How would you describe yourself briefly.

First of all, many thanks for the FIRST one to respond this discussion. (I was feeling a bit disappointed when even after start of my discussion, till 15-20 mintues, I saw no response........LOL!)
I have deliberately not described myself, I have 'reserved' that right, to be used later.......LOL!
I will try to comment your points one by one.
Everyone has some kind of complex, so even if you feel that you have 'inferiority complex' it is a way of estimating oneself, one should have some kind of complex, if it is a balanced approach it is better. But remember, if you say you are 'inferior', you have not checked the persons, who are worse than you or less than you, you have many positive traits, which they might not have with them, so you are in a way superior to them.
Your 'honesty' is your biggest positive asset. (It is difficult to find honest persons, in today's world and honest persons are always regarded and respected, please keep in mind.)
About your looks, I have the same explanation, which I have given above, please remember, there are many many woman in this world who looks worse than you, so you are better than those and moreover inner beauty is better than outer beauty and you are an 'angel' from inside.
I can also vouch for you that you cannot hurt anyone, even you cannot hurt a animal or a fly.
No body feels that he/she is matured, specially when he/she start taking wrong decision or his/her decisions go the other way.
Please remember - 'Maturity is proportionate to the amount of embarssement, one can tolerate'.........so you see how much embarasssment you are capable of tolerating, the more tolerating power you have, it mean more mature your are.
Everyone worries about their children so is with you, it is quite normal .........no need to 'kill' yourself with worries........LOL!
Our death is not our hands, but we can always wish that we should die a peaceful death, so do I.
Many thanks again for showing the 'courage' to described yourself.

Thank you Deepak for all your positive encouragement.....(I was expecting that...lol), I promise to take your tips and give a better look to life....and again I will remind you that I prefer to be simple human rather than an angel...lol. and let me know when you will describe yourself.... Have a great day.

As far as my comments go, I would say - 'Friends deliver on the expected lines.' It is really great to know that you intend to brighten up your life with my humble tips. Please wait, I'll describe myself soon.

Hello Aps....tut ..tut......You seem to be a very modest person and has not correctly described yourself,dear......You have a heart of gold,and we all love you even though we have never met.Well just because you do not have the looks op Aiswarya Rai or Susmitha sen for that matter,you should not consider yourself an inferior being.Winning a beauty contest is not the only criteria for determining the looks of a person...... ...Well dear now you are making me feel inferior too..I have always considered myself good looking,but now I am not sure..I have never won any beauty contest,and you are making me feel inferior and guilty..... ....
And dear you have not buried any of your desires...You have a wonderful family and now you are too busy taking care of them and fussing over them that you have no time to think of yourself..Is this not the truth.......???....We have been good mothers and wives Aps,and now our happiness lies in the happiness of our children....

And this Dpk has asked us to reveal about us and has not revealed any of his traits....I have given him a befitting reply ... .....

Rose! Very well said about our dear friend Aps, you added, what she did not mention.

Apsara, you wanted me to write about me, here it is -
Let me begin with my positive traits. I am very honest and loyal person, who does not believe in betraying anyone. I am very positive and optimistic and I look at the bright side. I love to share joys and sorrows of others. I am a learner and curious person, who feels that every day is a new day for learning something. I cannot hurt anyone, if even sometimes such thoughts come in mind, I cannot practically do it, at any cost. I love to help others, to my the best of my ability.
I am 'writer' and love to write and express myself through 'writings'. I am a nature lover and love nature. I am down to earth person and do not believe in ostentatiousness. I believe in modesty. I love to reamin in peace, do not wish to enter into arguments and quarrels. I am very much predictable person.
On the negative side - I am a sensitive person and sometimes thinks too much about an issue. I am a slow learner and it takes time for me to understand things and a person. I am gullible and vulnerable. I am an introvert and lazy person, sometimes.
That pretty much sums it up. That's me.

Hi Apsara
just tresspassing, but as far as i know u, u r one of nicest and sincere person, clean at heart and clear with intention. and i am sure u dont have any inferiorty comples and u r not at all confused, u have very clear vision and u know where to go, and sure u cant hurt people and dont u think its greatest edge u got.

