on worhtless crap like that. But as far as crushing peoples dreams, that's something I don't do. This girl at my job said she was trying to create these desighner notepade with a strap that you can carry over yoru shoulder. She wants to sell them in places like walmart. I didn't think it was the best idea I've ever heard, but I told her good luck with it. You never know she might make some good money off of it. I'm sure there's someone out there that might tell her she's wasting her time and her invention will never sell because people won't be interested in a product like that. That's the kind of people I think you are referring to in this discussion mostly. You might be one of those who wants to travel and see the world. And then here come that one person that tells you "it's a waste of time. There's nothing out there for you to see. The world is the same no matter where you go. Just another bunch of states and countries with people doing nohing. Why watse your time traveling when all you are going to do is the same thing you are doing here?" Things like that I don't do.

Thamk you for the response.

I agree with you on that. Thanks for the response.

You are right it always be a family member. Thanks for the response.