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Friend and Best Friend. What's the difference? email this discussion to a friend?

vahik89 (14)   ranked 2,012 out of 12,488 in friend1 year ago

Do you really think that there is a kind of term best friend. Why, because he/she could help you with much more than other friends did because they couldn't. How one of friends is becoming best, if they all are the best. What? You start to spend with one friend more time than with the other one and he/she becomes best. What if everything changes, and you start to spend more time with another friend which is not your best friend, would he/she become your best friend? What if you need help and your best friend just can't help you, and the other friend helps you and several times. He/she will also become your best friend and so on. I can't get it...

 
 
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1. grazcut (47)   1 year ago

yes there's a best friend.the one that you know everthing about and she knows about you.the one that you can tell anything and thesame she does.the one that with a look in your eyes she knows what hapened to you and what your thinking.the one that you know the much long and the best.there are friends that you cant tell them everything and even if they know you a long time they dont know what you feel exactly.


vahik89 (14)   ranked 2,012 out of 12,488 in friend  1 year ago

so how do you choose best friend. Like you have several friends how do you know which one should you tell everything which one will understand you? Aren't you afraid that you can make a wrong choice?


grazcut (47)  1 year ago

from the first time you see this person you just click wiht her or him.and till now i didn't made a wrong choice


vahik89 (14)   ranked 2,012 out of 12,488 in friend  1 year ago

Good for you! I hope you have more and more best friends that are really the best!


tiffanyharper12 (1)  1 year ago

I disagree that it's someone that you clicked with right off the bat. Although I do have a best friend where that was the case...I also have a best friend that I met through my husbands job that I could hardly stand at first and then only through slightly forced situations we spent time together and now are great friends.


grazcut (47)  1 year ago

from my experience dont agree with you.till now i always clicked with my best friend from the begining.like the situation you said i only have friends like that but not in the case of a best friend.

 
2. myLot reputation of 87/100. danega (663)   ranked 213 out of 12,488 in friend   1 year ago

i guess the difference is the word best.lol just kidding my friend. It really would depend on you how you interpret this my friend. some people have more than just one best friend some have one.sometimes all our friends deserted us but you would know the real essence of being a best friend when you star becoming one yourself. Its like trying to define what true love is.lol
still kidding. well nice topic you got there. happy

 
3. myLot reputation of 84/100. v4vikas (1439)   ranked 1,503 out of 12,488 in friend   1 year ago

Yes i think that there is a big difference between friend and Best friend. A friend is someone we just have a good talk, not always. Friend can be referred to any person whom we talk well, and quite very well. We dont share much with the friends, where as a best friend is like someone from us, we tell him everything what matters us. I have noticed this that with best friends we are very open in talk, on any topic. There is no boundry.

Have a goodd day..

Happy mylotting..


vahik89 (14)   ranked 2,012 out of 12,488 in friend  1 year ago

Thank you for your response! Have a great day!!


myLot reputation of 84/100. v4vikas (1439)   ranked 1,503 out of 12,488 in friend  1 year ago

Thanks for commenting..


myLot reputation of 84/100. v4vikas (1439)   ranked 1,503 out of 12,488 in friend  1 year ago

Thanks for commenting..


vahik89 (14)   ranked 2,012 out of 12,488 in friend  1 year ago

I'd like to ask a question. Have you earned any money by mylot?


myLot reputation of 84/100. v4vikas (1439)   ranked 1,503 out of 12,488 in friend  1 year ago

The money is credited in my account, but i have not yet received any cash payment from mylot. Once i received a payment from PTC site and i bought a pen drive from e-bay. I received it from postal service.

 
4. egypt33 (21)   1 year ago

Best friend is the one whom you can share your deepest thoughts, your deepest feelings, without any condition. It s like a soulmate, a mirror of your conscious, it s one of the best things you can have in life. A regular friend is the one whom you can go out for a coffee, talking about usual things.


zhangyaya (3)  1 year ago

I think best friend is the one you say nothing but she knows everything you want to talk.


egypt33 (21)  1 year ago

Yes, words are useless in a good friendship, the eye to eye regards are saying all.

