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Michelle80 (65)   ranked 47 out of 72 in forgive10 months ago

Do you think that there are certains things that dont derserve forgiveness? I ve been seriously hurt in the past by people I have trusted like Im sure that most people have and while I have chosen to forgive some things there are others that I really feel too strongly about to forgive ( I wont go into detail because they are quite personal). What actions would you forgive and what wouldnt you?

 
 
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melvill (327) response was accepted on 2/17/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 74/100. melvill (327)   ranked 40 out of 72 in forgive   10 months ago

As a human, there are certain things that we don't want to give our forgiveness, specially if we hurt very badly. But time goes by, our anger to that people/person will passed by. That forgiveness will not need anymore because the feeling of anger is now gone.
If you can't forgive that person right now, I know it will come. You just need time for that.

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2. citycall (7)   ranked 42 out of 72 in forgive   10 months ago

We are born to make mistakes, learn from them, and make new mistakes yet again. I think we should always forgive, no matter how hard it might be, and only in time will we comprehend its soothing power.

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3. myLot reputation of 41/100. jd107nette (391)   ranked 44 out of 72 in forgive   10 months ago

"A word used over and over, loses it's meaning"

That includes this word as well...
I don't think there ever is a person who would just forgive and forgive every single faults done to him....

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4. Octoberrose (61)   ranked 43 out of 72 in forgive   10 months ago

I think it matters how close you were to the person that wronged you and then you can decide if the action cancelled out the friendship or if the friendship is stronger than the action.

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. bamakelly (3961)   9 months ago

I do find forgiveness to be something that takes a lot of strength and maturity to deal with. I also find that forgiving comes from within. A strong heart and mind take a big role in how we are going to set ourselves free.
When we forgive someone it is more or less for ourselves to be able to move on in life.
Sometimes it feels that people that hurt us really don't care or understand what they have done. They don't realize that their actions have created us to live our lives dwelling or thinking about it for years to come.
That is where forgiveness can come in. Their not worried about you so we probably should not worry about them anymore.
I know it is easier said than done. I have found my way to forgiveness during my life and it hasn't been easy. I don't think it matters which deed was the worst or that it was done by a certain person. They need to all be forgiven equally.

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. jpso138 (3609)   9 months ago

There was a time that I find it really hard to forgive. But now no more. You might not believe it but I don't carry with me any feelings of hatred or anger to any person that has done me harm one way or the other. I just let it go and have forgiven them despite the fact that some of them have not asked forgiveness. But of course, forgiveness is different from trust. I may have forgiven them but I do not trust them anymore. happy

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. chiyosan (9208)   8 months ago

i guess we are only human to commit mistakes in our lives, we are only also human not to forgive because we ourselves have been forgiven too many times even if we did not seek forgiveness from people...

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