marriage and sharing

im not married yet, but i would still give my hit on it. everyone should be aware that marriage is about sharing; ranging from the smallest thing to the biggest one. no matter what we do, its all should be shared together (except for some cases like going to toilet - logic!!). i would say that every partner should be together until the end unless there is something really bad happening - but in this case it is not. from what you are saying, i think she should stick with her husband because she has no big reason to run away. more than that, they have children, and if they broke out, the fate of their children would change. who would like to live without parents.?? anyway, maybe there was something fishy going on in their marriage, leading the wife to run away. i donno.

his wife must support him in every aspect.definitely he can get the job in future.so dont lose her husband.believe him and follow him and support him.

This is a issue between husband & wife. we all are third person & I think Husband & wife are bound with each other in such a way that how both of them understand each other we dont know & this issue as you explain is not so simple to give our openion, But one thing I like to say that Only Job is not the single reason for that leady to left her house............
Because 8 years is not small period .......... they both know each other very well & for any of the leady ...... take this dicession is not so simple..........
Solve this issue with understanding............Be calm.........
This issue will be solve by husband & wise only the mediater has try to manage one meetng .
Wish you best of luck
Life is like a Ice-cream Enjoy it before melt.........

Marriage partners should be together in sickness and in health unless something really bad is going on. He should discuss with his wife and in-laws. If the wife refuses fine! There are other roses.

sorry i cant understand. ..

You don't throw out the baby with the bath water. Bad things happen. That is why the vows say "For Better, or For Worse; For Richer or Poorer". I guess she thought when she married her husband there would NEVER be any downs? In my relationship with my husband we have both gone through short spans of unemployment. We love each other very much and those times were still VERY hard. We still want to be together no matter what.

In fact, marriage is 2 person kind of a thing. If one had give up then the other need to bear with it and if they have a children then I would say good luck to the other person. Moreover, a wife won't not stand on their husband going broke at this time of economy. Because people tent not to understand each other and want a better life. No point to live with this kind of people and don't cry over split milk tell your friend to look for another jobs and start create wealth online or other places to support his own children if he wants to become the breadwinner. So, don't get too deep with this kind of problem if it is not control properly it will stress out then anxiety or depression may come. Take care....