What to do?

If you've been a good parent and taught her right coming up and growing up, you have nothing to worry about. I can understand the concern as a parent, but just remember that if you taught her right growing up, she'll make good decisions.

While raising her you set values and morals. I do not think she would do anything that would go against that. It is hard to let your child grow up. Also you have already had that talk with her. There is nothing that you can really do. But make sure that she knows how you feel about it. She will make the right choice. I believe she wil wait till she is married

Be sure to stress morals and remaining a virgin for her husband as well as "THE TALK."

Your other responses are all good and well, however, I raised two girls. And yeah it's normal behavior, she is getting curious, sexually, ( I know you just cringed lol) The other best thing you can do for you and more so for her, get her on birth control.........now, first off keep in mind, she may be on birth control, doesn't mean she is going to NEED it. She may very well wait until she is married. Let them grow up is the hardest part. Also, discuss it with your husband, and tell him it's all part of growing up and it's normal.

i don't know whether it is normal or not but facts or facts. she's your baby but at 16 she's not a baby anymore. did u tell your husband? y'all need to have a talk w.her about the birds & bees. don't be surprised if she already knows more than you. kids are ot kids for long anymore.

My Dear Woman: You are in the wrong century! This is 2009. Your daughter is already sexually mature, and you stand to lose her love and trust, if you don't smarten up, and soon.You have already embarrassed the Hell out of her by intruding in her fantasy. You need to sit down with her and explain your actions, Your daughter is perfectly normal, You are abnormal in your backward thinking.
Of course she is thinking about it! She is a healthy 16 year old. Neither you or your husband have the right to walk into your daughter's room without the courtesy of knocking.How would you like it if she walked into your privacy without knocking? Begin to think of her as a Young Adult. She is sexually Mature already. You need to Hope that you still have her trust. Go to her now and apologize for your ignorance.

The fact that you have already spoken to her is a step in the right direction. What she is doing is nothing abnormal…most girls and boys her age please themselves and its much better than going ahead and doing the actual thing. Its difficult I know, but she’s no longer a baby girl. I don’t think her dad should be the first to wake her up…girls her age need more physical privacy and it would be better if you spoke to her dad about this. Being a woman, you could talk to her, her dad would be more embarrassed if he ever walked in and saw her sleeping in an uncomfortable position.

Be sure to talk about morals and values.. but we can't avoid the fact that teenagers are experimental in real life.. just be there for your daughter and remind her about the things she should do or shouldn't.. it's best if you talk about the pros and cons of doing that thingy, etc..

While raising her you set values and morals. I do not think she would do anything that would go against that. It is hard to let your child grow up. Also you have already had that talk with her. There is nothing that you can rally do. But make sure that she knows how you feel about it. She will make the right choice. I believe she will wait til she is married.

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