"I love you".....what's your name?

Ya I have approached so many girls but never said that I love her the very first time.Instead I say HI! Whats ya name? I dont beleive in love at first sight.Its just an infatuation.

Hi zandi! I would never trust anyone that said that to me on
first sight! They of course, don't really mean it! You can't
possibly love someone you just meet or for that matter, don't
even know yet! My first fiancee said it to me way too quickly
and it freaked me out! I should have known then that there
was something wrong with him! Those words when spoken to freely
mean absolutely nothing! People say I love you much to often
and use those words too freely and then they don't mean what
they are supposed to! It might be cute when someone says it
at a party to get your attention as long as you realize that
they are only words used for that purpose!

Someone who could say 'i love you' that fast is surely to be out the door and knocking on someone else's heart at a wink.

I truly believe that for a man who could blurt those words as quickly as he could say Hello shouldn't be someone entrusted with my heart. You see, those words shouldn't be used ordinarily as a simple Hi and Hello because those should come from deep in his heart.

I love you, like Sorry is such a cliche these days because people fall in and out of a relationship, sleep together on the first date, and marry the first person that proposes to them and end everything as quickly as it all started. Perhaps the fastfood scheme has left us impatient not only in food but everything else.

What happened to the shyness of the first hello? The passionate courtship of a man trying to woo a girl and showing her that he's 'the one', in turn, men who don't just ask anyone but would feel deep in their hearts that that girl is 'the one' for them too. The one they'd spend forever with. Some may think I'm a hopeless romantic, but hey, there was a time when that happened. When like eagles or penguins (I'm only referring to the loyalty, by the way) men and women believed in destiny and would stay with that particular partner forever. Where the words "I Do" and "Till death do us part" still meant something and not just an overly expensive wedding which the materialistic woes of people were satisfied but their marital union was all just for show.

Well, I want that and hearing someone who says he's got courage to say it out loud (on the first meeting!) that he loves me, is like hearing someone making a joke of himself.

So, take heed dear men and women. Let's not make Love a cliche anymore, because it's only us who's fooling ourselves if we do. I do hope that someday, time will come when romantics and forever would be there once more, and divorce and sleeping around would only be in the movies.

i dont trust guys who said Ilove you in first apporach.i dont even believe if i know him so well.that words is so gracious and only one person can say it if he or she mean it even for friendship.

Hahaha!
The first time that happened to me, was two and a half years ago.
I meet a guy that swept me off my feet.
We danced the whole night, and he said he loved me, then kissed me so romantically.

I was thinking, yes!!! Life begins at 40!

But within two weeks, I found out the guy was psycho.
Using a shocking amount of medicine.
And drinking a lot of alcohol.
Then falling a sleep everywhere we went.
It was clear to me, this good looking man was not what I was waiting for.[em]w00y[/em]

Take care.

i would not be impressed w/someone who did that. those 3 words i love you are takrn too lighty to start with.

Zandi! I agree with you that 'faint heart never won a fair lady'........LOL! If I have to approach someone I won't say 'I love you.......what is your name', at the first instance, because if I develop a feeling for any person from the opposite gender I need to know her fully first, before making a move. I do not believe in love at first sight. I won't like to approach her and would like to utter three words, without gathering information about her, through my own sources. I would calculate all my moves and its likely outcomes, before attempting a kill............LOL!
(This is all based on my imagination...........am being married........practically I am not going to say to anyone...........I love you..........LOL!)

Hi Zandi! I have crossed that age far away back. I had never uttered such type of fake world to any girl or lady. Few reasons are there why I did not tell it. 1st reason is our socio-economical condition, where it was very difficult to tell a girl that I would love her. 2nd condition was religious bindings, where religion did not allow to tell a girl that I would love her. So I was fully confined within the odd situation and hence I did not tell it any girl. I don't whether I would tell it to any lady or not in future. Have a nice day.

Prior to reading your post, I would have been skeptical of the guy's intentions had he proclaimed his love for me at the soonest possible time. But after reading, I realized you're right. Most men nowadays really are like mascara. They do run at the first sign of emotion.^^ So if someone actually suddenly blurts out these 3 words after having known me for a few minutes - or a few days or weeks, i guess i would be considering giving it a shot.^^

Hi zandi458 nice to meet you.
Yes i did it once well it was Saturday and i was in the park for a evening stroll
and suddenly something charismatic happened she was there walking straight towards the pond the moment i set my eyes on her beautiful face something stopped me from taking her out of my sight there i was standing alone just looking at her helplessly
suddenly there was a urge from inside telling me yes she is the one go and get her or
you will never see her again and i don't know where from i got the courage and i walked straight to her and straight away i proposed her she was shocked as i was myself suddenly i realized what i have done and i humbly apologized for proposing straight away and told her i couldn't control as my heart was telling me its now or never well then she smiled at me and left promising to come back again next evening. It was something i can never forget.
Chow
Have a happy my lotting