Wish u all the best dear

Take care

ah see Aps...Cupie has given you a clean chit himself...Now what more do you want...Why dont you get his comments enlarged and get it framed and hang it in your drawing room...It will help to boost your morale and make you feel on top of the world,always........

hey deepak, u r really a GENTLEMAN. well donr and keep it up

Rose08, i sincerly say what i feel about Apsara

Yes I know cupie...And I also know it will make her very happy.........

i know u know her more than me and whatever i wrote are just fraction to describe her

my dear Rose, I wish I had atleast half of the self-confidence that you have....I could have become a celebrity...or even priminister...... .Surely you together with deepak and cupee make me feel great. Thanks to all of you.

Dear cupid....nice to see you back...I really missed you.....thanks for the wonder comment and for making me feel so cosy.......I know you mean every word that you said. But please you and rose stop fighting.........both of you are dear to me, and I know all my friends have golden heart. With friends like you all around me, how can I feel inferior.....infact I feel top of the world........Thanks to all.

Dear deepak,
what should I tell about you. infact I liked you positive as well as negative aspects and I think your negative aspects are common character of all, so you should not feel sad about them. I believe every word that you have written as I know there is truth and only truth in it. I thank mylot for bring all nice people together.......it makes me feel like world is still not hell, there is heaven still found in some places........ .Thanks for your sincere reply.

Apsara!
I always remain sincere and consistent in my life and I am very glad to read that whatever I wrote about myself was acknolwedged and appreciated by you.

Hi Aps..... ...what more can I say.......But we are Nari sakthi dear,and we should always take life head on come what may .After all we are the pillar of strength for,our family .......And dear I want you to walk ahead from now onwards with a song in your lips and a smile on your face.You have me and Dpk and many others to support you and Cupie is always willing to lend his shoulder to lean on.... ......Though I have assured him Nari sakthi doesnt lean on others....... ......

Hi Aps
oh thanks
atlaeast some one miss me
and come on smile
hey trust me, me and rose08 never fight, u know i never fight with my friends
and its just "nook jhonk" with her, after all u do it with who u care

Your realisation that you are a sinner has washed away all your sins.....God forgives sincere souls........

When you are brave and have strong determination, how can you be a sinner, you are a 'doer' and 'does' always succeeds. Best of Luck!
Thanks for describing yourself.

Yea I'm very independant too...almost to a fault as i've been told but thats just part of being on my own since such a young age ya know..Old habits die hard I guess LOL

An independent person could be a hard worker and vice versa.
You are a loyal also shows that you are a nice person.

Riya! Very well described. I appreciate your confession.
Yes, you are right, one get nothing in criticizing others. An emotional and sensitive person (as you have said about yourself) would definitely crave for attention. Great to know that you are a person caring. The point which I liked most is and I also say the same to others - "Please accept me, as I am".

Thanks for describing yourself.

pl. read - 'you are a caring person....'

thanks deepak for the lovely comment but i didnot completely understand you,what should i read?

Actually, in my hurry to post my comment, I wrote - "Great to know that you are a person caring."
Which may please be read as -
"Great fo know that you are a caring person."
Hope it clears the issue.

Hmm,sorry for some disturbing...but why I can not pose my article in my blog?I can find out?Pls do me a favor just to tell me,tks so much~~~^^

well about me...m very much of an introvert, dont know wat to talk about to other people, very down to earth lives n like a simple life, can never hurt a single living creature, very much honest n expect d same from others, always ready to help others in d best possible way i can even to those whom i dont like or who themselves dont like me but still at times ask for help, determined but sometimes confused as to what do i need to do in my life, i also feel sometimes inferior to others but then i think that m not beautiful by looks but i hav a beutiful soul, loves my friends so much as they r everything for me,
the negative thing about me is that m very short tempered, very much sensitive, n very much of an introvert, sensitiveness n temper is still ok but can anyone help me in changin frm an introvert to an extrovert....i really appreciate if any1 can help

thanks