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myLot reputation of 85/100. Number1Femme (356)   ranked 5,152 out of 32,533 in mylot.com10 months ago

I am a lesbian (can't guarantee a guy would never sweep me off my feet but it is highly unlikely because there is no attraction to them in that way). However, I enjoy having male friends (not just gay men but straight men as well).
I like platonic relationships with them (going out to eat; taking a walk; just talking). There is no romance involved. Some people find this weird.
But I find it perfectly normal. Just as gay men enjoy being around feminine straight women, I am a lesbian who enjoys being around straight men. Why do people find this weird? What are your thoughts on it?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. rockydam83 (395)   ranked 16,186 out of 32,533 in mylot.com   10 months ago

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myLot reputation of 85/100. Number1Femme (356)   ranked 5,152 out of 32,533 in mylot.com  10 months ago

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myLot reputation of 68/100. phoenix79 (219)   ranked 6,464 out of 32,533 in mylot.com  9 months ago

I was so glad to hear of her sexual orientation. I think you should be able to hang out with any that you want to hang out with


myLot reputation of 89/100. rockydam83 (395)   ranked 16,186 out of 32,533 in mylot.com  9 months ago

I am trying for it. I guess you could be the lucky to enjoy some good time with her.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. Jae2619 (1135)   ranked 6,274 out of 32,533 in mylot.com   10 months ago

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myLot reputation of 85/100. Number1Femme (356)   ranked 5,152 out of 32,533 in mylot.com  10 months ago

I agree with you so much Jae2619! And one thing that I find is that most people think lesbians are lesbians because they hate men. That is not true at all. A lesbian is a woman who is attracted to other women. A lesbian is not a woman who is with women because she hates men. But I like your response. Hope to see you around mylot!*smiles*


myLot reputation of 97/100. Jae2619 (1135)   ranked 6,274 out of 32,533 in mylot.com  10 months ago

That is very true and people can't understand that. It's got nothing to do with being friends with someone, it's all about how you feel sexually for them. People probably find it odd that you can say.. I have a male friend whom I love... They would probably fall off their rocker hearing you say that because it's because they DONT want to understand and WONT try. Being open minding and looking at both sides of everything helps me see that it doesn't matter what others think, I do what makes me happy, and you are doing what makes you happy. If people can't look past your sexual preferences then screw them, they are the ones missing out, not you!

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. Tianna2 (1087)   ranked 975 out of 32,533 in mylot.com   10 months ago

I dont really find it that weird. Some people have a hard time dealing with anything out of what they think is normal. As long as your happy, it really shouldnt matter what other people think of how you live your life or who you like to hang out with.

Hugs, Tianna

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4. myLot reputation of 72/100. 00BleedingShadow00 (438)   ranked 3,522 out of 32,533 in mylot.com   10 months ago

I can't believe my eyes! Are you really a lesbian? Haha! I am a lesbian, too, but it is so obvious! But you??? Wow! Anyway, I also love hanging around with my straight male friends. I can;t see anything weird or strange about that.


myLot reputation of 85/100. Number1Femme (356)   ranked 5,152 out of 32,533 in mylot.com  10 months ago

Thank you 00BleedingShadow00! I get that all the time. People are like "Do you have a boyfriend?" and when I tell them their eyes widen and they stand their like all shocked.
I am more of the femme less aggressive type of lesbian. But that is just me. Anyway, I hope you're having a great day! Talk to you soon!

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5. myLot reputation of 80/100. crigal (101)   ranked 7,701 out of 32,533 in mylot.com   10 months ago

Why would this be considered weird? It's normal to have friends that you just enjoy being with without it turning into something more.

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6. myLot reputation of 90/100. twistdbrainz (173)   ranked 28,709 out of 32,533 in mylot.com   10 months ago

Hi....well i have many friends....some are girls and some are boys....my sexual orientation is straight......now if a straight person can have girl as well as boy friends so can the gays and lesbians....theres simply no problem with it....and the people who think this is wierd....they are actually acting wierd to be thinking this....bcoz a person can love whoever he wants to and also be friends with whoever he wants to...
i'm with you....as a friend and i dont have any problemss

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7. myLot reputation of 27/100. snayak11 (128)   ranked 11,442 out of 32,533 in mylot.com   10 months ago

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. Lore2009 (827)   ranked 1,258 out of 32,533 in mylot.com   10 months ago

Those people are the weird ones... they can't have a open mind!

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. highflyingxangel (8990)   ranked 355 out of 32,533 in mylot.com   10 months ago

I find it weird. I am a lesbian and I can't say that I prefer the company of men. I prefer the company of women. I'm not interested in dating the women that I am friends with, we're just that, friends. I connect a lot better with women, men I just find really annoying.

My girlfriend enjoys the company of men. She would prefer to be friends with guys than over women. I can't understand it at all. It doesn't make any sense to me. I don't understand how women can really find the company of men more pleasurable than the company of women. Women and men are completely different people and they act so differently I can't see a common ground there that would make me want to be friends with nothing but men.

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. SomeCowgirl (8169)   ranked 37 out of 32,533 in mylot.com   10 months ago

I really don't think that that is odd at all. Your sexual orientation should have nothing to do with your social life. I think that if anything it's more of a stereotype for people to not think you would like to be in the company of straight men!

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