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Hi there!

I am sorry to hear about what happened and sorry to hear that you had a jerk of an ex-boyfriend. One thing that no one should be sorry of is that miracle inside you. That precious innocent baby who is counting on you to give the love that he or she needs.

I hope that your pregnancy will go really well and that you'll have an easy and very fulfilling delivery. Always pray to God for strength and guidance. He will never turn His back on you the way your ex did.

Wow, I salute you for deciding to keep the baby and continue your pregnancy despite all the hardships you experienced. Upon reading your story, I was also confused as to the exact reason why he left. Anyway, look at the brighter side. One person left, a new person will arrive who is your baby. Kudos.

Oh well! Some questions shouldn't be asked anymore. In analysis of what happened, maybe he figured out that he will have responsibility soon (intelligent enough to escape from responsibilities), maybe he is immature to be in a "good" relationship. Well, I had experience that from my parents, my mom is older than my dad for many years, and my mom always handles the relationship (just can't take these kind of guys, even he's my father) or maybe he is influenced by his so called parents (as far as I know). Many answers but of course you wanted the answer directly from him. But I think you don't need to that. You will just be wasting your time. You have to focus on your baby, how to bring the baby up better than his "father" was brought up. Sorry for him. His conscience can kill him is he has.

Sorry to hear ur story.My opinion:
1.give up ur boyfreind forever,If he really love u,he should take his responsbility.This kind of boy is not siutable for u,u are luckly to realise this if u are married 20 years,then you know whant kind of man your husband is that's too late.U are young enough to start a new life,to find ur real love.
2.give up the baby.I know maybe u don't understand why.But this is a good way for u to start a new life. If you have a baby before married,it is hard to find a new boyfreind.You can have a new baby with the person you really love.

Oh he is so bad... I feel really sorry for you... Apparently, he is being very irresponsible, he said let's break up after he told you got pregnant...
Well, it's been 7 months now so you probably go back, I truely wish everythin good for you and your baby.

This guy sounds like a turd but you do need to get in touch with him so he can take responsibility for his child.And if he don't want to take responsibility, take him to court.

you made the right decision, your ex boyfriend is not deserving to your love, he was so immature, just continue loving your baby in your womb and I know that God will always here beside you and your baby, be strong to face all the challenges in your life, I know you can race your child without the help of his father, you have your family and friends who always there to guide you. Just always pray and will for you and your baby.

It is not good to have boyfriend younger than you, same age also not bad

Your boyfriend might got someone or he suspects that you are pregnant that is why he broke up with you.

I'm sorry especially for the poor baby that will grow up without knowing it's father. It's a terrible thing to bear. I hope he comes around one day but if he doesn't that's a mistake he should think about and suffer for every day for the rest of his miserable life.