Do guys want girls to play hard to get?

girls do not really want to play hard to get. girls just want the guy to exert some effort at courting the lady to make known his intentions. besides, it is inappropriate for a woman to run after the man who has caught her atterntion.

now, if the man shows disinterest in a woman just because he believes that the woman is now interested in him. that man might lose the woman's interest in the guy totally. so be aware of this, young man. not all women will puruse the man she likes. problem is, there are women who will never entertain a man anymore after thinking that the man is not really interested in her after all. it was just game for the guy.

I tend to be toward the shy side so I don't lose interest in a girl if I know she is interested in me but do just the opposite and show my interest more. My problem is in recognizing if a girl is interested. So I really like it if a girl makes it clear she is interested especially if I have overcome my being shy enough to let her know I am interested. I don't believe in playing games and look for honesty since that is what I offer and what I want in return.

I think that guys are predators and thus like the idea of "hunting women". However, at the same time from my experience they also like you being straightforward with them. Thus, always try to maintain a little bit of mystery.

well...

personally for me, if a guy seems interested in me i'd be the one playing hard to get.=X i guess it's my "test" for him to see how far he is willing to "wait". This is to sieve out those not really interested ones.

But if i were to show an interest in a guy & he suddenly turns the dormant one, i'd just think that he is not interested in me anymore & swallow the bitter pill and get on with it. It normally hurts when you think a guy is interested in you actually is not

I guess it has happened to me so many times that i tend to be skeptical when a guy treats me well. because at the end of the day, from most of my encounters, they just treat me like a little sister.

so in a girl's point of view, i think that guys won't want the girls to play too hard to get. A little will prove challenging and guys love to be challenged no? But if she proves to be ice princess, i think a guy will be so turned off.

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