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I told my boyfriend I cheated, was it the right thing to do? email this discussion to a friend?

player_becks (2)1 year ago

In August I kissed a boy for literally 2 seconds on holiday when being absolutely wrecked. I've just told my one year boyfriend about this stupid stupid incident but I told him through 3 stories. First I mentioned the boy, then I told him that I thought about kissing him and then that I actually did. He became upset due to the fact that I told him through several stories but I explained that i was scared of losing him and wasn't sure of how he would react. I'm extremely sorry about this drunken night and since haven't even looked at another boy. He knows that I love him and that Im so sorry but I just wanted to know if everyone thinks Ive done the right thing telling him. He wanted me to be honest so I have been. Cheers

 
 
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Jakker27 (3910) response was accepted on 12/18/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 84/100. jambi462 (2340)   1 year ago

I think that you did do the right thing but to be honest I don't think that kissing is all that big of a deal. Hopefully he forgave you because like you said you still love him very much and don't have any feelings for that any guy. It's good to have an open relationship and you should be proud of yourself for being honest with your boyfriend.


player_becks (2)  1 year ago

It wasn't a big deal. We was dancing and he pulled me towards him. He had ice in his mouth and was kinda using that to get a kiss but I just kissed back for 2 seconds which is the worst mistake of my life. I'm so glad he forgave me tho. I don't know what I'd do without him.

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. Jakker27 (3910)   1 year ago

you two will be fine and I would give you a big thumbs up. I'm sure he'll get over it in time. The fact is you were honest because it bothered you. You could have dismissed it as nothing and reasoned that it was the drink but you were brave, held up your hands because you appriciated what you have and saw that you were wrong

So many people don't do that, it might even make you guys stronger in the future. You've seen that your boyfriend cares and it will take time but he'll hopefully come to think about it and realise that you didn't have to tell him but you did

I think calling it 'cheated' is big of you - a lot of people would brush it aside as a moment of weakness. Cheated is a strong word and the fact you use it shows that you have 'high' standards about what two people shouldn't get up to in a relationship

So I think you've done the right thing and I think he will get over it and I think it'll make you guys stronger in time but learn your less and don't do it again;)

goodluck


player_becks (2)  1 year ago

Thank you so much. You've said exactly what I feel and to hear it from someone else is fantastic. I feel that now I've told him I appreciate him so much more and my love for him HAS grown. He told me once that our relationship is about truth and honesty so I supose he has thought about that and about that I have done what is best for him, to let him know. I've most definaetly learnt my lesson, never ever again, I swear.
Thank you so much


myLot reputation of 86/100. Jakker27 (3910)  1 year ago

anytime;)

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