How Do You Find Me? Seriously............  |
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 ..........is my name in neon lights on the sign up page or what?
I really, really, wanna know how you new users FIND me.
It boggles my mind. I've been here awhile and I couldn't find a myself if you
sent me a link to my own profile!
So how do you do it?
And when you do, do you check my profile? If so, WHY would you put in a friends
request to an old broad that couldn't care less how to make money clicking on PTR's, PRC's or anything else like that. Do the discussions on my profile not give you a clue what I'm about?
Don't get me wrong, I'm flattered you want to beef up your earnings by being on my friends list, but I'm here to tell you it won't happen. I don't do the referral thing, and I don't waste my time answering discussions about your favorite ice cream or lipstick, or really care about your sexual orientation or whether or not you should remain a virgin until death do you part. Those are your choices and none of my business.........
So please, all you new users out there, don't make me feel bad by having to deny your friends request. I always check the profiles of users who ask me, and I am constantly astounded that you would even bother with me.
I may be crazy, but I'm not 18 any more, and really if you are only here for the money, we have nothing in common, and it's going to really hurt your feelings when I drop you from my list on my occasional forays into clearing out users I never talk to and who never talk to me........
On the other hand, if you can spark off my insanity and contribute to my messing with your mind, then have at it and let the fun begin.
But before you pass me by.............please tell me,how DO you find me?
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 sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | "we're just irrrrreesssisstable" I really think you've hit the nail on the head there pye! LOL
It was exactly that.........the same user requesting me over and over despite several denials, that finally prompted me to write this discussion. Honestly, I don't know how these people find me and I wish I did so I could STOP IT! LOL | |
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 pyewacket (11593) | 10 months ago |  Like I said we must be irresistible and have an "aura" that radiates out from the screen and people are just dying to add us as friends..LOL
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | A ten foot, neon aura! LOL
Me, I'm taking my aura to bed with me now. Maybe that'll keep the wannabes away for awhile! ROFL Night, night sweets..... | |
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| 2. sailor10 (693) | 10 months ago |  hi
I have noticed that most of your discussions elicit 20 or more responses.So i got curious to know and see if i could learn something
you have the gift of the gab and an irresistible sense of humour,like Lucille Ball (or is it Lucy).your ripostes are lightning quick and consistently funny and hilarious too.
your persona,sort of permeates through the net and people are attracted to you.
From the responses it is clear that people love you and like to agree with you.
I don`t know if you are a public speaker,if your spoken skills are as good as your writing flair you`d be agreat hit with the masses.
your love for animals is another passion which may have helped you to understand beings(humans included) better than most.I have a feeling that your family,friends and people you come in contact with are lovingly possessive about you.
see,how easily you elicit a response from a total stranger .
I was apprehensive when i requested your friendship but was pleasantly surprised when you approved.
Last,but not the least is the choice of your `avatar`.so charming and delightful
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | Well hello sailor! I'm quite overwhelmed with your response and your private message this morning. Thank you, thank you......
As for my avatar, one of our own users here designed them for a number of us and they are sooooooooooooooo fetching. I love mine. I'm Irish, love to dance and yes, I write. Mostly I'm old and experienced and have learned the hard way to not sweat the small stuff and to spend my time spreading some love and laughter. We can never have enough of that..............
Again, my thanks for your kind and VERY insightful (lol) words. Welcome to my patch of the lot and hope to see more of you. Higgles......... | |
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| sailor10 (693) | 10 months ago | hi sparks
first thing in the morning after a cup of tea,i frantically check my mail and am pleasantly greeted by your response.You`ve made my day already.that is kind of person you are,anyway do not feel awkward with my appreciations and let go as you normally do.My style is slightly formal but coming in contact with you may help me get rid of the `stilts` and start skating effortlessly into the hearts of people,hey was that me? | |
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | LOL, yep that was you. And you are so right. Spend enough time here and you'll become much less formal and will find within you reserves of JUST PLAIN FUN and spontaneity you never you had! Trust me on that, it happens all the time around here. Just don't let the negative nellies get you down, and you'll do just fine.
Higgles! | |
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| 3. moondancer (2931) | 10 months ago |  I'm so glad you started this discusion. I have wondered the same thing. I feel the same way you do about the people that are here just to make money and want referrals to their sites. I don't and won't do this. I have no interest in it unless it is a really good site that I can write something of my choice there and make a little money while having fun with friends.
So I am with you...I'm not really as popular as you are and some of the others too. But how do they find us?
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | Stick with me kid and I'll make you popular! LOL
I don't know how they find us. I think they take courses on some other site on how to 'search and destroy' on sites like this. It's a mystery...........
