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myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting11 months ago

If you missed it, Cary is my son with autism. He had his three year IEP* meeting yesterday.

Well I'm happy to report that he is doing great with math (except for having some difficulty with word problems) and spelling (better than many kids with no learning disability) and reading. He's having some predictable problems with things like comprehension, expressive language, abstract concepts, social skills, etc. But he is progressing quite well and I'm very happy about it!

When Cary was first diagnosed his dad was pretty doom and gloom about it, convinced he would never be functional, etc. So I'm quite happy with his progress. He may never be 100% 'normal', but I have no worries about him ultimately being able to function on his own.

*Individualized education program

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 67/100. LoudnProud (6260)   ranked 1,780 out of 14,906 in parenting   11 months ago

Awww that is great Dawn.Glad to hear it &..Well Done..Cary..
Keep up the good work wee man happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Great work and a lot of credit to his dad who is the one who does most of the help with his homework!


myLot reputation of 67/100. LoudnProud (6260)   ranked 1,780 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Maybe so Dawn but you did it too..your love & encouragement..!!
So well done everyone!!happy


myLot reputation of 87/100. hildas (2130)   ranked 1,782 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

well now blush I'm not saying I didn't do anything, just giving credit where it's due...


myLot reputation of 87/100. hildas (2130)   ranked 1,782 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

He must be a good man dawn. You are lucky.

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. hildas (2130)   ranked 1,782 out of 14,906 in parenting   11 months ago

Sorry your little son has autism dawn. That is good though the way he is getting on. He really has done very well. I am sure he is doing well with your help though, as you seem to be great with your kids from all the little things I see you writing about them. I am sure he will progress even more.

I do not know a lot about the illness, but it looks quite difficult to handle for some parents (on TV) but I guess all the children are different. I am really glad the meeting went well yesterday and I wish Cary all the best for the future. thumbup


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Autism can be quite difficult but Cary doesn't have a lot of the problems that other autistic kids have. Some of them bang their heads and freak out at certain colors and can't stand to be touched and so on. He's definitely got problems but it could be a lot worse!


myLot reputation of 87/100. hildas (2130)   ranked 1,782 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Yes it could and I am glad hes ok. My cousin has just had a little downs baby. We where all really upset for her three weeks ago as she was very down about it all herself, but they are saying hes doing well. We are close cousins and I have to do a lot to help her out, so I have been online also reading all I can. She will get there though as she does love him.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Except with downs syndrome there's not much hope that they'll be out on their own and self-sufficient, is there? Doesn't mean you don't love them though...


myLot reputation of 87/100. hildas (2130)   ranked 1,782 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Yes! I think thats what got her down. Shes ok now (well I think she is). It is her first baby also and I really feel sorry for her, but they are saying about his palms are good and he can feed on his own which are good signs, but I have been looking it all up as we have not a clue, but shes getting help and stuff now.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

I'm glad that there's help for her. It's going to be hard but the few down's children that I have met have been at least teachable (feeding themselves and toilet functions, speaking, etc), so it's not all bad. Good luck to her.


myLot reputation of 87/100. hildas (2130)   ranked 1,782 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Yeah thanks dawn

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. rocketj1 (2201)   ranked 28 out of 14,906 in parenting   11 months ago

That is sooo wonderful, Dawn! How old is Cary? You have written so many things about your kids here. All the things they do to crack you up or amaze you! I think your family life has a lot to do with his progress. You should be commended for being a great mom!


myLot reputation of 91/100. rocketj1 (2201)   ranked 28 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

I see in another response that your husband helps him a lot with his homework. He deserves some applause too. HOPE is a wonderful thing! It's my all time favorite word!!


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Cary and his twin sister are 8, their older sister is 12.

Hope is good.:-)

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4. myLot reputation of 59/100. MonkOVision (936)   ranked 2,553 out of 14,906 in parenting   11 months ago

This is fantastic news!

It sounds like many people have been involved with the educational success of your son, Cary. I am so happy for you, your husband, and your son.

Thank you for sharing this wonderful news. happy



myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Thanks, lot of work but we are seeing results!

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. SuzyQ12 (1893)   ranked 3,034 out of 14,906 in parenting   11 months ago

I'm glad your son Cary is showing alot of progress.
My brother is mentally handicapped and has a review
each year as well. He shows progress in some areas but
will always require extra help from others.
Go Cary Go!!


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

At least he's showing some progress...

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. lilybug (15297)   ranked 31 out of 14,906 in parenting   11 months ago

It is good to hear that Cary is doing well with his IEP. Sometimes all it takes is that little bit of extra effort. Good job to him and to you and your husband for working with him.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Yes it really is making a difference!

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (3041)   ranked 35 out of 14,906 in parenting   11 months ago

I am so happy for you, my friend. I have a son with learning disabilities so I now what a stress it can be. Anyway, this son is now married to a math brain with her masters who is considering doing her PHD. Yet she sees in my son the wonderful qualities that he has. You must be overjoyed with this great report on him. You are a good mother and I hope that his progress continues. Blessings


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Yes'm I'm very, very happy about it!

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. leonelaphotography (922)   ranked 1,812 out of 14,906 in parenting   11 months ago

This is great news. Now you just to find out he's going to be the school chancellor! thumbup


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Maybe not for a few years...


myLot reputation of 96/100. leonelaphotography (922)   ranked 1,812 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

You never know. You might get a phone call out of blue. Mrs. Wolfson, I don't understand it. We've done the tests several times and it comes out the same every time. You're boy, Cary, is a genius.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Of course he is, he just hasn't figured out how to communicate that to us!


myLot reputation of 96/100. leonelaphotography (922)   ranked 1,812 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Hahaha lol

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. Irishfrndly65 (7322)   ranked 674 out of 14,906 in parenting   11 months ago

That's awesome Dawn! I never could do word problems. You know what I had to do? I had to sketch them out, that helped loads. Each of us learns in a different manner and what's "normal" anyway? Not me!
http://homeworktips.about.com/library/quizzes/bl_lstylequiz1.htm
http://www.engr.ncsu.edu/learningstyles/ilsweb.html

Those are a couple of sites that may help y'all. They are tests to see HOW you learn. You may have to help him with it, but you know him well enough, I bet. It might be fun to take it together and see. Who knows it might help both of you to understand him better.

Also this is a really awesome blog written by an autistic man:
http://thiswayoflife.org/whatisitlike.html


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

Great - thanks!


myLot reputation of 92/100. Irishfrndly65 (7322)   ranked 674 out of 14,906 in parenting  10 months ago

thanks dear!


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  10 months ago

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10. Charente (77)   ranked 11,239 out of 14,906 in parenting   11 months ago

That's great news about your son. I used to work in a school that had a special educational needs department and the SEN teachers and teaching assistants did really fantastic work with the kids that needed extra help. There was a large number of pupils that were on the autistic spectrum but they all had extra help and they were some of the hardest working kids in the school. At the end of each year the SEN kids had their own presentation evening to celebrate their achievements during the year. I'm sure your son will achieve great things within his capabilities and make you proud of him, given the support he is getting from home. He's very lucky to have such a loving and supportive family.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9518)   ranked 7 out of 14,906 in parenting  11 months ago

I hope he will too!
:-)

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