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miyako (21)   ranked 57 out of 586 in girlfriend11 months ago

Is it possible for a 20 year old boy to fell in love with a 30 year old lady? And do you think it's okay?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 86/100. fwidman (5380)   11 months ago

I see nothing wrong with it happy After you grow up, age is just a number, no big deal. I'm happy that a younger person can want to be with an older person, otherwise I guess I wouldn't have my lovely wife, since I am much older than she is lol


vishkris (31)  11 months ago

i agree with it.....its possible..heart is important for love..age is not at alla criteria..or problem..fallin in love can be anytime..either earlier nor too late..


miyako (21)   ranked 57 out of 586 in girlfriend  11 months ago

Well an older man to a younger woman is still a common relationship. Me too I would rather be with an older man than someone on the same age or below. But of course I'm not preventing myself from falling in love with younger guys. Its just that I think younger guys are not that mature enough to handle such kind of relationship. There is a tendency that generation of each can become a big issue.


ceekeigh (2)  11 months ago

Being young doesn't mean that you cannot handle a serious relationship. Every person have a different perspective when it comes to relationships. I've had serious relationships with much younger girls but it never gave me trouble at all.

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2. myLot reputation of 80/100. njc2009 (1281)   11 months ago

I thinks it is ok.. If love is true then age does not matter.. there many couple who got marries nad living hapily.. Its good dear when wife is bigger then the husband well is against our culture.. but i think Of there is love than nothing is wrong all thing is fair in love.. Well GooD Day And Its realt a instrating Question.


miyako (21)   ranked 57 out of 586 in girlfriend  11 months ago

As long as u love each other.. yes right!

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. nympha687 (684)   11 months ago

"All is fair in love" and "Age doesn't matter." are all the cliches we can associate with this topic. I personally know a woman who is 48 years old got married to a 31 year old man. They are happy so I guess it works.


miyako (21)   ranked 57 out of 586 in girlfriend  11 months ago

Wow that's great!

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4. Peace1966 (7)   11 months ago

Age is nothing but a number. He's grown enough to make his decisions, and there is nothing at all wrong with it! Love has no age.

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. rmuxagirl (6617)   11 months ago

I think it is possible for a person that young to be in love with someone 10 years older than him, and vise versa. Many people thinks it's okay for men to date women 10 years younger than him, so it's possible for it to be vise versa. IF there is good communication and attraction then it's possible.

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6. sarleystar (20)   11 months ago

My ex-partner has a girlfriend who is 22 years his junior, she is 22, he is 44. I didn't agree with it at first only because of my 9 yr old daughter. She is very impressionable at this tender age and I was so worried about that, but, anyway thats a whole different story. I think if it is alright for a man to date a younger woman, then why does it make it any different for a woman to date a younger man. She should feel good that a younger man finds her attractive, I say good on her.

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7. analupinho (26)   11 months ago

Actually, I've just posted a discussion on that issue. However, mine's a bit different. I totally understand you, since I'm dating a guy who's 20 years older than me. We assume several times that this is not socially accepted, but we can't fight our feelings, can we? And in a long run, you'll see that this difference between your ages won't even notice. Aren't there many young women who marry old guys?


miyako (21)   ranked 57 out of 586 in girlfriend  11 months ago

Fight for your love!

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8. willofGod (51)   11 months ago

It is possible.But i don't think it is OK. These are my reasons:
1. A guy is ment to be the head in a relationship. He is ment to have more experience than the lady. Stronger than the lady, so that he will be able to comfort the lady when there is problems. Once the lady is older she will not be submissive in some cases.And they will end up braeking up.
2.ladies age faster than men. A man that is 10yrs older than his wife will seem to be her age mate when they get to the age of say 60. So if a lady that is 10yrs older, when they get to that 60 or even less she'll look like his mother. Even before then.For example when the guy is 45 the lady will be 55. By then the lady is at menopause whereas the guy is still very strong. There is no doubt the guy will date someone else -some one younger than Himself.
3.It is generally not acceptable. You'll end up living in desolation and rejection which is not worth it..

It is still good(although not very good) for a guy to be 10yrs older than the lady.But for the lady to be, does not make much sence.No matter how much you think you love in..............It is 90% more likely you guys will break up than that it will work out well. THINK TWICE


miyako (21)   ranked 57 out of 586 in girlfriend  11 months ago

We can consider these things too! Although we can not judge a young guy to think for him. If there is true love I think on the other side they can survive the relationship.


willofGod (51)  11 months ago

this true luv of a thing is really decieving people to do wrong.People don't know what love is all about.

Luv is like planting a seed. Love grows. It is not the love i had for my girl the day i first ask her out that i have for her now. It has grown beyound that!!!!

so love has conditions for it to grow.Which includes honesty, endurance, forgiveness and the rest. Without this things a love will die on the long run.

Also there are luv killers. The strongest being PRESSURE. Then to a lesser extent believe.

Tell me. How do you expect a relationship to last for 10yrs if everybody around you says it is wrong. And they even go to the extent of not talking to you again or even abusing u? Such love will never grow. It is either it dies or remain thesame.


miyako (21)   ranked 57 out of 586 in girlfriend  11 months ago

That's the time when you can measure how much you love each other. If you will listen to what others would say I guess you will not even reach 2 years for that. But I know of course that's the most difficult thing to handle. Most of the time its the reason why couples separate they are not tough enough to just ignore people around.


willofGod (51)  11 months ago

i can see you are bent at dating him (against all odds) Go ahead its all your choice. In my land there is a proverb that translates: a child can not run stomach pain from what she loves eating or willing eat..I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST


miyako (21)   ranked 57 out of 586 in girlfriend  11 months ago

I appreciate you sharing your thoughts with me! Thank you!

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9. loumine555 (5)   11 months ago

my answer is yes coz i am 31 right now and my boyfriend is only 25. i dont think ages still matter this time. the only matter right now is both of you love each other and express it the way you like it. it is ok for me coz the woman can manage the relationship will when it comes that she have a younger boyfriend and even the man also can do the same. lets just give them a chance to love each other, we cannot dictate anyone and how to love a person.

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10. chalee68 (63)   ranked 114 out of 586 in girlfriend   11 months ago

Well, i can say it's not possible that an old woman fall in love with young man, i have experienced that before. But i felt very awkward^^


miyako (21)   ranked 57 out of 586 in girlfriend  11 months ago

How long did your relationship last? And may I know the reason why you broke up? Is it because of that feeling you have, because its awkward?

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