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| moondancer (2931) | 10 months ago | I do agree on both counts....hey I have 1941 post...that was the year my mom was born, lol | |
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | That was the year your Mom was born? Oh God, I'm old! That was the year my Mom got married! ROFL | |
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| moondancer (2931) | 10 months ago | Mom was 15 years old when I was born. She was way too young. | |
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| moondancer (2931) | 10 months ago | Nah, you aren't old...you're just as old as you feel and you're as young as you feel. It's really odd now that I'm in my fifties and really before this I really never have felt my age. I still feel young in mind and in heart. I can hardly wrap my mind around the fact that I am 52, it seems more like I'm still in my 30's.
I wonder if everyone feels this way? I'm sure they do. | |
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | NANANANA! I'm still older than YOU! ROFL
But you're right, we are still mentally 'young', but we can't deny the aging of our bodies, and boy every morning mine reminds me just how quickly time is marching on! | |
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| moondancer (2931) | 10 months ago | yes, I know my body absolutely hates me but my mind loves me, lol. | |
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | What a cool way to look at it and so true of me too! ROFL That was good. I liked that! | |
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4.  scorpiobabes (1531) | 10 months ago |  I'm not new, but I think what I found was a cyber friend like me who is opinionated but not rude or cruel, with a sense of humor! I've got a bunch of friend requests right now I'm not interested in (sorry but I'm being a cold-hearted b1tch now!;). I think our newbies just don't really get myLot!
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| bellaofchaos (3116) | 10 months ago |  Hey Scorpiobabes,
I've just put in a friends request he he ... I have seen ya around and your witty and funny and outspoken Hmmmm... Sounds like most of the people on my list. Hmmm Annie, Sparks, Cyn. But I would really appreciate your friendship. have a nice one.
~Bellaofchaos~
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 AnnieOakley1 (1647) | 10 months ago |  I found her a long time ago, bella. She's just the bestest!
A really cool chick!
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | Hey Scorpio! Where ya bin? I bin missin' ya!
Can I put YOUR name up in neon on the sign up page now and take mine down?
ROFL
Ouch! Ok, ok, I won't.........*sparks slinks off......* | |
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | Paula is an addict, Paula is an addict...........got the mylot bug and can't get free! LOL, don't worry Paula, you're in good company and a welcome addition. Higgles. | |
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| 6. thebohemianheart (2703) | 10 months ago |  Really? You don't want to know about my $200, bright pink lipstick?
This saddens me.
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| Irishfrndly65 (7364) | 10 months ago |  ewwww....gnarly! I used to make rainbows with my eyeshadow...want to do that with me?;nods;
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| Irishfrndly65 (7364) | 10 months ago | Yea..the eyelids...it was fun! Woot! hee hee, chickenbutt! | |
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| thebohemianheart (2703) | 10 months ago | ummm, no, I was afraid of pain. Piercing a part of the body meant pain, and I wasn't going to do it.*L*
I was in my 30's before I got my ears pierced. | |
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| thebohemianheart (2703) | 10 months ago | Hey, Froot Loop, you called me chickenbutt!
Yeah, yeah, I know, I'm kinda slow*L* | |
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| thebohemianheart (2703) | 10 months ago | It's always real, Monkey Man. Real what is up to whomever.*L*
Feel better, sugah! | |
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| thebeaddoodler (2768) | 10 months ago |  OH, come on now Irish. How can bright pink lipstick come in orange?
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | I live under your skirt Bo...............I've seen your pinkness.......ROFL | |
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | Oh man up James! I was talking about the lace on her panties! ROFL | |
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| 7. checapricorn (9968) | 10 months ago |  Hi sparks,
I've been active in some of your post and I can say, you are very gifted when it comes to ideas....You have a great sense of humor and you do care about your friends here!
I am thankful to be still your friend even if, primarily, I am here to earn....hehehehhehe! and you are not here to earn!
you are here to share your gifts by making people laugh and enjoy with your very creative and very full of great thoughts post!
Thanks for being you!
I love to earn but I haven't tried joining PTC too...I always ignore messages I got from other members inviting me to join those....I can handle forum sites, I joined once but didn't stay there long...I am comfy here!
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | Cappy my dear, you may be here to earn, but you are also fun, funny, sweet and contribute more than most to your responses. I LOVE seeing you! | |
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| checapricorn (9968) | 10 months ago | thanks sparks for being a sweet friend too!
