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myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,528 out of 35,410 in people1 year ago

I've thought about this but not as much as I could because it would just get too weird I think. I have no idea what it means but I find myself constantly attracted to gay men. My FIRST love in High School as a freshman transformed and admitted he was gay just out of the blue. I have hit it off with gay guys alot of times but more so I have hit it off with men that always left me wondering.

Currently, Im into this guy that 'sounds gay' when he talks, not feminine but the whole 'look girlfriend' type attitude. He's questioned that he is very suddely but the sex is hot!! I've been to a 'gay' district in Pittsburgh and there was this bartender at one of the bars that I just wanted to hop the counter and tackle him the chemistry flowed off him so thick, absolutely unbearable--i know theres gay men that will get with girls and I think he was one.

I just don't get why I attract so many gay men into my life, what the h-- does that mean. I absolutely love men and everything god has given them and I am not gay. I have never been with a girl or attracted but certainly to gay guys. The only conclusion that I can come to is that I like the challenge of being to get what I techinically cannot have i guess but how does that explain those I casually meet and later get the feeling they may be gay. I think there the in-the-closet types that have not come out yet or don't plan to and just want to restrain it, really dont know.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 56/100. dnatureofdtrain (3935)   ranked 3,291 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,528 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

what your saying does make alot of sense. Me and the guy Im currently involved is kind of in between. He's a jewish guy and really likes me but Im very reserved even though emotionally I do feel for him.

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4. myLot reputation of 88/100. rsa101 (7434)   ranked 1,703 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

Wow that is really weird but I guess you are the type of person that would choose differently amongst others. Well I guess you may attract not the true gays perhaps but those that are borderline because from what I know true blooded gays would never get attracted to you unless you would act like a boy yourself.


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7. myLot reputation of 40/100. ICAAIWN (139)   1 year ago

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. lingli_78 (10204)   ranked 5,897 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

this is interesting and to be honest with you, i don't know why... may be you can consult a psycholog and they can explain to you the reason why better... have to tried to talk about your problem with a psycholog??? i think you should so that you can get a good answer and you won't keep on wondering... good luck... take care and have a nice day...


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,528 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

yea, I hear you my friends but don't you think getting a PSYCH involved would just confuse the s--t out of me or bring skeletons out of my closet that i didnt even know i had, that seems awful! lol

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10. myLot reputation of 82/100. Greeneagle24 (3720)   ranked 1,677 out of 35,410 in people   1 year ago

Maybe it's part of your nature or it's just another feminine thing that i would never understand. but if you intend to change it i bet it's gonna be one hell hard time for you. but if i were you should just accept it. from my perception, not all gays are into men, but to women to, weird huh but true. and honestly it's rare because it happened to my country as well and they even televised it as one drama show.


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,528 out of 35,410 in people  1 year ago

oh that sounds cool, whats it called?


tintin2006 (58)  1 year ago

Oh really? I never knew that some gays are into women. Interesting. Well, I think who we like is a matter of references and needs. Usually if you're masculine, I bet you'll like a more feminine partner.


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