Will I marry my girl bestfriend or girlfriend?

You are opening a huge can of worms with that question.

Only you know best what is right for you, but I'm warning you that if you show indecision or try to treat them both as potential life partners, you'll risk losing them both.

You may want to take some time to think about this.
Its clear you aren't ready to marry either one of them.

Don't rush into a life with someone when you still wonder about another.

I wish you luck, but it comes down to what will make you happiest for a lifetime.

Nice to meet you sinnedsejatnom and welcome to MyLot.

Oww dear! Another example of being torn between two lovers. I am just wondering are you and your best friend in platonic relationship? Or have you been treating each other more than that, i.e. dating and sleeping together etc. If you did, you must have been leading her all along, believing that there is more than friendship between the two of you. Evidently she has hopes that you would both end up together when she declared that she would marry you when you reach 26.

You will have to differentiate what kind of love you for those girlfriends of yours. If it's intimate or just pure friendship. Perhaps, you have to do a bit of soul-searching there and spend time away from these girls. You will be able to answer your own question as to who you want to marry, when you determine who you miss more and who you would call and meet first when you get back.

Hello sinnedsejatnom! Well, all I can say is that you can't love romantically both girls at the same time. You must think about it a hundred times. Who has bigger space in your heart? Is it your girlfriend or your best friend? Can you live without your bestfriend or can you live without your girlfriend? I know it's you who can really answer it.

Neither at this time because you haven't made up your mind.

In fact, your basis for marriage is a very artificial one: reaching a certain age.

There is no certain age to get married, so you shouldn't think something like:

"I'm now 26, so I must get married!"

That is one of the best ways to land in divorce court.

It sounds as if you have two very special friends in your life who just happen to be of the opposite gender of you, and you're probably attracted to both of them.

But for so long as you're asking yourself (and others):

"Which one should I marry?"

it's not yet time to get married.

I say you stay with your girlfriend. why? because why would you just push her aside because you've reached a certain age. Maybe your best friend was not serious and you dump your girlfriend and you ask your best friend to marry you and she says NO. Does that mean your wasting your girlfriends time being with her? How owuld she feel if she found out you loved your best friend while you were together? I think you need to figure your feelings out and see where that takes you. If you arent planning on staying with your girlfriend, I'd let her know now, because she may have very strong feelings for you.

Just tell your bestfriend the true that you have had a girlfriend.I think if you treat her as a friend you should not deceive her.Of course if she regards you as her friend,she will respect your choice.Both of you are still the bestfriend of each other.Why to break up the friendship if you are not really treat her as your most important woman?

Hello sinnedsejatnom, well it is in your hand,, just listen to your heart and your heart will tell you the answer.

Hello sinnedsejatnom, well the decision is in your hand, just listen to your heart and it will tell what to do and who to choose.. Goodluck my friend..

I can't believe that you were asking that kind of question..

Well, nobody can't say who you should marry since we don't know anything about how you feel either for your bestfriend or your girlfriend.. You're girl best friend had told you clearly that she will going to marry you if you don't have a girlfriend but since you already have a girlfriend, do you think she still going to marry you??

All I can advice you is that be sure with what you feel.. Think so hard if which is more heavier your girlfriend or your best friend?? Which one of them you truly love and who you would like to be your wife?? Its only you who can answer your own question..