i love you! - in your relationsship do you say this because...?

yes almost all of us say this words its no doubt with that. but have you notice that forcing other to say this words making him/her a habit to say this words instead of by heart. just an example if you where able to prepare you partner a egg in morning until the end of the night everyday and tell to your partner if he/she will still eat the food you prepare. (i didn't say that love is like a food) a set of example only).

oh well, maybe you're right. But it is still on a case to case basis. It is my habit too to say I love you to my husband but it really came from my heart and I really mean it. When we have some misunderstandings and I feel bad, I won't respond if he will say I love you to me.

you know that kind of thing i will not contradict because saying i love you to the person you love or loves you make it feel secure and something that is love can only be explain. but one thing only that did they say this, is it because it became your/their responsibility (afraid that if your partner wont hear this he/she might be jealous) to say or often said but in your heart it was keep and valued just for you.

we should be careful when to say this words if not we might found our self's saying this words as a habit or the worst that we say this because we are force to say this and forget to used this by what should it be meant.

it is the fact that when we hear those 3 words it keeps us safe, happy, alive, and believing that we are so loved by our partner. but have you notice to say or asked this to you partner or to someone that you are close,is saying "i love you" its because you really meant by heart or its because it became your habit to say it. ex: try to prepare a food the same in the morning everyday and asked him/her if he/she like it. it is like saying i love you making them to memorized what to say and not by the meant of heart. if you can hear those words that was meant by habit and meant by heart you will know. i didn't wanted you to contradict i just wanted to share something that would be valuable to you when to used the words "i love you". happy mylotting.

closely and nearly can be compare on becoming a habit. it is ok or normal but the meaning of it is almost to lost when to used this words, am i right? it became to be a habit. you can observe one of your friend that does not often say i love you to her/his partner but once it was said it worth a millions of meaning. what do you feel when you hear it always and every day you meet some of the meaning was lost am i right, i know you can feel that. no hesitation of believing what you believe before but a share of thoughts for a friends like you. happy mylotting.

it should be and it must be taken serious and said not by a habit or by force but by the meant of our heart. everyone of us loving someone because we do accept them from the very beginning of the time we accepted to became a partner. i have got what you wanted to tell and to be short it deals about acceptance. the point of view is deeper that it wasn't tell but explain when to used this words and i found it almost supporting my discussion which i appreciate. thanks

from you response i have it reminds me a girl that used to like me and send me a love letter once every week, and suddenly started to hear her saying "i love you" which make me feel so happy we never been but you know what when i do hear it again and again from her the meaning was lost its just like she wanted to make fun of saying that words. and i found to hear that words from her meaningless. (i am not that serious in life it just came out and understand what is life all about). well i do like what you think because as you said you only said it only if your really meant to say so you won't lost the meaning of that words, that's great!