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myLot reputation of 95/100. abby_gale (508)   ranked 97 out of 11,872 in love11 months ago

To those anybody who have read my previous discussions. This is the continuations about my ex reconciliation. He visits me everyday in my house right now and wants to date me again and still wants to live with me again. I told him that I met someone and I am carrying with this man's baby. And I told him that the man is far away from me. He cried and hurt when I told him that I am pregnant but he still begs and wants to fight his love for me. He even told me that he I made him crazy that he is too in love with me and wants to give me everything I want!! I felt sorry for him and I cried everyday thinking of him. We were living in together for three years so, he is special for me. And he told me that he is willing to support the baby that I am carrying right now and will give us a good life as long as I will go back to him. I told him I can't do it because I have someone already and I just want to be friends with him. I don't have feelings for him anymore but I just felt sorry him. I still care for him and that's all. What am I gonna do for him to stop loving me. He loves me too much and I don't want him to forget himself. I want him to take care of himself. He really regrets everything he did to me before but I know it is too late.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 84/100. anjel016 (222)   ranked 2,998 out of 11,872 in love   11 months ago

We almost have the same situation here. Anyway, me and my ex-boyfriend were not together that long. He broke up with me and after a few months he suddenly reappears and asks me if ever we can see each other again. Same with you, I am also with someone else so I just ignore my ex. Anyway as for your case, I agree with your decision of not going back to your ex-boyfriend. Even if you were together for three years, both of you, especially him, needs to move on. Probably you already got my point.

Regarding your current problem, I can suggest you some. But it will most probably hurt your ex-boyfriend.

~> You can always just ignore him whenever he is around. This way he will not bring his hopes up of getting you back.
~> Do not show him that you still care for him even if you do. If he will know that you still care for him, he might use this to do stupid stuffs just to have you back.
~> If possible, help him find a new girlfriend whom he will love.
~> If it will not be hard for you to move, then move. Do not inform him where you will move so that he will not be able to follow you.
~> Cut any communications that both of you have. This way, as time goes by he will be able to forget about you little by little.

Anyway, goodluck.


myLot reputation of 95/100. abby_gale (508)   ranked 97 out of 11,872 in love  11 months ago

Thank you so much for the advice. Yes, what I am doing right now is not showing him that I still care when he's around. He is really hurt and told me that I really change big and I am the same person that he knew but he is still hoping that I will still go back to him. I really felt sorry for him. I asked him to find someone better than me but he told me that he don't want to love anybody else after me and he is sure for that. He just called me just now and wants me to go to his place. I think I will tell him tomorrow to stop seeing me and communicating with me coz I am hurt too. I don't want us to get hurt more because every time we see each other, he gets hurt and I get hurt.

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2. kreola23 (76)   ranked 1,455 out of 11,872 in love   11 months ago

Oh godness!! I have been there. Think about the reason was that you broke up. If it was for a reason, then there is no point in going back. If he did something to hurt the relationship before, its going to be hard to forget all that he has done.I dont think goin back is a good idea especially youre pregnant with your new boyfriend. Theres a reason why he's your ex. My ex cheated on me and he was my first true love. It took me a long time to get healed. He couldn't touch me with a 10 foot pole now.. Didnt work for the first time, probably wont a second. MOVE ON!


myLot reputation of 95/100. abby_gale (508)   ranked 97 out of 11,872 in love  11 months ago

HI, thank you for the comment. Yes, you are right. I don't want to give him a 2nd chance. I felt sorry for him though and I felt sorry that he is suffering right now. He really wants me back, but it is too late.

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3. city_addict (33)   ranked 10,348 out of 11,872 in love   10 months ago

Time heals all wounds. Before, I said to myself I can't live with my ex though I felt oftentimes that he doesn't deserve me. But if a new love comes, that's the point when everybody realizes that there's always a new beginning ahead of you and you'll feel happy again. I always say, You only live once that's why, I would really choose the person who will love me back and who will really make me happy for the rest of my life. I think that's what everybody should do.

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