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myLot reputation of 95/100. kuer86 (1168)   ranked 365 out of 19,534 in questions & answers1 year ago

well, when in love what do you mind more? the one who will know what you want and the one who loves you?
if the one really loves you but he sometimes even can't figure out what you are thinking about,will you stay with him?

and if you are in love, will you try to understand the other however you don't know you loves him or not?

 
 
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kun2349 (7374) response was accepted on 1/23/2009.
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1. akiira (80)   ranked 8,223 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   1 year ago

In love, I think that going with 'the one who loves you' or the 'one who fits' you is irrelevent. It would depend more on how I felt about the other person. I can't just go with someone because 'we mesh well' or because 'they love me.'

But if I could choose, I would choose the one that loves me, rather than the one that fits me. If they really loved me, they would try to understand me and over time, I'm sure we'd become closer.

I think the worst thing would be to go with someone who you don't love or who doesn't love you, because it's just unfair. Love is meant to be equal, not one-sided.


myLot reputation of 95/100. kuer86 (1168)   ranked 365 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  1 year ago

i agree with you about 'it would depend more on how i felt about the person'.
if you don't love the one who loves you then things are not good as well.and if you don't love to be with the one who fits you then she/he might get hurt,and the relationship might not last long as well.
love need to be equal however somtimes need more love.
thanks for sharing.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. mods196621 (1147)   ranked 399 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   1 year ago

I know, if we are in love we have nothing to do but to give him satisfactions we always think what he likes or if he like what we prepare to him. No questions ask, always on the go and we are ready for the sacrifices. But if we consider those things that make us a lot of questions of how or what if it will show of being not sure. For me the first thing I've said was i did when I was love. And that is how I show my love no matter what and how it was. wub


myLot reputation of 95/100. kuer86 (1168)   ranked 365 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  1 year ago

yeah,we are ready for the sacirfices.i know this and i wish to find some guy who will do the same thing as i will.
love needs sacrifices both side i think.just think more about the other and things will go better if we did.
thanks for sharing your experience.

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3. myLot reputation of 16/100. Frederick42 (1288)   ranked 2,305 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   1 year ago

I would only think whether I can love the other or not. It is not wise to think whether the other loves us. genuine love is unconditional and thus only, love has a meaning to it. If we go on wondering whether the other loves us or not, then we would never be able to fall in love.


myLot reputation of 95/100. kuer86 (1168)   ranked 365 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  1 year ago

really if the one you love don't react to what you do,won't you feel disappointed and feel sad.
if it's long no reaaction then will you still fall in love?
i think you are really sacrificed and you deserve the one who treasures you.
thanks for sharing your thought,frederick.

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. marketing07 (2357)   ranked 413 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   1 year ago

hello kuer, for me i would choose a person who will love me..coz if a person loves me he will know what i want, he will not hurt me coz he loves me, that was my opinion but if the person you love that makes you cry..i can say he doesnt love you..its not love that he showed to you..goodluck and have a nice day..


myLot reputation of 95/100. kuer86 (1168)   ranked 365 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  1 year ago

thanks for telling me this,i think it's really happier to choose the one who loves you and i think things will get much better that you love him as well.
i agree with you that the one who loves you won't make you cry cuz he loves me.

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. kun2349 (7374)   ranked 889 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   1 year ago

Really love, and love, is still love after all^_^ It does not matter how loves more, but u really need to know, and feel, who are u more comfortable and happy with?? What's important is having someone whom can understand u, and thus they can be the unique one for u.. As long as there's somebody loving u, they are bound to know what u want, if not, u can just forget about them and step out of it, for they are not serious in the relationship at all..


myLot reputation of 95/100. kuer86 (1168)   ranked 365 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  1 year ago

really if he is really careless and won't make you think he loves you however he does.
well,i think if someone loves me then he really should know what i want and try to make me feel confortable to be with him.
thanks for sharing your opinion,kun.


myLot reputation of 96/100. kun2349 (7374)   ranked 889 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  1 year ago

Thanks for the pencil^_^ DUn worry too much about love.. When it's time to come, it will come and u wont be able to stop it^_^

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