Just stay the same and even if I know a lot of people are maybe rating you down, you deserve to have blue star! You're very talented and a great person! | |
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| 8. AnnieOakley1 (1647) | 10 months ago | I dunno, maybe you have discussions listed in the 'top' and that makes you a target sometimes.
But, every time I post into a discussion out of 'our group', I get a scad of friends requests from people just trying to "collect" me. I check their profile, they are 18 or something & we have nothing in common. They seem to request everybody who responds to their discussion.
Well, unless I think we have something in common, I want to PM them, or I want to be notified when they make a discussion, I don't accept them.
I mean, if someone has responded to a discussion I started or I am in, and we strike up a conversation and there seems to be some commonality, I get why they request me or sometimes I request them.
But when I get requests out of the blue, that I can see no interaction between us has happened, I really have to scratch my head. | |
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | Yeah I hear ya. I logged in today, and from this discussion (I'm assuming) I had a half dozen requests. Boggles my mind! Bet a lot of these people didn't even respond......I haven't got to the end yet. lol
It annoys me though that some will request me over and over. Like, HELLO, wasn't the first denial a CLUE?*shakes head* | |
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| AnnieOakley1 (1647) | 10 months ago | Well, those types, I just leave pending, not denied, not accepted. That way they cannot ask again. ha ha ha ha | |
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| AnnieOakley1 (1647) | 10 months ago | Well, I gotta be ahead of ya on something, don't I?
bwhaa haaa haaa | |
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | Cyn says I'm only allowed to be wrong three times a year.
So I get to pass it on and tell you, you're only allowed to be ahead of me three times a year. You've already used up TWO and it's only February! ROFL | |
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| 9. jeffela (50) | 10 months ago |  Like - OMG...this is SO cool! You know what I did today? I, like, brushed my teeth with beeswax and then took a picture and put it up on my myspace page and then I brushed the knots out of my hair because I didn't brush my hair for, like, 8 days straight cuz, like, I wanted to see if I could grow dreadlocks but my girlfriend was all, "ewww you're SO not a Rastafarian," and I was like, "oh yeah," and she went, "YEAH," and then I put on my Bob Marley CD called legend and I was like, "hellllll-o if I'm not a Rastafarian how come I put this music on," and she was like, "HELLLLLL-O - because your mom, like, bought it for you for your birthday because you told her we took a cruise to Jamaica but, like, we just saw that commercial for a Jamaican vacation that one time," and I was all, "HEY MON - YOU'RE NOT THE BOSS-A ME," and she was like, "I'm outta here," and I went, "GOOD - GO then," and she was like, "I WILL," and I said, "FINE," and then we, like, made love and forgot what we were fighting about...today, like, ROCKED...I mean reggaed...
I think, like, I'm gonna write a book about my life, cuz it's so killer and people LOVE my stories...they say, "hey, bro, you should write a book cuz you live on the edge," and I'm like, yeah - someday...someday I will..."
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| Irishfrndly65 (7364) | 10 months ago | LMBO, oh man, you are WAY better at this than I am. I'm sending myklj over to read this and be annoyed. I tried but you are KING of the Ohmagod's! I bow to your magnificence! Totally awesome dude, totally! | |
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| jeffela (50) | 10 months ago | There was this one dude one time who was all, "DUDE - you talk purdy," and I was like, "yeah, bro...I feel ya," then I like, tried to give him some skin but he got like, real mad and tried to hit me in the face but like, I turned cuz I didn't want him to screw up my face (my girlfriend says I look like Johnny Depp) and when I turned he like hit me in the ear, and I was all, "BRO, WTF, MAN, OMG dude you are WHACK," and then he said something to me but like, I totally couldn't hear it because my ear was ringing so bad after he punched it but at least he didn't hit my face cuz that would suck...
AHHHHUHUH! DUDE - I gotta put that in my book...HAIL YEAH, BRO! That story rocks...
*begins "banging" head and holds up index/pinky fingers on right hand* | |
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | Like, yeah, gag me with a spoon!
I can't decide if you're like, Canadian, or a Valley Girl! ROFL
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| jeffela (50) | 10 months ago | I'll like, totally never tell, eh?!? | |
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| 10. Irishfrndly65 (7364) | 10 months ago | You know..I'd like to know this too. How does someone without a single solitary post find ME? Why? To what purpose? These are the deep abiding questions I would like them to answer, but...alas...I'd have to accept their friend request to find out.........and I'm not into PTC's........sigh........so if you find out, I'd really like to know! | |
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| sparkofinsanity (3522) | 10 months ago | I'll post a discussion about it! ROFL
It's just so annoying to turn down the same bozo time after time too! | |
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