Infatuated or Falling... with a MARRIED Man???

How do you not know your neighbor is not married? And any man that is going to cheat on his wife is not going to treat you right or be faithful to you. I have felt this sometime, but I think it is just a playful feeling of knowing that you can't really have him. It is definitely an infatuation.

Well, all is well that ends well. That because of the mismatched involvement neither party suffered any loss and therefore I think there is not much to ponder over. Firstly it is natural to develop infatuation in the early stage if your youth and as you realized that you were on the wrong footing it finally saved both you and his family. And if we go through the kaleidoscopes of life we find such different angle in life and they are some time really unavoidable. As you put yourself Till today you can not help smiling at him as because he possess an attractive personality that had sent you near him quite close.

Yes, as all is ok, now i too do not think there is anything that you really need help or sort of counseling. enjoy such interesting incident in life. I wish I too had same experience. lol

Is it void in your life which makes you look for a friend/partner to confide, to share and to be wanted.The young have a tendency to be impetuous, unpredictable and expressive as well.You are no exception.The young always look for moorings and this search leads to various healthy/unhealthy good/bad stopovers in that span.But that happens and one need not read too much into it.The infatuations are part of young adolescent which stabilises with the passage of time and has lot to do with your growing up.There is bound to be maturity in your thoughts after you start doing things practically and face the world all by yourself.And there is nothing wrong with getting infatuated/or falling in love. It is natural to human beings.

Been there, girlfriend! Forget the married guy and try to step back from the new guy a bit until you can see clearly. It feels so good to fall in love!!!!! That feeling will blind you if you don't slow down. If it feels like he is telling you things he should not be saying, that might be your intuition talking. Your intuition might be right. Take a step back, find out what you can about him, get to know his friends and family, and once you are sure he is not already taken, dive right in!!!! Many of us are repeatedly attracted to married men. I don't know why it is, but it just happens and you need to take steps to protect yourself. Good luck!

when you discovered he was married, you dropped him - right?

he's the one that is endangering his family by looking outside it, you didn't know he was married when you started

I would be very careful in relationships.

if he doesn't invite you out to large public forums, if he doesn't want to be seen in public, I would be suspicious

there's careful and there's married - you can also do some online investigating

does he not want you to call him? have you ever been by his house? there are red flags