the one u love who doesn't love u or the one who loves you whom you dont love?

Well I was in that situation last year.
I unfortunately decided to tell the one who loved me to buzz off, and waited for the one I loved. It didn't work out, the one I loved never came to love me.
So I guess give the one who loves you a chance; if it doesn't work, then wait for the one you love.

Wow, this would be extremely difficult I assume, but I imagine that it would be almost every girls dream before she's actually caught up in the situation. The guy that I think I'm in love with is engaged and has a kid. He's amazing and I only wish I'd met him sooner obviously. It hurts but I don't know what I'd do if he ended up free and told me that he loved me but by then I'm engaged or something of that sort. Love really hurts, I never thought it could hurt so much.

So complicated but I prefer to the last detail the one who loves me but I don't love. Because it was hard to love a man which I am the only one who fall in love with him. In that case I'm sure I will always on the side of martyrdom or I mean I will do a lot of sacrifices for him. Because I love him too much i will surely do all things he wants and that was possibly happen. I know myself if I'm in love with someone I will die for him. That is how I fall in love. While if I choose the other love me but I don't love, I know that if a guy did everything for me little by little I will turn myself and learn to love him when time comes. I believe in love turn to be develop and that is great when that was happened. I know that was last until the day ends. I'm sure for a happy ending.

You know it always seems like that happens alot. I wonder why at times people get stuck with the ones who don't appreciate them. Sometimes you have two people that are the totally opposite of each other. I was thinking that few days ago of some lady that was stuck with a drunk but she was very nice. Another man with someone the opposite of what they ever wanted. Sometimes I think that I have shown my husband that I love him more by my actions and him he tells me he loves me but his actions are the opposite at times. My dad is a really nice man who deserves someone who loves him, yet my mom is very controlling with him. She always wanted someone who viewed life differently. Oh well that is life...huh?

well...

i'd go for the one who loves me.

As there is a chinese saying.. roughly translated as it's better to be loved than love and not be loved back.

I'd say if the one who loves you shower you with all the attention and all, it's quite easy for one to start seeing that person. Who won't soften if one is being showered with lots of love.

And they (rumors) has it that if a guy doesn't love you, he won't. But for a girl, it's easier to fall in love.