 
5. myLot reputation of 55/100. gaylalou690 (343)   ranked 1,209 out of 12,488 in friend   1 year ago

yes i do belived that theres a term for bestfriend. it was just like love. love for ur family and for yourself. theres a difference between that love. also in friends and bestfriend. friends is those person who just met for just a happy companions and bestfriend is the one who knows ur darkest secret but she keeps it and accepts you from who u are and what u are no matter what happenes in your life. she was there to comfort you. ups and down of your life.

 
6. myLot reputation of 79/100. vellalyn777 (589)   ranked 2,440 out of 12,488 in friend   1 year ago

actually I have already started a discussion regarding the difference between friends and best friends.. and just wanna share it to you again.. here are the difference...

1.) FRIENDS call your parents Mr and Mrs
BESTFRIEND call your parents mom and dad or auntie and uncle

2.) FRIENDS has never seen you cry
BESTFRIEND has always has the best shoulder to cry on

3.) FRIENDS never ask for anything to eat or to drink
BEST FRIEND opens the fridge at make herself at home

'4.( FRIENDS ask you to write your number
BEST FRIEND they ask you for their number (because they can't remember it..)

5.) FRIENDS borrows your stuff a few days and gave it back
BEST FRIEND has a closet full of your stuff

6.) FRIENDS only knows a few things about you
BEST FRIEND could write a biography of your life story

7.) FRIENDS will leave you behind if that is what the crowd is doing
BESTFRIEND will always go with you

'8.) FRIENDS will ask where you've been (after going AWOL)
BESTFRIEND will say miss you and go on being you're friend

9 A Friend says hi...hello...bye...and walks away...
A Best Friend always stop by your side and asks how are you doing?

10. A Friend has never seen you cry...
A Best Friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

11. A Friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument...
A Best Friend knows that it's not a friendship, until after you've had a fight.

12. A Friend hates it when you call, after he has gone to bed...
A Best Friend asks you... why you took so long to call.

13. A Friend expects you to be always there for any help...
A Best Friend is always there, wherever you require any help.

by the way the number 9-13.. I've got from Girlbits.. she responded on my discussion and I decided to add it on my list... thanks to her.. thumbup

happy posting and GOD BLESS... hope you find the difference between the two...!


vahik89 (14)   ranked 2,012 out of 12,488 in friend  1 year ago

Nice response! Is this real for you?

 
7. myLot reputation of 91/100. mimico (3257)   ranked 644 out of 12,488 in friend   1 year ago

No I don't think having a real best friend is conditional such that if that person isn't around for a long time then he or she will lose the best friend status to another person. It's a permanent thing in my opinion which is why I never had a best friend. I have some good friends who I can trust, but ultimately, I think I just need to take care of myself first. And if I need help then I can always run to my family and a handful of my cousins and uncles.


vahik89 (14)   ranked 2,012 out of 12,488 in friend  1 year ago

Yeah, you've got a good point of view!!!!!

 
8. myLot reputation of 87/100. jessi0887 (2524)   ranked 1,113 out of 12,488 in friend   1 year ago

I have friends and i have a best friend. MY best friend i have known for 8 years or more. We are close and tell each other everything. Most of my friends are like people i just can get along with. Some i stay in contact with some the contact fades away in time. I have a co-worker who is a friend. I know though after i leave this job we may never talk again. THerefore she was just a friend.

 
9. myLot reputation of 66/100. piya84 (484)   ranked 4,540 out of 12,488 in friend   1 year ago

getting help is not basic criteria...for best frend and frend...best frend is one who understand u completely..on whom u can trust completely for sharing ur dark secretes,ur sad moments..n u are sure about him he wont missuse it and wont play politic using these shared secrets.
best frend not only helps u ..he stand there for you when everyone around you start bleming on you.

 
10. myLot reputation of 93/100. SuzyQ12 (1893)   ranked 506 out of 12,488 in friend   1 year ago

A best friend is one that knows you and
still loves you. A friend is just like a
aquaintance. There are times when your
best friend won't be able to help, but thats
life. A best friend is still the same. We can
have more than one best friend. But at the same
time there is always one you feel more close to.

 
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