First time sex

Thank you for responding! I think Mylot is a great place to get advice:) But I Really am terrified! x

Well, in reading your profile, I see you are still very young, so don't rush it. You have plenty of time. I suggest that you DO WAIT until you know you are absolutely ready. Maybe this is something you could talk to your parents about. I know it is sometimes hard to talk about these things, but I've always found that my parents were the best people to talk to for advice, no matter what the subject was. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20 and I'm thankful that I waited that long. Don't get carried away in what your body thinks it needs or wants, listen to your head and listen to your heart.

lmao, yes im a girl:)

Sorry, I hope you don't think I'm mocking you, I just laughed at that part.

I think there are other reasons why I'm scared, but, everytime I tell people these reasons they assume that because of this, I'm not ready. But I am ready!

It is hard to explain:/

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Well i don't think you mocked me, i understood why you thought it was funny so don't worry about it. I also understand that you may have other reasons and to try to explain this would go like this:

- you are ready physically
- you have a partner with whom you could do this

But you are not yet ready in your heart/ mind or both - don't worry about it, take as much time as you need, and if your partner loves you, he will understand, if he doesn't than he doesn't love you enough and he doesn't deserve for you to start your sexual life with him.

I hope i managed to explain this a bit to you.

Take care and be safe whenever you decide to start!

That really helped:)

I think its an emotional problem thats sort of holding me back:/

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